I broke up with my wife, and I regretted it

Updated on psychology 2024-02-11
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First determine if she still loves you.

    Love or not love you is the key to the problem!

    Secondly, imagine the worst-case scenario, no.

    No matter how it ends, you have to have your countermeasures!

    Don't think about suicide, that's not a man's doing!

    Remember, don't give up easily. I believe you have watched "Journey to the West" Do you remember the last dialogue that Supreme Treasure said before becoming Sun Monkey?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Stalking. But if you don't stick to her all the time, she'll be disgusted.

    You have an emotional foundation here.

    As long as you have a dead face, humor, and grace, you can admit your mistakes sincerely.

    But if it's something like splitting legs, then you're out of luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no regret medicine in the world, unless she loves you very much and is willing to give you steps, or you will be miserable. Amen.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you yourself have the ruthlessness to get back together with your wife, nothing can make it difficult for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Something lost is never to come back! Like time!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Show yourself with actions that you know you're wrong.

    Show how much you love her with practical actions.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Brother, I'm just like you.

    Hope you succeed. The younger brother is not talented, and he has not recovered it yet.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After getting married, we may grow old with our other half, but we may also divorce each other, so if we regret it after divorcing our wife, what should we do? In other words, if you want to get back together or remarry after the divorce, what should you do?

    At this time, in fact, the most important thing is to sincerely apologize to your wife, because divorce will definitely bring great psychological damage to the other party, and even emotional blows, even if we regret it, we want to reconcile with each other, we also need to be correctly aware of this problem. It's not that we regret it, we want to save this relationship, and this matter can be treated as if it didn't happen, so we also need to sincerely apologize to our wife before talking about the next step.

    Apology is the main thing, but we also need to reflect on what our problems are, although it may be that both of us have problems in the process of divorce, but since we regret it, that is to say, we are the one who wants to get back together, then we must find our own problems. At this time, we are actually very passive, because the other party's attitude directly determines the relationship between two people, so we must first find our own problems, and then spread these problems to our wife, and express our sincerity.

    When we can find our own problems in the relationship, it is actually a big step forward, so if we want to reconcile with the other party, we must have sincerity, find these problems, reflect on ourselves, that is, a manifestation of sincerity, but we must apologize to the other party, and then take these problems out. If you want your wife to forgive us, in fact, the most important thing is to let him see our sincerity, so that it can trigger two people to think deeply, and when we solve some problems in love, we can make the hearts of two people closer.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Now I can only go and ask my ex-wife back. Take the initiative to go to her, tell her that you are sorry, and then show that you are determined to love her for the rest of your life. Note: If you can't, don't bother her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since you regret it, you should show weakness to your wife, find out your own problems, and promise that you will make changes in the future, and at the same time use your own practical actions to influence your wife.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If the wife has not remarried, she should try her best to redeem it, bow her head to her and admit her mistakes, and try to make up for it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In my opinion, it is necessary to set yourself a cooling-off period that is neither long nor short when you want to divorce.

    I am not instigating or advocating your divorce, I have never persuaded anyone to divorce, but if you can, insist and continue, you must not leave. And if you feel that you can't go on, divorce is the best option. I believe that those who understand will not misinterpret my original intention.

    Zhang Yuqi's divorce is bold, neat, and not dragging mud and water, so her divorce, not only did her personality not collapse, but instead created a large number of fans for her, and the people who eat melons also call her my sister Zhang in society.

    I don't know what the real motivation for his divorce was? I don't dare to speculate on whether there is an element of impulsiveness in her boldness. What I want to express is that divorce that is too impulsive and divorce that is too protracted is not advisable, we pay attention to moderation, and we pay attention to moderation.

    So, when you feel that your marriage is really at a dead end, don't worry, you might as well set yourself a time limit first, this period varies from person to person, but it should not be too short, let alone too long. In this cooling-off period, objectively, calmly, fairly, and without any position, it is necessary to judge whether this marriage should stay or go.

    Set this cooling-off period for yourself, not to prolong your pain in this marriage, but to be able to see more objectively whether this marriage has the meaning of existence, what problems exist, whether this problem will be solved over time, to prevent regrets in the future, and to avoid the adverse consequences of impulsive divorce.

    The deadline should not be too short, too short is not conducive to the analysis of existing problems. It should not be too long, too long, people will lose patience, and it will be easy to have the mentality of getting by, and will get used to this pain, but gradually lose the ability to jump out like a frog boiled in warm water.

    After all, marriage is not child's play, and divorce cannot be child's play. After a cooling-off period of consideration, observation, and analysis, you will come to a relatively unbiased conclusion, which tells you whether the marriage is necessary to continue. This is actually a time period for a soft landing for marriage, and with a buffer zone, the marriage will not be knocked out all of a sudden.

    Many divorces are the result of a hot brain, and after calming down afterwards, they find that the contradictions between two people are not enough to rise to the level of divorce. However, after an impulsive divorce, some people will break the jar and break it, thinking that they are already gone anyway, and it is good to start over. However, after remarrying, he found that the current one was not so wishful, so he regretted it again.

    Many people have thought about divorce thousands of times, but they have never left, not because there is still a need for the marriage to continue, but because they no longer have the ability to divorce and are used to the pain of marriage.

    Long, familiar pain is a comfort zone compared to the slimness of the unknown. People are always used to staying in their comfort zone and are reluctant to take risks. Adventures in marriage are different from other adventures, other adventures, with curiosity, but adventures in marriage with fear.

    Fear can make a person lose the ability to leave.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What should I do if I regret my divorce? "Divorced and regretted" can be done (remarriage must-see).

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you think you really want her, go to her, most women are soft-hearted. You say you regret it, I think you will cherish the lost feelings. I sincerely wish you all the best in reuniting.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you regret it, admit your mistake, maybe she doesn't want to divorce you either. While it's still too late, it's still early, hurry up and chase it back, don't let yourself regret it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then take the initiative to regret it and go to her, love is great, after all, they have been together for decades, and the grievances and grievances between husband and wife are normal.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Find a way to save her, if you really can't turn back, you can only look forward and start a new relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Why do you want to get divorced?

    Whose reason is it?

    First of all, let's analyze it, analyze it from the deeper causes.

    Superficial reasons may be confusing, deep reasons, then try.

    Tips for returning to the heart], wonderful.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Go and re-communicate with her, after all, a husband and wife are 100 days old, love must be boldly said, feelings are a matter of two people, communicate well.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What else can I do, regret not using it, hurry up and start my new life, this is good for everyone.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on what the reason for the divorce, if it's your problem, then change yourself and chase her back.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then try to make amends. Think carefully about the reasons for the previous divorce and whether you are prepared to avoid these conflicts and disputes, and then use your sincerity to impress the other party.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You also have to figure out why your wife is reluctant to remarry.

    Of course, if it really can't be recovered, if you regret it, is there a lot of contradictions before? And what are the reasons for these contradictions. What two people need to get along with each other is trust and support, and the reason for finding a wife should also be for their own reasons.

    In this way, you can save your wife's heart, and don't continue to entangle. Maybe the trust between you is gone, and you can find your wife to impress her with sincerity. There's always someone for you.

    You need to figure out what causes the rift in your marriage.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What should I do if I regret my divorce? "Divorced and regretted" can be done (remarriage must-see).

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