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There is such a passage in Guo Jingming's "Sadness Flows Into a River" You can savor it carefully.
In every girl's life, there is such a boy. He doesn't belong to love, and he's not his boyfriend.
However, there must be a place for him within the closest distance to himself.
When you see something beautiful, you can't help but show it to him. When he hears a good song, he can't help but copy it from his own *** and give it to him, and when he sees a beautiful notebook, he can't help but buy two and another for him to use, although he won't like pink strawberries. When he feels like crying, the first one will text him.
When I quarrel with my boyfriend, the first one will look for him.
But this kind of relationship is always an existence that transcends love.
Maybe she treats you as a friend you can rely on.
But if you are bothered by this.
The so-called bystander clear, I'll tell you.
What you should do now is talk to her through and through.
Tell her "If you like me, please be my girlfriend, if you don't like me I'll be sad but let me be my best friend".
And that's the best way to do that, and instead of guessing and guessing, it's better to pick out the relationship.
Either lovers or friends.
Otherwise, this ambiguous relationship will hurt you.
If she likes you, please cherish others, don't let them down, and don't let yourself down.
If she doesn't like you, then please be sure to hold on to yourself, if you are ambiguous, it will really hurt yourself, believe me!!
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Summary. This depends on the personal situation, sometimes it is a habit, get used to it, who to look for when you usually have a problem, and who you will naturally think of when you encounter something. Girls generally think of their other half naturally, because they are our dependence, and when there is something, they can solve it for us and shelter us from the wind and rain.
People who don't have a significant other for the time being usually think of their parents and family, and a friend of mine is very dependent on his parents, and he will be the first to tell his parents about everything. If you are a boy, you will think of your buddies and friends who play very hard, which is also related to the way you do things. A lot of things are the result of habit, and who else can make you feel the warmest and most dependent.
In fact, thinking of who is not the point, it can only show that we are very accustomed to trusting this person by our side and putting it in a very important position in our hearts. It shows that they have become our habit. I think you already have the answer in mind when you ask this question!
This depends on the personal situation, sometimes it is a habit, get used to it, who to find when you usually have a problem, and who you will naturally think of when you encounter something. Girls generally think of their other half naturally, because they are our dependence, and when there is something, they can solve it for us and shelter us from the wind and rain. Hengchun, who has no other half for the time being, usually thinks of his parents and family, and a friend of mine is very dependent on his parents, and he will be the first to tell his parents about everything.
If you are a boy, you will think of your buddies and friends who play very hard, which is also related to the way you do things. A lot of things are the result of habit, and who else can make you feel the warmest and most dependent. In fact, thinking of who is not a point of recultivation can only show that we are very accustomed to trusting this person by our side and putting it in a very important position in our hearts.
It shows that they have become our habit. I think you already have the answer in mind when you ask this question!
But I thought of my boyfriend who had just broken up.
Hello dear, this is also very normal! You used to be so good, but now it's just been a short time, so when you're scared, think of him!
In fact, I often quarrel and regret that I am too impulsive to break up.
My dear, there must have been something wrong with the breakup, what did you all quarrel about?
Anyway, there are a lot of contradictions, anyway, he said that children have tempers and are easy to think too much.
My dear, I often quarrel and can't solve the problem, even if we get back together, the problem still exists, and it will enter a vicious circle!
Yes, so I don't want to redeem it.
I can survive in discomfort, too.
Honey parting uncomfortable, this is an inevitable <>
The reason why people are suffering is because the brain has been immersed in thinking, because the continuation of thinking will exacerbate our pain, if we interrupt thinking, do not think about this thing, and focus on a certain thing, such as focusing on the high chain of work or learning, or even some hobbies, after a long time, the first thought does not call to think about those past events, and naturally it will slowly recover and get out of lovelorn.
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You may be hurt and trapped by love, but you must understand: "To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others!" "Whether it's a relationship or a career, as long as you have no conscience.
Shame, we've worked hard enough of that! Emotionally, there is no one who is sorry for whom, only who does not cherish whom! ~~
Sometimes it's not the heavens that are playing tricks on us, it's us playing tricks on ourselves! Remember not to waste your time with those who are unwilling to spend it on you. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is doomed to hurt
Yes, I know that we can't let go, we can't let go of the people we love the most, the people who hurt us the most, and if we can let go easily, it's not love. But we have to try to "let go". What can wash everything away except tears is time, and time is used to change feelings, and the longer the time, the lighter the conflict, like a constantly diluted tea.
Let time take us out of pain! Happiness must be accompanied by sadness, and there should be sunny weather after the rain. If it rains after rain, if sorrow comes after sorrow, let us face this parting calmly.
Smile and look for an impossible you! Linghu Chong said"There are some things that we can't control, so we have to control ourselves.
My dear friend: Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself with any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and don't suppress yourself needlessly. hits, constantly someone leaves or enters.
So, what is seen, what is not seen; What is remembered, forgotten. In life, there are constantly gains and losses. And he that which was not seen, saw it; Forgotten, remembered.
However, what is not seen is the same as not existing? Remember, is it never going to go away? Please take these words into consideration
Since you can't forget it, let those past events remain silently in the bottom of your heart, maybe sad, maybe sour, but everything is over! ~~
Love doesn't deceive people, and it can't deceive itself. A relationship, instead of burying it deeply, is better to take it out and clean it up, throw it away or keep it, give it an explanation, and give yourself an explanation. Think about whether it's worth it, you can go to the guard if it's worthy, and don't be demanding if it's not worth it!
I forgot it, put it and then, and hit the road clearly. Look forward to your own. Happiness
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FOR YOU HAVE BEEN HAPPY BEFORE ...
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Having this person in your heart has a great influence on you.
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Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.
Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.
When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.
When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.
Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!
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