How do you accept your mistakes?

I'm not going to admit it. I'd rather die than bend, and I'd rather bend than bend. Self-confidence is the most important, and pride is the most worthy of protection.

There are thousands of reasons to convince yourself of a thousand mistakes. I would rather make a mistake and make a mistake, and then have the opportunity to hurry up and correct and remedy it immediately. (There is a chance that it must be remedied) is so calm.

If it is beneficial to yourself, of course, you will immediately admit your mistake. But at this moment, you must imagine that your face is very big, thicker than the city wall, and you are a veteran who is left and right, so that you can feel that you are atmospheric, and when you are angry, you will be arrogant, and you will begin to despise everything, and after you are proud, your heart will be frank and open, and even if you make a mistake, you will take it for granted.

For some young children, it is still impossible to make them face their mistakes calmly, and it can only be said that they can realize that it is just a mistake. Older children, on the other hand, need to learn from the mistake and prevent it from happening again. First of all, the understanding of mistakes is the first step, when you can clearly understand the type and size of mistakes, as well as the harm to the parties and yourself, you can start to face it.

If the mistake can undo the damage, deal with it and take responsibility for it as soon as possible, you can be calmer about the result. But if the mistake has caused irreparable regret, try to make yourself pay attention to more people and things around you that are worth cherishing, and reduce the negative impact of the mistake.

Sometimes the other party doesn't realize that it's your mistake and you realize it, or when you quarrel with tsundere, you obviously realize it but don't want to admit it, then don't admit it for the time being, but let the other party see your change. After all, being stubborn and really ignorant are two different things. Some people never admit their mistakes to their faces, but they will always change themselves silently, and the people around them will understand after a long time.

If you don't want to be honest with yourself, you know that you have done something wrong but always make excuses for yourself, and you will be comfortable for a while, but when you encounter something like this, you will always be wrong. This can miss a lot of people in your life. You can observe more about what the right people do and how to deal with them, and then learn from them appropriately, and they will naturally be corrected.

How can there be a person who does not make mistakes, and if he does not make mistakes, he is not a person. But many people don't even have the courage to face it, so-called, face, status, self-esteem ......Self-esteem and face are never given by others. If you don't even have the courage to face it, you will only go back and forth in a constant emotional whirlpool of self-blame and guilt, and then make even bigger mistakes.

Eternal life shall not be exceeded. What's the use of apologizing at such a time? Even if you are forgiven, the relationship is broken and broken, and what happens is what happens, and you can't deny it.

The only possibility is to make life in the here and now as much better as possible. Seize the opportunity to fix all the things that might have been done not well enough by those who have hurt each other.

Mean, let's put it this way. Don't be the original good self, and at the same time see others make mistakes and don't have such self-knowledge as yourself. Of course, these are just self-perceived delays.

The best thing is that you understand in this buffer process that you always have to grow in life, and growing up is to keep making mistakes, the world is so big, you are never the worst one, nor the best one, so what is there to forgive for making mistakes?

I have been facing this problem recently, and I have thought about many big truths to motivate myself, and I have also listened to the enlightenment and persuasion of many people, but it is still difficult to withstand the pain in my heart, and I finally cheered up a little, and encountered the criticism and denial of the elders in the family during the New Year, I have been in a trance these days, and I have returned to the state of self-abandonment, escaping from reality, escaping from all my positive thoughts, ashamed to confide in the people around me, and I don't know how to save myself. Seeing this problem, I suddenly thought, in fact, I don't need to face mistakes, I just need to do a few right things in the next time, and when the situation is reversed, I will naturally be able to face the past calmly.

Start by recognizing the point of your mistakes. Analyze whether the consequences of mistakes are within your own tolerance. Keep telling yourself that something has happened. Remorse is useless and incompetent, and it is more realistic to solve it.

People don't want to face their own mistakes, seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, human nature, do not need to be calm, do not do wrong things to be calm, do wrong things calmly that is called a scoundrel. In any case, a mistake is a mistake, and the courage to admit and take responsibility is a good policy.

1. When you have to face the things you have done wrong, you must have the courage to take responsibility and dare to take responsibility, so that you will make mistakes and make yourself more realistic.

2. If you blame yourself, there is no need to do it, because things have already happened and they have passed, and there is no way to change them if you have great abilities.

3. We can only find a way to make up for it, or find a way to avoid making mistakes again. Therefore, a proper review summary is reasonable.

4. As long as it is not a crime, any mistake can be repeated.

What I want to say is that in the world, in just a few decades, most of the things you do are just a thought, some people can't think about it for a while, and do things that hurt themselves, some people are careless, they may lose their children, and some people don't see it, and there may be a major accident, so don't always hold on to your little things, and live up to the good times! If it's wrong, it's wrong, don't run away, don't reject, don't regret, accept, think, correct, these are not called things!

I think the best way to face my mistakes is to accept them! Then actively correct within your ability! First of all, you can ask yourself, this thing is done wrong, it is the way it is, what is the worst result next, whether you can bear this result, if you can bear it, don't regret it too much, summarize it well, think well, correct it well, this is also the process of life constantly hitting a wall, not a period of growth, every step of life is right, Seong lost the horse, you don't know if it's a blessing!

A person who knows his mistakes is still a sober-minded person. How do you recognize your mistakes and deal with them? Of course, it depends on the degree of error, and general mistakes should be corrected in time so as not to affect them.

When major mistakes occur (affecting performance, reputation, causing economic losses, etc.), in addition to deep reflection, corresponding remedial measures should be taken in time to minimize the losses caused by the mistakes. Be clear about your own attitude, review what should be reviewed, and bear the responsibility (here financial responsibility and reputation responsibility). Only by doing so will you get the tolerance of your boss and the understanding of your colleagues.

Don't die and refuse to admit it, and insist on going your own way.

It's okay to make mistakes, just be at peace with what happens, let Seon lose his horse, and let everything go with fate. But you must remember that no amount of remorse, regret, self-blame, or self-pity will help. Unless you tolerate it, treat it as if it were part of life, just as it can't be daylight 24 hours a day, it's always dark.

Rainy days must be a few, when the sky is clear, enjoy it, "10,000 years is too long, seize the day". In the face of mistakes, open your eyes, close your eyes, well, it's over. We summed up our thoughts and experiences, and threw ourselves into a new day and a new life.

If you make a mistake yourself, you can't solve the problem by quibbling and evasive, you must face the reality and try your best to remedy and recover the loss. Even if it is an irreparable mistake and may be rejected by society, so what, people have to live, they can only learn lessons, mend their ways, take responsibility, and be a new person.

1. Find the root cause of the problem.

After making a mistake, the most important thing is to analyze why the mistake occurred, first analyze the general process of the whole thing, and then think carefully about what you did wrong, so that you will not make the same mistake next time.

2. Face up to your own mistakes.

If you make a mistake, don't be afraid of the ridicule of others, let alone not admit your mistakes because others may say irresponsible things, a person who does not dare to face life must be a coward.

3. Self-criticism education.

Confucius once said that people should reflect on themselves three times a day. This is for people who have not made mistakes, and if they have made mistakes, then of course they should warn themselves. Maybe the people around you won't say anything to you because of the sake of face, but you have to keep that in mind.

4. Start your life anew.

If you make a mistake, if the mistake is not big, then you must always reflect on yourself, if the mistake is so big that it is unforgivable, then you must do your best to make amends, and treat every day after that as your own new life.

In fact, it is not terrible to make mistakes, but it is terrible to be a person who makes a mistake and does not admit it and dies without repentance. There will always be times when people make mistakes, whether the mistake is at work, or in life, to friends, or to oneself, there are thousands of mistakes, only forgiving oneself is liberation.

Be brave in the face of reality and be strong in taking responsibility. This is a piece of advice from many people to those who make mistakes, eat a trench and grow wise, and it is better to boldly step over the mistake and move forward if they are indulged in regret and chagrin. Before every action, we must be mentally prepared, in case of failure, what should we do?

Instead of singing blindly and leaving no way out. A person is overly optimistic, and when mistakes occur, the sense of loss is also particularly great. So experienced old people always advise hot-headed young people:

Prepare for the worst. "In fact, doing anything, attacking and retreating, and defending is the best status quo, which is the so-called preparation for both. People who do things like this can always give full play to their abilities, be at ease, and have few worries to be bold.

Mistakes are not terrible, but they are terrible not to admit mistakes! As the saying goes, if you make a mistake, you must admit it, and if you are beaten, you must stand upright. To clearly know the mistakes we have made, recognize the mistakes, and finally correct the mistakes, this is the true way for us to deal with mistakes.

In life, people are always making some mistakes, which is actually a very normal thing. But often our attitude towards mistakes is very important. Different attitudes often determine what happens when you make a mistake.

Everyone makes mistakes when they are young, but some people will find the reason for their mistakes after making mistakes, and they will try to correct the point where they made mistakes. Probably, after that, he would not have made a mistake on a similar issue. And he will know how to deal with this kind of problem the next time.

Or he can even get to know himself better. He will know what his shortcomings are, and he will be able to walk more smoothly in the future.

But there are people who never value mistakes. Maybe the mistake was small, so in his mind he would feel that these things were nothing. At least he would have thought that this mistake would not have much impact on his life for the rest of his life.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with such an idea. Because we must continue to look forward and see our infinite development in the future. A small mistake is really nothing.

But we can't ignore this mistake. Just because the mistake is small doesn't mean it's an unimportant thing.

Because every time you make a mistake, there will actually be a reason. So we have to find the cause and try to correct it. In this way, we will not make repeated mistakes again in the next development.

For us, it is also a growth in life. A person is constantly experiencing events, and then constantly correcting his mistakes. In the end, he made his future road smoother and smoother.

But if you ignore these mistakes and treat them as something unimportant. Maybe it will be repeated on the road in the future. A small mistake is not a big deal, but when these small mistakes are repeated, we will find that it causes us a lot of trouble.

And when these small mistakes pile up, it can be a very big loss. This loss can be very fatal for us. Many people may have caused a big loss because of a small mistake.

And from then on, there was no way to stand up and face the difficulties of life.

So it's very important for us to find the mistakes. But after we find out, we have to solve it and make sure that we don't make a second mistake. But we must not dwell on this mistake.

In fact, from the height of the whole life, look at the mistakes we have made. We'll find out that those are really nothing.

In life, people always like to listen to good words, but whenever they encounter problems, they are always unwilling to admit their own problems, and even if they admit it, they can always easily forgive their own mistakes, but they must compare the mistakes of others.

The most speechless self-explanation I have ever heard is that the past is gone, young, who doesn't make some mistakes, forget what should be forgotten. What a relaxed tone, what a calm and relaxed look, to generalize all the problems, and to put it mildly, as if others do not understand it is a great recklessness.

Past? Young? Forgot?

This kind of self-forgiveness is as simple as one plus one equals two.

Past? The past is a foregone conclusion and cannot be changed, but it has always left a deep imprint in our lives, good memories do always remain, but don't ignore them, bad memories are even more indelible. So don't use the past to prevaricate others and forgive yourself.

Young? Everyone has been young and frivolous, and everyone has rebelled in their youth, is it because they are young that they can make mistakes at will? After making mistakes, baptize yourself, know that mistakes can be changed, how good is it?

Being young cannot be used as a bargaining chip for us to make mistakes, let alone as a high-sounding excuse for us to forgive ourselves.

Forgot? For example, when we were young, our parents gave us a lot of love, and we never said thank you, but if they hit us once one day, even if we grow up, we will always remember it. Actually, it's easy to keep some things in mind, because there are many ways, but to forget some things, many of them are easy to do, and you can try them.

So don't use forgetfulness to numb yourself, forget yourself, but those who have been injured will remember it in a hurry.

It is indeed understandable that making mistakes is human nature, often what people want in their hearts is not to make the person lose face and how embarrassed, but just hope that he can recognize his mistakes and some bad results caused by his mistakes, and can have the courage to admit his own problems and take his own responsibility, that's all. But the truth always doesn't go as expected, obviously there is a very thin paper in the middle, but I don't have the courage to pierce it.

One of my favorite sayings goes, 'If I had treated you the way you had done to me, I am afraid you would have long since left me'.

Find problems from your own point of view, learn to empathize, and leave more wonderfulness and less regrets in our lives.