What should I do if my child is easily distracted and inattentive?

1.Consciously train children to do things that can calm down, such as: playing chess, building blocks, drawing, etc.

2.It is mandatory to put distracting objects in another place and share them with your child when he has done what he needs to do. After the child has done a good job, parents should be trustworthy and give appropriate praise to the child's performance.

3.The child's distraction is due to her lack of interest in what she is doing, and interests are very important for the child's development. 4.

It's not good to shout and scold your child for this behavior, and don't rush it, many times it is the parents who do not find a good way to communicate with their children to make it backfire. Let me share with you my experience, my child was also very inattentive before, and it was easy to be distracted from doing anything, and then took him to see a doctor, the doctor said that it may be sensory integration disorder, and suggested that I take my child to a professional sensory integration agency to do the evaluation, and later learned that there is a very good one called Jie Ao on the first floor of Bao'an Taoyuan Jurenle, and the child is also doing assessment and training there, and now he has made great progress, and his attention has been significantly improved, even his homeroom teacher said that the class performance is great! Children always have things they like, and if they can focus on the things they like, don't worry too much.

You can try to let him do what he likes, praise him more for his focus, and let him slowly feel that he will be loved by his parents and people around him, and slowly correct it.

Children do not work hard in learning, often encountered difficulties in learning, a negative response to twists and turns, to be good at encouraging children, strengthen self-confidence. If you are interested in one thing, it will have the effect of doing more with less. In fact, we adults will also have this feeling about interest, some people have become experts because of their own interest, and some people have done a lifetime of work for this because of interest, adults are like this, and children are the same.

1.Want to discover your child's interest in **? When children are growing up, they may have different tastes at different ages.

For example, boys can like model cars and toy cars when they are younger, model guns and toy guns when they are older, and they may like building blocks after a while. Parents should find out more about their children's interests, and make them feel that their parents pay attention to and care for them by doing interesting things with their children. Secondly, it is necessary to guide the interest of children.

For example, let children fall in love with reading, be able to read books with children, discuss stories in books, etc., so as to cultivate children's concentration and learning direction.

2.As the child grows, the child has his own psychological world. As a parent, you should find a way to communicate quickly with your child.

Some children are suitable to communicate when playing together, and communicate while playing; Some children are suitable for the old place to communicate, you talk to him to listen, he talks and you listen, and promote each other; Some children are suitable for communication when they go out for a walk, and this environment will not make children feel panicked. Good communication can allow you to control your child's mentality in time, understand your child's thoughts in time, so as to find the cause of the problem, understand the direction, and let the child study hard blindly.

3.Parents are the most needed companion for their children as they grow up. As parents should be a good example in their studies and lives, some parents due to the pressure of work nowadays, every time they come home, they are stupid, upset, and do not care much for their children.

Some are busy doing housework and ignore the existence of their children, and some are happy to swipe WeChat and Weibo with their mobile phones, forgetting to communicate with their children. Parents should be a model who is good at learning and willing to work in front of their children, and invent a good learning environment for the family. For example, tidy up the house with your child, sit with your child and read a book, discuss the current situation with your child, and so on.

Parents must not be too anxious about their children's situation, do not scold and despise their children, which will hurt their children's self-esteem, and their resistance to learning will make their interest in reading even worse.

Help children learn together, improve attention and concentration, and give children some help and encouragement in learning.

Parents should talk to students and teachers to understand why their children are careless and inattentive, help them establish good study habits, correct their learning attitudes, and do not blindly rush but do not take measures.

Do a good job of supervising the child and find that the child is particularly lazy and sensitive to learning, so that the child can understand the meaning of learning, and if the child is young, there is no file to develop a good behavior habit.

Detect symptoms of inattention in your child. For example, some children have difficulty concentrating because they have "ADHD", which requires a psychiatrist. Symptoms of inattention include:

Often irritable for no reason, as if not very interested in anything; Inability to maintain concentration for a long period of time on any of them; In class, my eyes wandered, and I didn't know what I was thinking.

Give your child a clear deadline for completing their homework. For example, you can say to your child: You are not in a hurry, but you must finish your homework by 8 o'clock, otherwise, you will not be able to do anything on the weekend, etc.

Cultivate children's sense of urgency for time, and slowly let children form a learning routine. With clear tasks, children are motivated to learn and stay tense. Of course, when asking a child to learn, the time should not be too long, nor should the child be asked to do the same thing for a long time.

Because these are all factors that cause a child's difficulty concentrating.

Give your child appropriate rewards. For example, when a child completes his homework on time, parents should not only praise him verbally, but also provide other rewards. At the same time, you can also set an imaginary competitor for your child and remind him that "whoever spends only an hour every night can complete his homework, and still have time to watch cartoons or something."

Create a good learning environment for your child. Many children have difficulty concentrating, mainly related to the home environment. Some parents are very tired from work during the day, and they like to watch TV at night, and the sound is very loud, and some parents like to ask their neighbors and colleagues to play mahjong at home, which will inevitably affect their children's attention.

Parents must be quiet when their children are studying. Don't let your child notice what the parent is doing. If parents have maintained good reading and learning habits, children will be able to hear and see.

In addition, care should be taken to eliminate factors that interfere with your child's learning.

Relieve the melancholy in the child's heart at the right time. When the child's psychological pressure is heavier, the child's attention will not be able to concentrate. Many children are afraid of exams, especially exams that some parents tell them will "decide the fate of a lifetime".

For this reason, children are often restless and even cranky. Burdened with a heavy psychological burden, children will naturally not be able to concentrate on their studies. Therefore, all excellent parents are competent psychological comforters for their children.

When children are learning, it is very easy to distract from the solution: fatigue influence, interest influence, environmental influence.

It is very likely that the current knowledge is not attractive to the child, or the child does not have a good night's rest, so the child can develop good sleep habits.

It is when children are curious about the world that it is normal for them to be distracted. We need to teach our children how to concentrate when they are studying.

Some can be adoptedA combination of rewards and punishmentsapproach. Chong Zerent should also respect the scattered children, don't always criticize, and praise and reward those who do well.

The child's chaotic and balanced concentration is too annoying. Actually, there is a way:

The child's attention span should not be too long, but should be cultivated slowly, such as letting him focus on doing the work of the five minutes of hunger, and then extend it to ten minutes, and have appropriate rewards for doing a good job, so that the child's attention will slowly improve.

**Pre-round liquid home processing.

Try to create a warm family and growth environment for the child, and be patient when teaching the child to learn.

**Post-home processing.

After that, we must strictly follow the doctor's guidance and recommendations, and the family must be patient with the child, and do not yell at the child's orange bridge because of a little mistake, or even fist and kick, which is not only not conducive to the problem of inattention of the child, but also leads to the child's inferiority complex, unwilling to communicate with others, and the condition is getting more and more serious. It is recommended to do the following after **:

Create a comfortable and harmonious home environment.

You can play games with your child and help your child to correct hyperactivity indirectly.

If necessary, you can take the medicine appropriately, but it is not recommended to take it for a long time, and the specific guidance requirements of the doctor shall prevail.

When children are inattentive, the way to deal with different age groups will be different, parents can invest a certain amount of energy in standardized guidance training, do not overly require them to achieve a certain goal, so as not to increase the psychological burden of children.

Before training children to concentrate, parents should first make it clear that the attention span of different ages is different, and the attention span of younger children will be shorter, so they should adapt to the specific situation of the child.

First of all, it is necessary to create a good living environment and family atmosphere, reduce the interference of the external environment on the child, and then carry out the pure intention training according to the child's interest, and guide the child to concentrate on doing the things he is interested in, such as doing handicrafts and painting.

Parents should also provide appropriate verbal and material encouragement in the process of attention training to help children concentrate better, but it is not appropriate to take rude, discriminatory, cold, scolding, and punitive measures.

In addition, parents should also pay attention to cultivating their children's regular living habits and taking their children to do physical exercise appropriately.

If the child's inattention is too annoying, it means that on the one hand, the child may be the cause of the physical condition, and on the other hand, it is the cause of his habit. You should find the cause from two aspects, if it is the second reason, then you have to change some of his habits, so that he can gradually turn around.

Hello, your child is only five years old, the child's age is still relatively small, the physical and psychological capacity is not small with adults, the child's memory loss may be too stressful, but other diseases cannot be ruled out.

It is normal for children to have difficulty concentrating and can be cultivated slowly.

Take steps to keep your child focused.

Your blind child is only in the fifth grade now, and the child's age is still younger than that of the child, and there is a big gap between the physical and mental endurance of the adult Hengzhou, and the child's memory loss may be too stressful.

Mom's troubles: children have trouble concentrating! Parents often say to me:

What should I do if my child is inattentive? A mother said: The child was criticized by the teacher for disobedience in kindergarten.

Because the child always keeps getting out of the seat, he can't sit still. In the kindergarten's open class, she did see that the child was...

Strict control of his time, you can watch him from the sidelines, let him concentrate on one thing, and after a long time, he will concentrate.

We can arrange a period of training for the child, and after he is done, we should encourage him in time, accompany him more, and care about his psychological state.

You can set a time for your child to do something, and then rest for a while, so that your child can develop a good habit step by step.

1.Don't interrupt your child at will, even when playing: Even if the child is just playing, parents should not interrupt.

When children are focused on doing things, they need to think deeply and continuously. If you are interrupted casually, your child will tacitly think that it is normal to give up in the middle of work, or even that it is normal to interrupt others' activities. 2. Cultivate children's ability to resist interference

In the face of a noisy environment, children who cannot sit still are easily distracted. However, the lively environment is not the reason for the child's lack of concentration. In the presence of strong distractions, concentrating on doing things is a very valuable quality.

For young children's attention, attention is a few concepts that need to be mastered. It refers to the fact that when children pay attention to the target itself, the senses of sight, hearing, smell, touch and other senses point the direction of attention to the goal. For example, when a child watches a cartoon, his visual and auditory senses will pay attention to the animation scene at the same time, and at the same time listen to the animation sound with his ears.

For example, when a child is eating, his eyes will look at the food or the dish, his hands will pick up the food with a spoon or chopsticks, and the taste buds of the tongue will taste the taste when he chews the food. Attention is maintained. When a child is interested in an object of attention, he sees with his eyes, hears with his ears, touches with his hands, thinks with his brain, and controls his limbs to coordinate movements.

The whole process of concentrating on one action or a coherent action is attention retention. Children will focus on different goals for different lengths of time and maintain different interests.

Divert attention. When the child reproduces the phenomenon of attention saturation, he will shift the target at any time, or move to irrelevant things, or then shift to the main focus target when prompted. When parents usually find that their children are inattentive, they often shift their attention frequently, and will shift from one main goal to an irrelevant goal at any time.

Methods of attention and concentration training for young children. Help your child find the main goal. For young children, it is difficult to consciously find a goal without parental coordination, unless the child particularly likes to do things, such as watching cartoons, playing in water, playing in the sand, listening to the mother tell bedtime stories, etc.

Otherwise, it is up to parents to take the initiative to guide the goal, which is mentioned above, so that the child's attention should be directed to the main goal. Guide your child to focus on the main goal. When the child's attention is directed at the main goal, parents can tell the child what to do, and if necessary, point to the target so that the child can visually capture the main goal.

When the child has discovered the main goal, parents will tell the child what to do, and parents need to pay extra attention to this area, you should slow down the speed of speech and let the child repeat.

Timely affirmation and appreciation of children doing things around goals. After the child grasps the main goal and starts to do things, parents need to affirm in time that the child is particularly focused, and mom (dad) especially likes good children who focus on doing things. At this time, you look at the child, as long as you teach it by hand and let the child imitate and learn, he will learn well.

Appreciation acts as a catalyst to continuously enhance children's confidence and interest in doing things around their goals.

When the child is paying attention, parents should not interfere with it. If the child is reading a picture book and is looking at a picture carefully, and his mouth is still talking to himself, parents should pay attention at this time, do not disturb, this is the best way to protect the child's attention. There are many similar scenarios, and parents need to observe them in time, as long as they find that their children are interested in the main goal and stay focused, they should not be easily disturbed.