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Love doesn't have to be based on material, it's okay if you don't starve to death, and girls who really like you won't value your money too much, but value your character and potential. If you don't have money to earn, you don't have potential and ideals, then it's miserable.
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Feeling is a must.
Matter is necessary.
Love is about spending, gifts, dating, shows, and romance, which is indispensable for material things. However, it is not that the richer the material love, the more perfect it is, the key is to see what type of object you choose. Some people are more materialistic, while others are more emotional.
Feelings are not piled up with money, but if we can't afford to buy gifts on Valentine's Day, and we always go shopping on the street without spending on dates, it is estimated that this relationship will be difficult to last!
Balato love, after all, is one of the very few cases in the long history of mankind, and no one can completely put aside material things for love! Therefore, a perfect love must have wonderful feelings for each other, as well as the necessary materials to promote the sublimation of feelings.
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I think that after studying politics for so long, one of the things that grandpa said is called a classic "economic base determines superstructure". The economic base is material, and the spiritual is the superstructure (such as love), there is no food to eat, and there is still strength to talk about feelings. Even if you have feelings, you have to count if you want to eat a watermelon every day, you have to think about how many days you can take the bus if you want to take a taxi, how much it will cost you to eat a good meal, and how many people will feel very happy when they wear dozens of clothes on the roadside???
Every day in the quarrel, how much love is gone, life is the most practical, the most realistic thing...
However, life cannot be without money, nor can there be only material things, love is a must, and no matter how rich you are, it will be in vain if you don't give it to you. You have to find a balance point, and this balance point is only known to you.
For example, he is poor now, but he is self-motivated and hardworking, and you think that he will definitely have a future in the future, and more importantly, he loves you very much, then you ignore the above, because you can bear it. If you can't stand it in the short term, then you should favor the economy.
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It's okay to have no money, but it's more difficult than usual. In today's society, material things are necessary. Those who say no are in an idealized love. And realistic love is on a material basis. How much is not a question, but how much you think is a degree.
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It depends on who you meet.
Some people don't care about material needs.
And some of the more practical, or more money-worshipping, pay more attention to this aspect of things.
Everyone thinks differently.
As someone said, although money is not everything, no money is everything.
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Yes, you must! As the saying goes, there is love and drinking water! No bread? Can you stand just drinking water? Feelings should also be maintained on a material basis! How long can a relationship without material maintenance last?
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In today's Chinese society, basically speaking, you can't fall in love without money. But just because you're rich doesn't mean you'll be able to find a good partner and have a good marriage. The key is to run it personally.
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Although it is said that love with material intervention is not real, the position of material in love is still very heavy, and love without material is a bit unrealistic.
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Not necessarily, but an appropriate material basis is needed. It depends on what the other person thinks.
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Money is not everything, but no money is everything.
Poor couples mourn everything.
O quote, O truth!!
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It is certainly not possible without a certain economic foundation, but it is not absolute, for example, you are just a piece of gold without a flash of light.
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That's right, otherwise love will disappear little by little under the material.
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Not necessarily, it can only be said that you haven't found love.
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No money means that you are destitute or you can only live a small life, if it is the former, love is a luxury for you; If it's the latter, you can run a bland and long-lasting love.
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Most of the time this is the case, it is not excluded that you meet a good soulmate who does not mind the money.
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No, as long as there is love, it is fine.
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Not necessarily, but yes.
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I think it's a must.
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I think these two things are still connected. Hehe.
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Love needs to be built on a material basis, if there is no material, how to invite your girlfriend to dinner, shopping, and watching movies. If you can't accompany your girlfriend, you won't have the opportunity to get to know each other. So it has to be based on economic conditions.
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Because you can only talk about these feelings after you have material things, and you need money for everything in life, I think this is a very real problem, and it is an unavoidable problem.
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This is because if you have money, there will not be a lot of conflicts in life, and there will be special harmony in feelings, so she will say this.
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Because all women want to live a good life, and the most important thing for women is material conditions, so your girlfriend will say so.
In fact, as far as your boyfriend's work is concerned, it is a very good person, at least it can be said that he is considering marriage, but from a realistic point of view, he is a self-centered person, for 3 years, I don't know if you have proposed to let him correct, I think the environment will create people and change people, in the same way, maybe he has also considered changing, and the friends around him have been influencing him like that, which may be one of the reasons why he can't change, so it's not an excuse to escape, when the problem arises, we need to face it, this is the right way, Personally, I feel that the return on your investment in a relationship for 3 years is almost zero, so why do you continue? It is said that a woman's age is accurate and precious in seconds, so whether it is too cruel for you to waste your youth, when you continue to interrupt, it will only be a pain that you will repeat.