Discussion: What do you think about girls who take the initiative?

Actually, there's nothing wrong with taking the initiative to be a girl. They dare to think about confessing to the person they like, so it is not easy to lose the opportunity. For them, if she likes you, she will definitely chase you.

Although traditional Chinese morality requires girls to be subtle and abide by the three obedience and four virtues. However, the openness of the current era and the progress of society have made people get out of the misunderstanding of blind conservatism, so girls are becoming more and more open and active. I'm just a person who lives in a variety of rules and regulations, and I never take the initiative to say something to someone I like.

So I also lost a lot, and I can feel the taste of loss. I also envy the audacity of modern girls, but I can never be. In fact, active girls are not what some people think"It's too open for me to accept", or"It's crazy, it's definitely not single-minded".

Actually, these are people who look at people with colored glasses. They just fully seized the opportunity and didn't let anyone they like miss out, even if he didn't agree after speaking, there would be no regrets. They grab the people they like like like people who seize the opportunity to succeed, there is no difference, but the object they want to catch is different.

So, if one day, this kind of girl wants you to confess, if you like her, don't feel that she is restless and reject her because of her initiative. Because you may find out that she is actually a very nice girl!

Girls in general do not take the initiative. Active girls are not ordinary. Spicy b be careful.

It's hard to say, what if this girl only takes the initiative with you?

It depends.

A girl who takes the initiative is a woman who takes the initiative.

They sometimes give people the illusion that their personality is like this. Don't cross over to that line. Often this kind of love lasts short. If you want to be a simple couple, you can also communicate.

If she only takes the initiative with you, it will be very different.

If you like it, you can say it directly, and you can show it directly. It's the same if you don't like it, I think this is a real person, real life, I don't dare to say what I like, and I don't like it. What is the meaning of living like this?

Taking the initiative can only prove that the passive party is too attractive and too attractive to be able to take the initiative for you Besides, if the two parties really love each other, what does it matter who takes the initiative

Fainting. Look at her as a human being! Both men and women are full of lust for the opposite sex. It makes no difference if a girl takes the initiative or a boy takes the initiative!

Men and women are the same, and women also have the right to pursue happiness, how? This shows that this woman is not too much...Boring, if you like him, you can accept that there are so many things, which can only mean that you are cringeful and have to wait for other girls to confess to you first.

How can love be cheap?

Love, if you can't take the initiative to grasp it, proves that your love is not enough. When you care about what others think, you hold back and hesitate. What was supposed to be yours, what you wanted, is long gone.

Love, to put it simply, can be grasped, it is yours, and you always need to take the initiative to fight for it. Maybe the pants make someone ask, what if someone chases you? If others chase you, you have to accept it!

In the ocean of love, people who don't take the initiative will only end up heartbroken, pitiful and pathetic.

Therefore, taking the initiative is not cheap, but for your love, striving for a better future!

However, hard work, in the eyes of people, is often cheap.

Gift. I don't have anything to say separately from love? Because gifts and love are two different things.

The so-called, if you have no merit and no benefit, and others give you gifts, it means that you have asked for it, and it is natural to give what you ask for and receive its gifts. Reciprocal exchange of courtesies is a kind of politeness, and there is also a meaning of not owing each other to each other. The only people who take the initiative to ask for gifts are the thick-skinned and shameless people.

It's not cheap, it's made.

So, it has nothing to do with cheapness.

If you have to confuse love with gifts, then giving gifts is also a way to maintain love. Offering to ask for gifts, there is also no such thing as cheapness. It's like your wife telling you to buy a lipstick, although she feels a little distressed about her purse, but she still buys it in the end.

Do you think your wife is very contrived with such a request? Is it cheap? From another point of view, will the woman find such a request cheap?

They are all people who want to live together, why should they be so clearly divided.

Unless you don't love each other much at all.

It should be normal for girls to take the initiative, and sometimes it is better to take the initiative.

One: The person who takes the initiative does not really pay well on the knife edge that the other party needs. It's like being kind enough to help Yu Qi, the other party you give may not want it, and it may not be needed.

Second: too active will make the other party feel that everything is too easy, we all know that the harder it is, the more precious it is, just like the rainbow that appears after experiencing the wind and rain will also make people feel better, of course, it is not excluded that the rainbow is colorful, I think it is more beautiful to have wind and rain. Anything that comes too easily will make people subconsciously bury the word "general".

People are especially precious for what they have worked so hard to earn.

Three: Will there be that (: I know you won't go, so I can run amok?)

In fact, some people don't really feel cheap, but the enjoyers know that this kind of initiative has a certain amount of insurance and will not disappear, so they are very casual and do not pay attention to it. For example, family affection, we are always more polite and polite in front of strangers.

It's easier to release all your emotions in front of your loved ones. In fact, I think I should be more restrained in front of my relatives, and I say that the love of parents is great and does not ask for anything in return, so is this kind of love cheap? I don't think so, and I can't think that parents should do that.

Everyone has nothing to do, everyone must know how to be grateful, and no kind of pay can be said to be cheap and rotten.

A man's pursuit of a woman is actually a hunting process, and the prey that is directly delivered to his mouth must not be cherished, because he does not enjoy the process of conquest, on the contrary, the prey he spends a lot of time and energy getting, he will be reluctant to eat, and the hard-won harvest. Let him know how to cherish it better. A smart woman will not always be stupid and good to a man, because she knows that the other party will not cherish it, you only need to be good to him occasionally, such as commemorative days, it is best when he is most vulnerable and sick, you will never abandon him to take care of him, enough for him to remember you for a lifetime.

In conclusion, I just want to say that any relationship should be based on "mutuality", "coming and going", and mutual understanding and understanding. I don't take the initiative to get anyone's favor and I don't let anyone down for my help. Don't be a stupid child who can only give, and don't think of yourself as so kind and generous that you have wronged yourself.

She really likes you to bury her relatives, otherwise, the girl will not take the initiative to a boy in Zihui casually, <>

How? We should look at a person's character, a person is a cheerful, why should we think too much?

In the face of feelings, regardless of men and women, they all have the same right to pursue their own love, and girls are no exception.

1.Because of the traditional ideas of men and women in ancient China, girls basically will not break the secular concept of pursuing the person they like, many times the marriage is decided by the parents, thousands of years of ideology and concepts have continued to this day, and the idea of girls pursuing love Zheng Yuan has also been restrained, and now for their own love, many girls have also taken the initiative to pursue the road of love.

2.In many cases, it is boys who pursue girls, and few girls take the initiative to pursue their love, so it is easy to miss the person they like, and girls should also take the initiative to pursue the person they like, and don't let their youth regret it because of their timidity.

3.As the saying goes, "men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the veil", it is much easier for girls to chase boys than boys to chase girls, girls should give full play to their strengths, capture the boys they like, and should not miss their favorite people for the sake of the so-called face.

Some people think that the active love of girls is easy to be cherished by boys, and even hurt by it, in fact, the maintenance of feelings depends on both parties, and a person's emotional contribution is not able to withstand the consideration of time after all, if you really meet such a boy, you can also recognize the despicability of the other party in advance, and avoid the unhappiness of married life.

Should take the initiative, if you meet someone who likes to be generous, girls can also take the initiative, now the society is different, men and women are equal, if you miss the opportunity because of cowardice, you will really regret it.

Hello! 01. Boys must take the initiative. In every relationship, girls should also be more active, but as long as they enjoy it. Because most of the time, what girls want is just for boys to be able to think more about them, be more caring and considerate.

02, boys are going to take the initiative! Girls will always be thinner than boys, and when it comes to saying that girls will like assertive boys, according to common sense, it is generally better for boys to take the initiative, because some embarrassment can be avoided. Nowadays, there are more successful boys who take the initiative in society, but they still have to judge by their own character!

03, it is better for men to take the initiative, I personally think that girls taking the initiative will create a sense of superiority for boys, so that people who are not emotionally delicate enough will not know how to be considerate. And if you happen to be a boy, you can give the girl a sense of security if you take the initiative.

04. The relationship is two-sided, there is no rule who must take the initiative, but in order to show that he is a gentleman, most of the boys are taking the initiative to travel to Lahong, of course, girls should also take the initiative, otherwise they will be tired after a long time, and the relationship will go far.

05. From a girl's point of view, I hope that boys will be more active, female students in love will be very much looking forward to it, and they are looking forward to a message from their boyfriend at any time, calling ** to care about themselves, and a small number of girls are also very active, depending on what way you want to fall in love.

06. To a certain extent, it can only be the first person who likes it to take the initiative. In the past, it was naturally the man who took the initiative first, but now no one will mind the woman taking the initiative. Of course, it also depends on the individual's personality.

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I don't like girls who are more proactive and direct, because girls may be less accustomed to being proactive and direct. My wife is what I actively pursued.

I will take the initiative to express love in intimate relationships, and it is very important to take the initiative to express love. It is also to my wife, I often take the initiative to express love.

I liked someone for more than 10 years at the most, and eventually she became my wife and we were together.

<>I love the company of my family.

I don't mind my partner's past and just want him to have a better present and future.

My experience has made me cherish my current love even more.

This makes me feel that the company of my family is also very important.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal.

The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, to have the confidence not to stretch out her hands and take money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human beings to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence is understood in the current society, and it will be explained as follows:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

Time periods.

If you have a crush on a boy.

Girls have to take the initiative to do something.

Let that guy notice you.

Catch his eye.

But after that, it's better to let the boy take the initiative in the pursuit of confession or something, after all, most girls still want to find a boyfriend who loves them.

The girls who spend time and time to catch up will be cherished by boys.