I m not very unproductive

You've realized that you're spending a lot of money, and that's a good start to growth. It may be that you have not learned how to manage your emotions and manage your money, which is a stage that many young people need to go through. You can change it, try to take some time every day to relax, and then, record a mood diary, and daily expenses, after a month or two, you can review and summarize it yourself, I believe you can find a good way.

Of course, the first few years after graduation will be hard, and the work experience is not rich enough, so it is impossible to get ahead immediately, try to find a job that is passable to do it first, accumulate experience to accumulate thick and thin, frequent job changes are not good, and the impression of those interviewers on you during the interview will be reduced. In addition, you also know that you spend money very much, why don't you control it a little, it is good for young people to suffer a little, young people are not at all the time to enjoy consumption, and it is good for them to save more in the future. And if you haven't sent money to your family, if your parents understand that you don't make much money, I believe they will also be understanding.

But let me ask a lot, can't you give three or five hundred to your family, would you rather spend money on your own than consider giving your parents money to live a little subsidy, ask your own heart.

Since we recognize the problem, we should solve it, and optimism and self-confidence are the necessary survival consciousness of people.

The way is to find it yourself, be careful and patient, there will always be no endless way, but other people's paths may not be suitable for you, that is to say, your path is only suitable for you, it is unique, if you want to make a profit, you have to find a few more ways for yourself, and one point is to think of it, and do it, failure or anything is not terrible, what is terrible is not to dare to try and lose motivation.

The family feels very disappointed, just say that you have no interest, sometimes the family says what you say, that is, a sentence of anger, you don't always put it in your heart, the family says that you are not productive, you have to work harder to do your thing, make an example to let the family take a good look, when you do your things better, the family will naturally look at you differently, the family must not want you to be unproductive, sometimes the family just likes to say this kind of thing to provoke you.

You can find a job that you are good at, you must be ambitious, as the saying goes, as long as you work hard, you will have everything, and you will work hard by yourself.

I was born to be useful, I haven't found my own suitable field for the time being, I can learn by myself, stay healthy, and have 3 turning points in my life, grasp it well.

Unpromising. It's about trying to change.

Be good at learning.

Good at thinking. Good at summarizing!

Be aggressive!

If you don't have a chance now, then work hard, study hard, work hard, and try to make yourself a productive person.

What does it mean to be promising? I don't know how old you are now, many people's so-called interest is success in the eyes of others, with a house, a car and a deposit. Many people go with the flow and live for a lifetime, and they don't know what they want!

Most people are ordinary people, learn to accept themselves, so that they can live the present with peace of mind, otherwise they will only dream every day. What kind of life you want, you work hard.

What is the meaning of no interest Everyone is born will have a future It is all through the efforts of the day after tomorrow You say that you are not productive Do you feel that you are lazy We have to work hard and be industrious We will have a future I hope you cheer up Come on brother!

Have confidence in yourself, maybe it may not be very good now, you will be a little lost, you can set a goal for yourself and make a detailed plan.

As long as you find the right direction and work hard, I believe that the future will get better and better, and don't think too much about it now.

Not being productive is not the most important thing, but to have ambition, ideals, pursuits, to be a down-to-earth person, and to be the best version of ourselves through our own efforts, because the vast majority of us are ordinary people.

If there is no interest, don't be discouraged, any method and discrepancy will have a chance to turn over.

Healthy and healthy, just don't worry about eating and drinking, most people are ordinary people, and they have to accept their ordinariness.

Everyone has the value of existence, but they are in a different position, and it makes sense to live their own way in a down-to-earth and serious way.