How to choose to break up with your boyfriend because of family problems 10

Two people work hard together, if your boyfriend loves you, he won't be willing to give up on you, let your boyfriend talk more about your good in front of his mother, you are behaving well, ok?

If you can, go for it.

If you really can't, just let it go.

You don't want to see your boyfriend embarrassed, do you?

Rather than two people suffering, it is better to bear it alone.

Love is not always perfect.

Those who love each other don't have to be together.

Talk to him and solve the problem together.

If necessary, you can ask him to take you home, and you can talk to his mom and dad and tell them"Not satisfied with my ** in the end. I can change it, we really love each other"

It's not your family who wants to get married together, or yourself!!

As an adult, emotional issues can refer to the opinions of parents, and even for the sake of family harmony, it can even be used as an important reference, but the final decision is still up to the individual. In my opinion, what is the scoring problem, and what is the problem of my parents, who wanted me to break up with my boyfriend. If it is a problem that touches the bottom line of morality, it is natural that there is nothing to say and immediately separate.

But if it's just some other issues, you can think about it again. Generally speaking, the most common reason why the woman's parents do not agree with their daughter and her boyfriend is that the man's own financial strength is not enough, the other party's family conditions are not good, the man's development potential is not good, or they feel that the other party is not good for their daughter, etc.

If it's because of material problems, it's recommended to think about two questions. One is that you can accept that the other party can't give you a better material life, and you may even do nothing in your life. The second is from your own point of view, whether the boyfriend has the potential for development and the possibility of change.

In particular, in the past two or three years, a relatively large development and transformation has been achieved. If both questions are answered in the affirmative, then I suggest that you can give yourself and your boyfriend, as well as your parents, a deadline to show the attitude of both of you and your determination to fight. During this time, it is not only a test for her boyfriend, but also a test for herself, and a test for this relationship.

But if it is sincere, and both of them work hard to produce results, the parents will agree after seeing it.

If it's because your parents are absolutely boyfriend isn't good enough for you, it's recommended to start from the bottom of your heart and ask yourself how the other person treats you. If you think it's okay, you might as well give your parents and your boyfriend more opportunities and time to get along, so that they can see your boyfriend's actions, and time will tell. If you also know that there are some problems yourself, there are indeed many things that the other person is not good enough, and after being together, it will not change much.

Then don't listen to your parents' advice and separate as well.

The above suggestions are all based on my own sober and objective perception of my boyfriend. If you are really not sober at all, you must not be tormented by the dilemma of choosing between your parents and your boyfriend. In short, from a personal point of view, the boyfriend is not a husband yet, and there is still a certain cost of trial and error.

The most important thing in love is personal experience, as well as one's own harvest and growth in this relationship. The opinions of parents have involved the question of whether the two have been in a relationship for a long time and whether to enter the marriage, if you feel that the other party is good at the moment, and has not touched the bottom line of the problem, I think you can try, as long as you maintain your own development and progress, do not give up being yourself for the other party.

No; Personally, I think that for a relationship, I can't break up with my boyfriend because of Oh, because it's really not easy for two people to be together, and if you break up with your boyfriend just because of your parents, two people may regret it very much.

Personally, I think you should break up with your boyfriend, because if your parents don't agree, I think you should listen to your parents, my opinion is that your parents are very good to you, they won't harm you, and if your parents don't agree, you should obey your parents.

I don't think it's needed; Because your parents don't know how the two of you are feeling, the marriage is your own, don't break up with your boyfriend because of your parents.

What should I do if my boyfriend goes to his house to have a relationship with his parents after he breaks up with his boyfriend? As for your boyfriend coming to the house to intercede, it means that he still has you in his heart, still cares about you, and would rather lose face. But that's just his way of showing love.

This does not mean that you still love him or care about him. Find out how you really feel. Is there still love between you?

Is there a chance? Did you break up in a sloppy way? When it is clear, it is easy to solve the problem.

If you are worried that your boyfriend will not break up and cause endless trouble, and you are choosing to reconcile, then life later must be difficult, because a person can cover up if necessary or for a short time, but not for long, and after the goal is achieved, he will return to his true face, and then everything will be irretrievable.

So, but if it is broken, it will be broken, and it will be chaotic continuously. If he's too pestering and annoying, you can also take legal action. Of course, once you love, it's best not to get out of control, don't love clearly, love if you can, love steadfastly, and don't cause more trouble.

Because love is not about changing the other person. It's about understanding each other and putting each other in your heart. You feel good about yourself and start over.

If you don't feel it's appropriate, gently tell him it's not appropriate. Even after marriage, it is possible to separate. Explain to him what's at stake.

If you think he can change for the better, then you take him back. After all, you've been talking for a while. There is also an emotional basis.

If you can reconcile, take him back! And I think you can talk to your parents about that too. Listen to their old people's advice.

Make a decision based on the actual situation. What do you say? It's always good to think about it.

I admire your boyfriend's courage! Pray for five is something that can be done by everyone, it really proves that he loves you, good five bases and willingness, cherish it! The goddess of fortune is looking after you.

I'm so happy for you. I see that you are a little entangled, is it a bit of a sideline who pretends to be a tasteless, and it is a pity to abandon it? Think about it, whether you love it or not, if you don't love it, you will cut it and make a mess, don't end up with bad things!

Let the police teach him how to do it.

Hello, friend. Generally, they will not choose to break up because of family reasons, love is a matter of two people.

Love is happy and sweet, but the process of pursuing love can be affected by various factors. Among these influencing factors, the subject's family status is one of the most important. Many people choose to break up because of the partner's family. ...

The reason why this situation occurs is that the gap in family conditions will affect the love between each other, the opposition of the other party's family will directly lead to the breakup of both parties, and the poor family conditions of the other party will have a great impact on the relationship.

1. If the gap between the family conditions of the two parties in love is too large, it will directly affect the outcome of the relationship.

The two parties in love are the same or similar in all aspects, and the most ideal results can be obtained, and the exchanges and feelings between two people are easier to achieve a harmonious state. If the gap between the family conditions of the two parties is too large, the impact on the relationship is very ......Two people with a large gap in family conditions have very big differences in living habits, thinking and concepts, etc., and it will be difficult to form a common language this time, and it is difficult for such a relationship to last for a long time, and both parties are likely to break up because of this.

2. The opposition of the other party's family will directly lead to the breakup of both parties in love.

For two people who are in love, if the families of both parties are strongly supportive, then the feelings between each other will be deeper, and the relationship between the two people will continue to develop. ......But if the other party's family is against the relationship, it will have a very big impact on the relationship between the two parties, and the Bido lovers will break up because of this. ......Therefore, family reasons have a great impact on love, and both parties in love must carefully investigate each other's family conditions in advance to avoid breaking up due to family reasons after falling in love.

3. If the partner's family conditions are too poor, it will have a great impact on the relationship.

In real life, it is not uncommon for two people to fall in love and find that each other's family conditions are very poor, so they choose to break up. ......Although this kind of thing feels a little impersonal, the reality is that way. ......In the process of falling in love, if the other party's family conditions are superior, then the chance of success in the relationship will be greater.

On the other hand, if the other party's family conditions are too poor, then both parties are likely to break up because of this. ......This situation shows that family reasons have a very direct impact on love, so when falling in love, we must pay attention to the factor of both families. If you and your friends are alone, you generally won't choose to break up, but when you encounter some difficulties, you will definitely help each other and negotiate with the composition, and I won't choose to break up because of such a small thing.

Your boyfriend broke up with you for such a reason, although you may be sad for a while, but I think it's a great thing for you. Because this can only show one thing, that is, he doesn't love you that much, if he is really enough, how can he choose to say goodbye to you because of a dislike from his parents? So in fact, in the final analysis, it is his own relationship that is not firm and not so strong, so he will be so easily swayed by other people's thoughts.

Generally, if the parents do not agree, then if the man really loves the woman, he will choose to persuade his parents, let them see a shining point in his girlfriend, and let them know why he chose this person. I will also do something with my girlfriend that satisfies my parents, so that they can see that two people are determined to be together. But he didn't do all this, but simply laughed at Jian Hedan's sentence that his parents didn't agree and chose to separate from you, how much do you think he is sincere to you?

What's more, this also confirms from one side that his parents are not very easy to get along with, even if you reluctantly marry into this family, they will still pick and choose from you, thinking that you are climbing their son, no matter what you do, you will be dissatisfied, do you want to live such a life? Which of us is not a heart-to-heart baby in the parents' place? Then why go to someone else's house and endure the suffering?

What is the point of getting married so that we can listen to an insult from someone else?

Maybe this man is still a typical mom boy, then the days will be even more sad, and when you get married in the future, nothing will be towards you, only towards your mother. I think it all sounds like a particularly scary one, so I think it's really a blessing for you if he breaks up with you because of these things. Because now you're just in love, if you really get the certificate, then it's too late to regret it.

You can respect what your boyfriend means. Because his parents disagreed. Your relationship is also awkward. So it's best to choose to let go.

In this case, it is correct that the two of you should communicate and coordinate well, and it is better to support each other and tolerate each other, so as to make life more noisy and sweet.

I think that after the breakup, the parents already knew about it, and it can't be said that the parents broke up without knowing it, and generally this kind of contradiction before the breakup has already intensified Gao Yuanran, not to say that one thing happened to break up, so the parents heard about it, and they already knew.

1. Parents will know sooner or later, and when parents know instead of knowing from you for the first time, what kind of situations and phenomena do you imagine will appear.

2. Parents are the people who know your character best, from childhood to adulthood, parents are the people who have been with you for the longest time, and they can see at a glance what you are thinking. So when you communicate with your parents, you can get more comfort from them.

3. Parents will communicate with you verbally, help you relieve the sadness in your heart, analyze the reasons for your breakup, analyze the inappropriateness between you, and avoid the same mistake last time when you are dating.

So as to sum up the experience, instead of being sad for someone who does not belong to you.

4. Sometimes, there is still a certain generation gap between you and your parents, and they don't understand your current life, so when you communicate with your parents, try to be easy to understand.

5. If you don't want to disappoint your parents too much, you can re-associate with someone who is suitable, and be a parent, I just hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and I hope you can find a reliable person who suits you, and it doesn't have to be with anyone.

If you don't know something, you can tell your parents directly, and there is no need to hide anything, because sooner or later they will know.