What kind of man is right for me? Do you understand me?

You and those girls are two extremes, so it will also be difficult on the emotional road. They are too dependent and too cautious, so they will definitely not grow. But if you are too strong, it will cause a man to be psychologically unbalanced, and even reduce self-confidence, and the pressure will definitely increase over time.

Therefore, the ideal object in a man's mind is: a woman who is weaker than himself, who is empathetic and gentle with himself, but who is not very dependent, and who will not be able to control him casually. In these areas, you are not a perfect score.

So it's perfect to weaken your energy a little bit on your "strength". Even if you deliberately pretend for a while, you will receive good results.

You think too much, at the age of 20, you think all day long about what man is suitable for you, it's not to say that it is suitable for you, fate is naturally suitable, and it is not to buy clothes to be suitable, if you like him, you will naturally change for him, and if he likes you, he will change for you, whatever is suitable for you is fake, no one and who are absolutely suitable.

Not yours! No matter how you force it, it's not yours! It's yours after all, it's yours!

Can't run! I admire girls like you! The kind that needs to be strong!

I'm looking for a man who doesn't look up much more than you! 2 people working together! That's the nourishment of life!

You both have a common goal! Let's work together! Take your time to find your Prince Charming!!

There are a lot of people like this, how many people can find their true love at one time?

You say you're a guy who likes to struggle and doesn't want to rely on anyone, but you actually want to lean on the shoulders of a man who understands you.

Your answer is also here, you need a man who understands you, a mature man.

It's okay, it's not too big yet. Love -- this word is not in a hurry. It can't be forced.

A man like me is more suitable for you.

When looking for a partner, you need to pay attention to the following three aspects to avoid falling in love with an inappropriate man by mistake.

1. Don't always cultivate feelings online.

In the past, we didn't have a mobile phone**, so we could only rely on the format of the letter to care about the other party and express our thoughts. Nowadays, everyone seems to be on their mobile phones, even if they meet someone they like, they just want their mobile phones to push ambiguous information content and carry out a virtual relationship. But the object of this method is nothing more than a hidden emotional relationship.

Due to the stage of love, men are aware of hiding themselves, and everyone can talk flatteringly and conspire. But whether he is really committed to your future is often uncertain.

Therefore, in any case, if you are always looking for a partner, don't limit yourself to getting to know each other online, but infiltrate the actual operation and live with each other. It's only after you've lived together in real life that you can truly understand what kind of person each other is, because most of the small details are discovered by real touch. And in real life, his attitude towards you usually reflects what he will look like in the future.

2. Don't easily believe verbal promises.

There is a man, he said: "I will not easily say the service commitment, because I think that if you can't do it, don't agree to it, and the service commitment that can't be done is not a mess, but a reflection of irresponsibility." Indeed, the speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention.

If you make a promise casually, it's likely that women will easily believe it and wait for you to fulfill it. Unexpectedly, you forgot.

If he really loves you, he won't just say a service pledge or give a blank check. Because she knows very well that if you can't do it, you will be very disappointed, and you will be very uncomfortable, even if he treats you as a partner, then he will have to bear responsibility for their actions.

At all times, you must make it clear that during the period of falling in love, don't listen to what the man says, but look at what you have done for him. It's easiest to run the train with your mouth full, but it takes to pay, and often not all men will end up in it.

3. Men who can't take care of themselves.

Some men are overly spoiled by their mothers in an environment where they grow up, and it may be difficult for them to be alone when they grow up. This type of people, whether in interpersonal communication or emotional relationships, many do not know how to correct themselves, and lack self-motivation. If you are with such a person, you can't have a future.

Don't be a little, don't be with immature men, so these men can't even take care of themselves, this person has no way to make you love.

In the end, what I want to say is that as a woman, you don't want to gradually start a relationship because of uninteresting and empty grounds, and you need to think twice before you talk about someone at any time. The vast majority of chills are due to impulsive choices when they were young. Sometimes single men and women are not terrible, and they are even more terrible than rational emotions.

It depends on what kind of man you like, just like the size of your clothes and shoes, if it doesn't fit, what about giving a famous brand.

Understanding men is nothing more than these five points.

1. Same values;

First of all, you must have the same values, so that you don't feel tired to get along. The same values are gradually reflected in getting along, don't rush to become a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, first make a few appointments, try to get along for a while, generally three dates, you can see some clues.

When getting along, feel comfortable or not, and don't try to lie to yourself. A woman's intuition is very sensitive, don't enter into an unsuitable relationship because of guilt, so that it will hurt both of you for a long time.

2. Respect each other;

Secondly, it is whether you can respect each other when you get along. Some men are very good at disguise, and in the early stages of their relationship, they will package themselves as a gentleman and have a good demeanor, but they may not be respectful to others, such as yelling at the waiter during a meal, and being impatient with the cashier when buying something at the supermarket. Such a man should stay away from him, because he has been with you for a long time, and he will definitely not respect you.

A man who respects you, when in love, will definitely respect your ideas and the things you like, and when you get along with him, you will definitely be like a spring breeze and feel comfortable. When you get married in the future, mutual respect is indispensable in your husband and wife's life.

3. Hormonal attraction;

Between you and him, there will be attraction between the sexes. From the look in your eyes to your body language, you can tell if the other person is interested in you. The difference between men and women brings an inexplicable attraction between the sexes.

If there is none at all, then why rush into a relationship?

Generally, men will pursue girls out of hormonal attraction. The girl's reaction will be slower, and after getting along for a while, she will gradually be attracted by the advantages shown by the boy. If, after getting along, both of you have a crush on each other in this regard, then it is one of the factors that contribute to maintaining a stable relationship.

4. Same hobbies.

If you both share the same hobbies, that's great. Because the same hobby has a common language, you can discuss the things you like together, and gradually develop feelings in the exchange.

Lovers or couples with the same hobbies, as the relationship deepens, the two will get to know each other more and more, and there will be more and more tacit understanding. Marriages will also be more stable than the average couple.

In fact, the same hobby can be cultivated, as long as both parties have the heart, find a project that both people are interested in, and then study together and discuss with each other, then the relationship between you will definitely get better and better.