Confusion in personal character, confusion in personality

Hehe, kind of like my ......

I am a very conflicted person, listening to my teachers at school and my parents at home. But other than that, I don't know how many miles worse than a good student ......like that of a good student

At the same time, I am also a person with low self-esteem in my bones.

Maybe it's because of my family environment. My family is not poor, but my parents are very strict, no matter what happens, I will definitely be scolded.

Later, when I grew up, I watched a lot of **, and then I said to myself, stand up and look at people! Everyone is equal, why should I feel inferior? Why can't I trust myself?!

There have been a few times when I went out with my friends and we were left alone. When I walked home by myself, I really wanted to cry, but I still silently said to myself that no one in this world can really accompany me to the end, and only I will never abandon and forget myself. What's the use of crying.

You can't cry anything, can you?

Try to be such a person-

Don't care about all kinds of money, fame and fortune in the world, just be content and happy.

You should think twice about what is right and wrong in everything you do, so that even if you fail, you can say to yourself that this is your own decision, and there is nothing to regret.

Treat your friends with sincerity, don't be mercenary.

Don't always dwell on the past, it's already history, just leave a nostalgia.

Be optimistic about the future, don't always imagine how unbearable it will be, as long as you put in the effort, there will be a reward, the boat will be straight to the bridge, if you can't do anything, just wait and see, and brake quietly.

Well, I don't have much to say, I just hope you understand.

It's not easy for me to comprehend this.

It should be that you used to be very welcome or concerned Now you suddenly find that you don't have the previous sense of superiority So you will feel a little lonely and even inferior It is recommended to ignore those current things that you want to do As we grow older, many things are done by ourselves We have to make our own decisions And others don't care more about what you do Because everyone has their own things to do Of course, if someone cares about you, it's your friend, hang out with your friends more This will reduce a lot of loneliness.

Adapt to your own growth.

Don't care too much about other people's attitudes, the most important thing is to be yourself!

When you have nothing to do, read more books, listen to **, life will inevitably experience ups and downs, you can't be afraid of pressure, you can't escape responsibility, bravely meet it, overcome it, and you will become the master of life.

Everyone is confused at times, and I was like you for a while, feeling very lost and not being noticed. At this time, I began to pay attention to the people and things around me, began to show concern and love for others, and often thought that when I was happy, I was in a cheerful mood. It seems that my concern has taken effect, and the people around me have slowly become concerned about me again.

I feel like I want to be as happy as the whole world. Think more about how happy and successful you are, and you will be confident again, so good luck.

In fact, I sometimes have this kind of confusion When I was a child, I was very introverted, and beautiful women always compared me with others, and I had a deep-rooted inferiority complex in my heart, and then I grew up, and I found that this kind of personality is not good at all, and it is impossible to adapt to society! So I started to force myself to change, actively participate in school activities, actively make friends, and now my classmates think I'm confident and cheerful, of course, sometimes I feel inexplicably sad, sometimes I feel inferior, and I want to retreat, but in hindsight, it's nothing, so we all have to work hard! Don't let your little emotions hurt you!

Believe in yourself!!

Growing pains are just that! You'll grow into a big tree! All of our friends who participated in the answer believe it!

Keep smiling. Yangguan is always after the wind and rain.

Read it seriously.,The landlord's writing is very good.,Envy.。

I'm exactly the same personality as you, so I'm one of the same kind. But I'm not as extreme as you, at least not blushing now, which requires long-term exercise. I agree with you that the formation of personality is closely related to the family environment and learning environment in childhood, and most importantly, genetics.

What you have to do is to face the problem bravely instead of running away from it, and say to yourself in your heart: I can do it, I can do it.

The key is not self-confidence. And you can't take it up, you can't put it down, because you're afraid of losing people, and you can't afford to lose people.

When you are nervous about what others think of you, in fact, people don't think about it that much, even if you are embarrassed, what about it? The worst-case scenario doesn't kill anyone, so you're scaring yourself.

1. Say one of your own advantages every day, different advantages, even if you pick up money for the police uncle today, it can also be regarded as an advantage. Then tell the people around you, and if you dare to tell people you don't know, that's even better.

2. Try to take the initiative to talk to strangers, passers-by abcd....It's even better.

3. Say what you said above in the mirror in the most natural tone and the most appropriate expression.

This is a slow project, on the one hand, it is difficult for people without self-confidence to show their true selves, and on the other hand, they do not have a correct understanding of themselves, and they are vague and unclear, so they are not confident. I hope you can bravely step out of yourself, and good luck!

You are under a lot of pressure, you don't care about anything anymore, it's just that you really don't dare to face it, and you want scholars to decompress yourself, and you can shout it out loud where no one is.

It is recommended that you watch "Knowing People with Colored Eyes".

You say you're scared, you're just staying scared, you don't think about it, what are you afraid of? Can you tell? If you list the reasons for being afraid one by one, write them down on paper, and then analyze them one by one, try it, you will find the answer, good luck!

Personality is not developed in a day, and it is not something that can be changed in a day, your main problem is that you are not confident, and there is the shame to express your inner emotions, which is very common for many people, so don't pay too much attention to it. I'll teach you a simple way to learn narcissism first.

Don't leave immediately after brushing your teeth and washing your face every morning, take a closer look at yourself in the mirror, and then pick out your strengths, such as big eyes, thick eyebrows, or a straight nose, black hair, in short, pick out the advantages, and then praise yourself in the mirror, for example: your eyes are beautiful. Then smile at yourself in the mirror, you may not be used to it at first, that's normal, once or twice, and then gradually extend the time you spend looking in the mirror, and praise yourself more, such as:

You are awesome! I like you! Something you did well today, keep it up.

Come on! In fact, this is a kind of psychological suggestion to yourself, slowly you will find that you have self-confidence, willing to communicate with others, and in the process of communicating with others, you will increase your self-confidence, let others like you First of all, your own likes yourself, even people who don't like yourself, how can others like it.

Of course, increasing self-confidence is only the first step, if you want to better interact with people, you also need to pay attention to some other social skills, but self-confidence is the first step to do this first.

Hope it helps.

It's easy to change your personality, the most important thing is time and autosuggestion, and your usual habits. That's all that matters!

After reading your article, I feel that you are not as good at talking as you say! Hehe, in my opinion, the shortcomings you summarized will actually be more or less reflected in everyone's body!

The performance in front of everyone is extremely unnatural, I always feel that I am being watched, my actions are contrived, and my eyes don't know where to look! "When listening to others and talking to others, it is recommended that you must look them in the eyes, which will not only increase your self-confidence, but also make the person you are talking to feel that you respect them. Even if it's unnatural, hold on!

If you want to change, you have to have a certain amount of courage!

Lack of courage to talk to people, in front of their own acquaintances, talk and laugh freely, humorous, once there is a stranger on the occasion, the heart is not calm "It is understandable that there will be this situation in the face of strangers, this I think your main problem is still lack of self-confidence, read more articles that will improve self-confidence will help you, and you can also tell you a way that I think is good, that is, I am handsome in the mirror every day!" Always smile at yourself in the mirror! Hehe......

Introversion can also be successful, introversion has the advantage of being introverted, you don't have to be inferior, you can check out "Introvert So Successful" will help you.

Read more books on success, and it is recommended to participate in some marketing and direct sales activities! Then you can go to an unfamiliar place (such as the morning square, no one you know) to recite aloud, or self-motivation! Everything is difficult at the beginning, and it is good to experience more.

Li Yang's crazy English form is good!

I really didn't see that you were an introvert, and your writing was good.

Attention, empathy.

While you are afraid of others, he is also afraid of you.

The most prominent feature of this kind of character is the word "different".

Your friend is a typical maverick, he is very brainy, very open-minded, and his most distinctive characteristic is that he seeks to be different in everything. Such a person does not have a qualitative approach to his work, and it is difficult to estimate his behavior. But the heart is not very complicated.

People who pursue everything like this are usually very conflicted in their hearts. On the one hand, there is pride, and there is a kind of high that everyone is drunk and I am sober. So he doesn't care what others say, is a maverick, and does whatever he wants.

But on the other hand, it contains a kind of inferiority, a lack of confidence in one's own ability, so I will pursue something different, because I don't have such self-confidence in my heart: even if I do the same thing as others, I can still stand out from the crowd.

A mixture of pride and inferiority, who doesn't care about what others say, lives in their own thoughts, but actually cares a lot about what others say, and always wants to get the attention of others, even if it's negative. And the pursuit of "differentness" is a means he hopes to get everyone's attention.

People with such a personality have a very rich imagination and are particularly sensitive to emotions, plus uncertain thoughts, if they are engaged in creative industries, such as painting, writing, advertising planning, etc., they will have a very big advantage. But the specificity of his personality makes it difficult for him to integrate into the public, even if he does, he can only be a marginal character, difficult to play a leading role, interpersonal communication is his weakness, if he is engaged in a profession with more social interactions, such as sales, he will be at a great disadvantage.

Personally, I feel that it is okay if the personality does not change, and the key is to find the right direction for the future development. Let Einstein go to sales, and he can definitely starve him to death.

The typical Scorpio man's personality goes with the flow.

Such people are mavericks, more machismo, and easy to stand out in the team. Personally, I think he is a leader

It's a young and frivolous type, and as you get older and more experienced, you will gradually become popular.

Hehe, this character is 8 wrong, just like me back then.

It's not a big deal, it's just a pitiful guy.

Your problem is not a personality problem, but a problem of your self-confidence, you don't have enough confidence to get along with people in an unfamiliar environment, so, you can't blend in, or in other words, you don't have the ability to blend into the environment you're learning in.

In fact, when you just enter an unfamiliar environment, there is no problem with the way you deal with it, rarely speak, rarely interact with people, and hold things in your heart, but after a long time, you can't hold it back, and often doubt the evaluation of others about you, feel that others think you are "weird", and you are trying to get rid of this "weird" strangeness. This approach is problematic, no matter what you do, the classmates next to you still can't understand you, and your weirdness becomes a reality.

Suggestion: Be yourself, don't care about what others say about you, be a confident person, I'm like this, although I don't fit in, but I don't need to cooperate in the process of learning, and I don't need to fit in. I don't care what people think of me, I'm here to learn, not to make friends, so we just need to live in harmony.

It turns out that northerners are not better than southerners, on the contrary, southerners are better than northerners in many ways, so why do you have to learn from northerners? In the end, I can't find myself after learning it? It's like a toddler in Handan!

Friends, suggest improving yours"Speak"Psychology

1. Introduce and explain your situation in a frank way, It's not that I don't like to talk, I'm a southerner, and I'm not very comfortable with northern dialect.

2. Try to find the same topic in the north and south first.

3. Improve your expression skills, first find someone who doesn't like to talk to practice, speak before him every time, and say at least one more sentence than her!

4. Not liking to talk is generally a sign of lack of self-confidence. Try to learn more about a wide range of knowledge.

5. Not being talkative also has its advantages, being able to listen to others and gain the trust of others.

6. Be prepared to speak in advance, write down what you want to say on a small piece of paper, memorize it silently, and repeatedly tell yourself in your heart.

7, With this in mind, say to yourself, I'll say when so-and-so finishes, or, 1,2,3, good speech!

8. Read more humorous articles. Not smiling is a major obstacle to human contact. It doesn't have to be funny to laugh, there are also knowing laughter, happy laughter and bitter laughter.

Try smiling first and saying in the mirror, "Hello, see you again." What a mood today!

9. If you don't like to talk, you can also communicate with people in the way of writing, and lo and behold, there are so many people who communicate with you about your questions.

During the Spring Festival, everyone is happy, take the opportunity to say a few more words, and when you go to school again, you will be smiling.

I sincerely wish you well! z.