I like my homeroom teacher, what should I do! He s in his 30s, I m 16, and we re all men??

Updated on educate 2024-02-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you're serious about your homeroom teacher, it's best not to tell him now, because you're his student after all, and he'll only tell him when you're kidding, so you can avoid embarrassment.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, the liking you are talking about is not the liking between men and women, you just appreciate your teacher, admire him, and hope to become a person like your teacher in the future, please put your own views correctly, and don't think in an abnormal direction with your own thoughts. Of course, people of the same sex can like each other, because each other has their own merits, but don't confuse this normal thinking with abnormal crooked thoughts, I believe you will correct your opinion!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Our geography teacher said that in adolescence, you can't talk about love or not, maybe it's just a little bit of a good impression of the other person, you don't have to pay too much attention to it, slowly forget about it or make friends with him, talk to him, and let him help you find a way...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't worry, if he's your teacher, it means that you just worship him, admire him, you're young, you may not know what liking is, you mistake this feeling for liking, it's okay, you don't think about it in other ways, it's fine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, you just appreciate him, how can you experience it when you really like him at the age of 16.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ignore what others say, age is not an issue, homosexuality is not a sin.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're still so young, you should see a psychiatrist to see if you can change your sexual orientation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    #24...Have a future and be bold to pursue your true love...= =

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You may just adore him, don't be cranky at a young age, your parents will be worried.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Although this thing sounds a little embarrassing, you can rest assured, this is normal, it is youth, accompanied by hormones, it is very normal to like the opposite sex, but it just so happens that the person you meet is your homeroom teacher. But like to like, like at this time, you still need to think long-term.

    In fact, as a student, it is normal to fall in love in college. Although it would be a little embarrassing to fall in love with the person who was the head teacher, there was indeed no shortage of successful cases of teacher-student love on campus. If it's just a whim, hopefully you'll get away with this feeling sooner rather than later.

    If this love has stood the test of time, good luck!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your situation is like the teacher-student love written in **, ** is very beautiful, but the reality is cruel. You may not be able to imagine the difficulties that a teacher-student relationship will encounter in real life, but you must be cautious in either case.

    You may be in junior high school or high school now, which is the stage of adolescent love ignorance, and you do not have a deeper understanding of love in your cognition. I just thought that I liked my homeroom teacher, so I had to talk to him and wanted to be with him. Such thoughts are naïve, and not thinking about the consequences will end up scarring you.

    If you confess to him directly and tell him that you like him, I believe that your homeroom teacher will also be shocked by you. I didn't expect my students to like me, which cast a shadow on the simple teacher-student relationship. It's okay for the class teacher to reject you, which shows that the class teacher knows what to do and what not to do, and has not crossed the bottom line for your teacher-student relationship, and understands the importance of things.

    The most important thing for you at this stage is to study, not to think about falling in love with your teacher.

    I'm afraid that your teacher is with you, that's really the best sex news in your school. Have you thought about what to do if the two of you are found out by your classmates together, then everyone will know about you, and all kinds of gossip will slander you at that time. Especially your parents, who worked so hard to raise you so big and send you to study, not to let you fall in love with your teacher.

    How sad and disappointed they will be, everyone will think that your homeroom teacher seduced you, so that you are distracted and have no heart to go to study again, and feel that it is mainly your homeroom teacher who is at fault. Your homeroom teacher is likely to be expelled from the school, and you won't be able to stand up in the education world, and I believe you don't want to see that happen.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When we go to school, the feeling that the homeroom teacher gives us is usually strict and unforgettable, unlike the subject teacher, they will always discipline us, so we will feel like a parent, and this feeling is more like a child and a parent, but if you have feelings for the young homeroom teacher, then you should consider the real situation of the matter from the specific matter.

    First of all, you have to think clearly from which moment you began to like your homeroom teacher, and you have to rationally consider what aspects of the other party are worthy of your liking, after all, this feeling of youth is still worthy of understanding and respect, because you are the ignorant moment of adolescence, so it is inevitable that you will pin your feelings on this kind of person who is very close to you, and the other party must take care of you in every way, so you will have such feelings, but you must also treat it rationally.

    Secondly, no one will feel that the student likes the teacher is guilty, not to mention that the other party is very young, then if you have true love for the class teacher, then it is okay to insist, but you need to know whether you are moved more than feelings, or it is really the feelings between men and women, if you are just a momentary impulse, then you must let yourself dispel the idea as soon as possible, so as not to be more entangled, if you really like each other, then you should treat this relationship in a rational state.

    Again, if you feel that you are really in love with the class teacher, then you should let your learning as soon as possible, and let yourself show excellence in all aspects, which is the first step to attract teachers, so that you can work hard, so that after you complete your studies, if you still have this emotion, you will know how to treat your love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl, I think this problem should be stopped in time, because it's not something you should do at your age, and you generally won't have good results.

    First of all, you are a student, he is a teacher, and it is indeed the most likely thing for students to have a good impression of the teacher. Your most important task is to study hard, and to get it up first. This is what you should think at this stage, if you can't concentrate on the class because of your liking for the teacher, I hope to be able to talk to your teacher honestly, maybe your teacher will have a better way.

    This kind of thing will definitely not be known to parents, you can make an appointment with your teacher for three chapters, and trust that your teacher will handle this delicate relationship between you. You are still young, and it can be said that you have not yet entered the society and do not know what life is like. What you think of life may be what you see in film and television dramas, where there are more or less fictional elements in it, and it is not completely credible.

    Even idealized, what we need in life is reason rather than impulse. Being able to talk briefly to your teacher may be the best way to solve your problem.

    From the teacher's point of view, if you really think about this teacher, then you should study his subject well for this teacher and fight for yourself, so that you always have a light on your face. Because you are the student he taught. At the same time, your teacher is very young, which means that he may not be on the job for a long time, and some things may be more difficult to deal with.

    If you like someone, not only selfishly want to take the other person as your own, but also think about everything that may happen in an all-round way, which is good for each other, and it is also the best way to deal with it, so at present, don't let go of your teacher to talk to your heart, this may be the best way to solve this problem.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What can I do to study hard, I like it silently. It doesn't matter if you like someone who is older than you, or if you like your homeroom teacher, the point is that obviously you don't have the conditions to be together now.

    And silently liking a crush, although a little painful, but also quite cool, this ignorant emotion is also worth cherishing. I'm just your momentary emotional fluctuations, so don't show it, hide it silently in your heart.

    But are you sure that this is the true love that you believe in your heart, so you are not afraid to wait for two more years when you are older, have a certain strength, and then come back to him when you are independent.

    The teacher-student love is full of beauty, and I am quite supportive, but you are still in the school stage, and I think your parents and your teachers must not think like me. So for your sake, and in order not to cause trouble for your homeroom teacher, I suggest that you hide this feeling secretly.

    Let it blossom and bear fruit when the time is right, since it is good for both of you, lest it be strangled before it has even sprouted. When you get older and come back to your homeroom teacher, maybe he will like you at that time.

    Now even if he has you in his heart, I'm afraid there is no way to fight against the world. After all, it's not just a teacher-student relationship that he's with you now, and he's likely to lose his job and won't dare any school hire him in the future.

    It's a matter of character and morality, so don't hurt him if you really have him in your heart. You also have to understand that your current task is to study, and if you can't even complete your own task, what kind of love will you have.

    Even if the two of you go together in the future, you should have your own career and culture. So you'd better reserve your strength now, study hard when you should study, and put this feeling in your heart for the time being, if this feeling can withstand the baptism of time, then you may have a chance in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Falling in love with a homeroom teacher is not an abnormal thing, and it is no more abnormal than falling in love with someone else. However, in this case, there are some factors that need to be taken into account to avoid any social or legal conflicts.

    On the one hand, it is necessary to respect existing social barriers, and on the other hand, it is necessary to resolutely resist the ability to judge one's own behavior. Although there is a certain amount of risk, you can still exercise your rights and protect your rights and interests in combination with your own abilities.

    Falling in love with a homeroom teacher is not an abnormal thing, and it is no more abnormal than falling in love with someone else. However, in this case, there are a few factors that need to be considered to avoid any social or legal conflicts. On the one hand, it is necessary to respect existing social barriers, and on the other hand, it is necessary to resolutely resist the ability to judge one's own behavior.

    Although there is a certain risk, you can still exercise your rights and protect your rights and interests in combination with your own abilities.

    It's not normal, because the homeroom teacher is your teacher, which can make you feel embarrassed or confused. It can affect your relationship with other teachers, and it can even have extreme consequences, such as being discriminated against at school or being criticized by others. Therefore, when you feel that you have such an emotion, the best solution is not to take it to heart, but to find a friend who can be used as a psychological support, or a person to listen to your heart, so that you can have a definition of your thoughts and express them boldly.

    If you feel that a person is too uncomfortable, you can also argue with a counselor to solve your emotional entanglements.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Tell you a true story.

    When I was in high school, my homeroom teacher was our English teacher, and she was not very old, she was twenty-six or seventeen years old at the time, but she was already an old woman compared to our group of fifteen, sixteen, seventeen or eighteen years old. But she does look very small, the whole person is in her early 20s, very precise and capable, with a flat bangs, a doll head and long hair, she looks like that kind of intelligent and beautiful intellectual girl.

    Because of her small appearance, she often mingles with her classmates, but at the same time, she is a very, very good person in English, and her guidance to us must be very detailed and objective.

    There is a classmate in our class named Zhou Chang. This boy has grown taller at that time, and has reached nearly 1.78 meters, almost 1.8 meters tall, for a boy in the first year of high school, it is simply unbelievable, many boys are not still in love at that time, not fully began to develop it, this boy is very talented, he has already dredged all the four libraries of the whole book when he was in junior high school, we didn't even know how to read Chinese at that time, I don't know how to read, so he was a scholar in our minds at that time.

    At the beginning, Zhou Chang's English was not very good, he didn't like English very much, he felt that English was a useless thing, and this kind of instrumental thing was completely destroyed by China's exam-oriented education.

    So, every time our homeroom teacher gave us an English lesson, he either read his own book, or he just lowered his head to sleep, and never cooperated well with the homeroom teacher, so the English teacher often left him alone to talk. And he always has some of his own students' crooked reasoning, arguing with the English teacher, and sometimes the two of us can go out of school for two or three hours, and we all go home, and they can still argue with each other in the classroom at seven o'clock.

    Then when it came time for the final exam, something happened that shocked us, that is, Zhou Chang actually got the first place in the English score of the class. Later, we found out that it was because he made a bet with our homeroom teacher, that is, if I got the first place in my English exam in the final exam, then you would be my girlfriend.

    I'm stunned, I feel like I've been played by someone Zhou for a semester, these two people set a love that lasted for three years, and finally got married after we graduated from college, our current homeroom teacher is in his 30s, still young and beautiful, this is a very happy thing.

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