What should I do if I can t adapt to the government unit and always feel lonely?

Some people's lives are colorful, while some people's lives are static. In these daily lives, loneliness is like an umbrella that you will take out to shade the sun when the weather is sunny and to keep out the rain when it rains. Loneliness is a compulsory course for a person, and when we grow up, we must always learn to face loneliness.

If you want to escape from this loneliness, you need to understand the loneliness of loneliness, what makes you lonely.

1. The loneliness of government agencies

There are two types of loneliness, one is the loneliness of one's own soul, and the other is the inability to interact with others and feel lonely in life. When you are in a government unit, you will always encounter some unpleasant things, and you can't integrate yourself into the lives of others, which belongs to the loneliness of your heart. If you still want to stick to being yourself, it is recommended to stay away from this life, otherwise you will become like others sooner or later.

The other is loneliness in life, we can't communicate with others, in this case, we have to learn to change ourselves. The loneliness in life has nothing to do with the environment, no matter how we go to **, we will feel this loneliness.

2. The loneliness of the soul

Bi Shumin. once wrote a book called "Loneliness is a Compulsory Course for the Soul", in which Bi Shumin once said that loneliness is the normal state of life. People who seem close in life may not have crossed paths in their hearts, they are just for their own work and to cope with their own interpersonal interactions.

And the reason for this loneliness is probably that we hate the life of the government unit, and our own ideas are incompatible with the government unit. At this time it is advisable to stay away from this life and try to give yourself a new environment. Everyone wants to keep their heart pure, and changing jobs is the best solution.

3. Loneliness in life

The most important thing between people is communication, if we can't open our hearts, then loneliness will accompany us for a long time. Adjust your mindset and try to communicate with others, and you will find that everyone is so amiable. Since we have the courage to face loneliness, we should also have the courage to face our own lives.

If you can't adapt to your workplace after a long time of trying and adapting, you simply quit and look for other jobs, and if you still have to work on it, you have to make friends with other colleagues, which is a good way to relieve loneliness.

Then try to make your life as full as possible, have more hobbies, more social circles, and slowly become less lonely.

If you always feel lonely, try to go out shopping with your colleagues and connect with your relationship so that you don't feel lonely at work.

Either you want to stay here steadily, or you can find a job when you come out, and if you have time to feel sorry for yourself, it is better to find your own advantages, and it is best to choose a job that suits you.