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Since it is unforgivable, you certainly cannot forgive him.
But there are exceptions, such as when he has already paid for his actions, in which case you should not continue to punish him, but should try to help him come out of the shadows.
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Anyone needs family affection, and no one's affection can replace the relationship between you and your relatives, what can't you get by. Persuasion by others in your heart is only temporary, play a temporary role, only your own concept really changes, you can really forgive them, what's there, forget the unhappy things, if one day because of your willfulness to lose the family affection with your family, when you need it is no one can replace it. You have to think twice.
Everyone has bitterness in their hearts. But I'm crying in my heart, stand on, you'll be proud of your clever behavior. Work hard, I've got your back.
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I believe that there is no unforgivable mistake, love also has a price, love is fraternity, tolerance, understanding, and giving; It's not possession.
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Relatives may be very impulsive to do the wrong thing, but I don't know what kind of person your relative is, but one thing is certain: what he did is unforgivable!! Therefore, it is best not to have more contact with the provincial over-haired fire in the near future, which will be unsightly.
After a while, you will ask him what is going on, and you can talk about it if you can, and if it doesn't work, you won't talk about it, and you will have nothing else to do with him.
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Think about the good that your loved ones have done to you, and forget about the wrong things you have done.
Engrave the good in stone and keep it forever, and write the bad on the sand and let the wind blow away
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Fight with them and act like it didn't happen!
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It's parents, siblings, or husband and wife.
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With the continuous development of social economy, in real life, we will encounter all kinds of boring problems, especially for family members, no matter what kind of mistakes are made, can we forgive? In fact, we must know that for us, the mistakes made by our family members cannot be too much, and if the mistakes made have hurt each other's family affection, then this kind of mistake cannot be forgiven.
First of all, we have to understand this problem, that is, no matter what kind of mistakes the family makes, we can't generalize, if the mistakes made by the family have hurt the feelings between the family members, and have seriously hurt themselves, then this kind of mistake can not be forgiven, we are not saints, let alone people who are universal sentient beings, we also have temper, and we also have our own ideas, so when our family members have violated the matter, it has seriously hurt ourselves. Then this kind of thing can't be forgiven.
Besides, if it is really a family, then there will be no such thing to hurt the family, let alone use morality to kidnap their own family, so in real life, we must analyze according to the actual situation, if the behavior of our family has seriously hurt ourselves, and we have destroyed the relationship between ourselves and our families, then there is no need to continue to forgive, each of us is an ordinary person, we all have our own character and our own temper, We don't allow others to hurt our own families, but at the same time we don't allow our own families to hurt ourselves severely.
To sum up, we can obviously know that not all mistakes can be forgiven to our family, if our family has hurt ourselves, then we feel that there is no need, forgiveness is for relatively minor situations, if it is a very important situation, then we can not choose to forgive.
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No, if the family makes some major mistakes, I don't think it's worth forgiving, everyone is an individual, and they don't envy Hanxian to tolerate it because they are family members.
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I think it depends on what mistakes have been made, and if they are mistakes that can be corrected or reversed, then they can be forgiven.
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I think it depends on the severity of the mistake, and not all of them can be forgiven.
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I will. The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And we are always easy to get lost, so that we make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad. Buddhism has clouds:
The bitter sea is boundless, and the shore is turned back. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out.
To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. Don't doubt your ability to fight early because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for a more exciting tomorrow for Lu Mo.
Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that on the journey ahead, every mistake is another growth in life, and we can only find our own right direction by constantly exploring and making mistakes.
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Maybe I will forgive someone who betrayed me, but I will keep this hurt in my heart as a warning to myself that I will never associate with such a person again!
If you hold a grudge because someone hurt you, your life or your relationships will stagnate. Learn to accept that the past is in the past and try to convince yourself that "so-and-so has let me down, so I'm angry." But I choose to accept the fact because it has happened" or "I accept what has happened and how I feel about it."
Accept what that person has done to you, and admit that it is not something you can control.
However, you can control your attitude towards this matter. Recognizing your own shortcomings and the areas where you may have hurt others before you shut it up can help you accept what others are doing wrong, and it can also help you release your frustration. Everyone makes mistakes, and being aware of your mistakes can help you understand the mistakes made by those who hurt you.
Letting go of resentment is not something that can be done overnight. The sooner you decide to let go of your resentment, the sooner you can reach that goal. Look ahead, don't worry about it.
When you choose to forgive someone, look back and think about how much actual harm they have done you. Is his behavior really unforgivable? Or is there nothing that you forget in less than a month?
Thinking about tomorrow morning, will you still be bothered by this? Only you know this. Think long-term based on your morals and beliefs.
If you hate people lying to you the most and your lover is cheating on you, then your personal morality may not allow you to forgive those who have cheated on you. However, personally, if you can overcome emotional infidelity, then you can also choose to forgive. People are not sages, who can do no wrong, forgive others, that is, let yourself go!
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