Is all family affection so fragile in the face of interests?

No, unless your family is exceptional.

The most untested thing in the world is human nature.

At present, the interests are the thinnest, and the family affection is the thinnest.

Relatives were supposed to help each other, but unfortunately, now the relatives have changed their taste, and they have become people who think you are poor and afraid that you are rich.

When you are poor, they will stay away from you, for fear that you will borrow money. When you are rich, they will compliment you on the surface, and your mouth will be sweeter than ever, but in your heart you will be jealous.

Many people are looking for the family affection they used to have, but now it seems that it is difficult to find, everyone is no longer the same as before, and everyone has a small abacus in their hearts.

You can't blame him because everyone does. Never complain about the attitude of relatives and friends towards you, in other words, you will do the same, in the face of interests, the relationship will really become very thin, and even vulnerable.

When you don't have money, others pull you to remember to be grateful, and you must be worthy of this affection; If others don't pull you, there's no need to complain, because this is his duty.

Let's tell the story of my friend Lei Lei. Because his father died early, Lei Lei did not graduate from junior high school, so he followed his third uncle to the city.

He is very diligent in order to make a living, he thinks that as long as he works hard, when the third uncle pulls himself again, the days will not be unbelievable.

In order to grasp the life-saving straw of the third uncle, Lei Lei almost responded to the affairs of the third uncle's family. I thought that by doing this, I would get what I wanted, but unfortunately, the result was completely unexpected.

At that time, the third uncle had a small property right house to sell, and asked Lei Lei if he wanted it, Lei Lei couldn't ask for it, so he happily agreed.

The third uncle said that how much money is how much it is, and he didn't refute it, because he knew that the third uncle would not cheat himself.

Originally, it was all agreed, but the third uncle later changed his mind, and he asked Lei Lei to pay in full, but Lei Lei couldn't take out so much money at all.

He said to the third uncle: "You don't know me, how can I have so much money, I can't owe it, I really can't afford it." Just as Lei Lei was thinking of a way, the third uncle told him that someone wanted the house, don't let him worry about it.

After knowing this result, Lei Lei was very sad, but he didn't blame the third uncle, after all, he couldn't get the full amount.

If someone else bought it in full, then Lei Lei would not be aggrieved in his heart, but he didn't expect the third uncle to give others an installment, at that time, Lei Lei couldn't understand why the third uncle was like this, and then finally figured it out.

Because the third uncle felt that it would be difficult for Lei Lei to pay back even if he owed some money after changing the chaos, it was risky to sell it to him, and if he wanted to avoid the risk, he could only sell it to strangers.

Thinking of this, Lei Lei finally figured it out, it turned out that family affection was so cheap in the eyes of the third uncle, he didn't blame the third uncle, but chose to stay away.

In fact, when a person has a lot of money, he will inevitably be admired by others; But if you are poor, then basically no one will come to the front.

To put it simply, a person can only get out of a difficult situation by himself.

How much pure family affection is left in this society where interests are paramount? Blood kinship is constantly severed, but how many family ties turn against each other because of interests? Supporting the elderly, distributing inheritance, and demolishing houses, everything is testing family affection, and how much family affection can withstand the test?

The greed of human nature is laid out in the face of profit.

From the birth of the child, parents will be happy for their child to learn to walk, will be distressed for their child to wrestle, and every development of the child is in the attention of the parents. When the traces of time stain the temples of their parents, when their parents' health is no longer in need of care, how many children can be as wholehearted and uncomplaining as their parents took care of us when they were children? Just like Mother's Day and Father's Day, parents are not at home in the circle of friends, instead of expressing their love for their parents in the circle of friends, it is better to go home to have a laughing meal with their parents and chat.

Parents have worked hard all their lives to live a happy old age, and some families have many children, but they pass the buck to each other; Youfeng and Min's children simply gave the money directly. I have seen the elderly parents who were left behind because of the conflict of demolishing the house, and I have also heard that the conflict caused by taking care of the parents can be imagined. Nowadays, the living conditions are getting better and better, but people are becoming more and more indifferent to each other, and there is less sincerity and innocence as before.

It's not that your family reputation is fragile, but that you know that your family is fragile earlier than those who know that your family is fragile.

Many times, family affection is particularly fragile, and people have to bow their heads under the eaves, and I deeply understand it.

It should not be an exaggeration to say that money and interests are the root of all evil, and it affects many things about us. Family affection is innate, and blood is thicker than water, and the explanation of family affection is not an exaggeration. So will we give up our family affection for the sake of the monetary benefit of the root of all evil?

I think the answer for many people should be that when the financial interests reach a certain level, they will choose to give up family affection.

First of all, let's talk about the existence conditions of family affection, when our living conditions can not be met, can there be family affection? As the saying goes, "no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains" This sentence should be able to summarize the blandness of family affection, when you achieve nothing, your family looks down on you, when you get ahead, you are an important member of the family, there should be many such real cases now, because for the current family affection, it is not as simple as the sunrise and sunset in the past. In today's society, everyone is very realistic and has a lot of interests.

I often hear people around me jokingly say that there is no monetary interest involved, we are all a family. Although it is a joke, the content should be very rich and reflects the attitude of people nowadays towards family affection. So I personally think that enough monetary benefits can make family feelings dull, and even turn against each other.

What is the maintenance of human relationships? I say value, and the word value includes money and benefits. In society, we survive by providing value to others and satisfying their needs.

For example: "If someone is thirsty and you can sell him a bottle of water, then he will pay you the same amount to meet the needs you need to buy money for other needs", so fundamentally speaking, the relationship between people, money and interests belongs to the exchange of value. Of course, this question contains family affection.

And it is precisely between these three that family affection is the most inaccurate thing, in the material age, we no longer pay attention to a person's connotation and literacy as before, no matter whether you look at men or women, the first thing is that she looks at whether she is gorgeous, whether the job is high-paying, whether there is money at home and whether there is a garage!

This has led to the fact that the relationship between people now needs to be mediated by money and interests, so as to achieve the establishment of various relationships, and the same is true for family affection. If you can't provide a reliable value foundation, then family affection is as fragile as current love. It looks like it's within your reach, but when you reach out, it's out of reach!

There will also be interests in family affection, most of the family affection is real, but there are also some family affection for interests, so when you have the ability, try to be good to your relatives and not leave regrets for yourself.

There will also be interests in family affection, and the existing family affection may not be real, it should be said that most of the family affection is still relatively reliable, but some relatives and family affection are controlled by interests.

There will be, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor in the downtown no one asks, this sentence profoundly reflects the interests between relatives, but the family affection is also real!