What is the most important thing a person would like to say when they are dying?

I have a friend who was there before he died, and I feel sad, and I tell you about what happened to him on his deathbed. Xiao Lu, it's my hair small, we have been going to school together since we were children, playing together, and have a deep relationship. But when he was 45 years old, he was diagnosed with liver cancer.

Moreover, it is an advanced liver cancer, and it will not work within a few months after the investigation and treatment. I'm really sad, he is not very old, he has two children, the eldest daughter is 16 years old, and the younger daughter is only 8 years old, he is the breadwinner of the family. How would his family live without him?

I feel really sorry for him, but I can't do anything about it, and I can't save his life. Why is medicine still so underdeveloped, and even a liver cancer cannot be cured? I really hate, if you wait a few hundred years, maybe these cancers.

It's going to be resolved, but we can't wait. He said to the child: "Baby, dad will not see the day you get married, you must be filial to your mother when you grow up, you know?"

He also said a lot, and my tears flowed out, and I really couldn't hold on anymore, and walked out, crying silently. It turned out that when they were about to leave. We thought that what they wanted to do most was to express their love and reluctance to us directly.

But in fact, what they want to do most is to find a way to continue their love.

My grandfather, three years ago, passed away on the twenty-ninth day of the first lunar month. Just a few days ago, the third anniversary was celebrated. One day after the third anniversary, I dreamed of my grandfather, dressed properly, at home with my grandmother, living an ordinary life as usual.

It's just very strange, I'm still happy in my dreams, my grandfather is so sick and healed, but I still treat him as a patient in my heart. So I invited my grandma to my house to play, and then I thought that my grandfather was well and his movement was barrier-free, so I asked grandpa, grandpa, come to my house to play, our new home has been renovated and you haven't come once. Grandpa was very happy and said, okay!

However, in reality, my grandfather suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and hemiplegia for eight years, and in the last few years, his consciousness was almost unclear, his hearing was very poor, his eyes could not see, and he could not speak. Before he died, I rushed back from the unit, cut my grandfather's nails, wiped my hands, ears, and head, because my grandfather was a clean person, and he had to be clean wherever he went, and I thought that when I was a child, my grandfather liked me to pluck his ears, just like when I was a child. Grandpa couldn't say anything, just a rare serenity, and there was no emotion in his cloudy eyes, and I knew that Grandpa wanted to say a lot, but the hateful disease deprived him of all of this.

Thinking of this, I feel so sad, my grandfather who taught me to memorize Tang poems, sing a big sedan chair, and tell me about the Three Kingdoms, his soul was imprisoned like this, and he couldn't move! Tonight, when I saw this topic, I was wondering if what my grandfather wanted to say three years ago would be the same sentence he said in my dream three years later: Okay.

What people want to say most before dying is: I still want to live a few more years, and I still want to see the world so big.

Poor: But liberated! Rich: I want to live another 500 years! Woman: Don't be a woman in the next life! Man: It's tiring to be a man! Don't be a man in the next life!

If the family doesn't say goodbye, it means that they will always be together. It's very helpless for people to really want to go, and no one wants to leave if they can. Because I can't bear my family. Probably all I can say is what is left for you, and I hope you are doing well. What else can I say?

I signed for organ donation, don't let it go for a long time and waste it as stinky meat, I might be able to save a few people. Some people say that if you donate, you will donate, and people have to spend money to buy it, so they resolutely do not donate. In this regard, my opinion is that how many families are bankrupt and in debt when facing the serious illness of their loved ones, and they can't do it, but they can't maintain it, if organ transplantation can get back a life, then in front of the lives of parents, couples, and children, the obstacle of money can be overcome.

Stanley Ho lives with millions of injections every day, and Li Ka-shing spends a lot of money to develop life-extending drugs, doesn't he want to buy his life with money? If money could buy life and health, the world would be a much better place.

Death is on the line. The most important thing I want to say is child, I'll go. Treat yourself. When you're old, someone hurts.

Mom walked in the hospital in July this year, myocardial infarction, there is a history of diabetes and there is no way to do surgery, the doctor does not recommend surgery and says that the success rate is very low, I hope to be conservative**, I have to go to the hospital every day after work to talk to her, looking at her state is okay, I thought it was getting better, how do I know that the next morning I heard my father's ** said that my mother is not good, it is really a bolt from the blue! Arrived at the hospital to see my mother was rescued really uncomfortable, the doctor left let us prepare to put on old clothes, my mother said my milk name on the occasion of dying, nothing else said, in the end my mother still left, I personally put on old clothes for her, the child wants to raise and kiss not to wait, every time I think of it will secretly cry.

My father died when he was eighty-seven years old, and on his deathbed he kept saying sorry to my mother, and that if there was an afterlife, he would repay my mother by being a cow and a horse. My mother said that my father, who had been a wretched all his life, never bothered about family affairs, and had a strong temper. When he was dying, he said so many things, and he turned out to be a person who understood.

Before my father died, he was actually in a coma, but he still relied on his mind, reading my name, and then he opened his eyes, I held his hand, and he also made sure to me if it was me, and then he shaved him, cut his nails, and woke up, and the last time he was awake was to say "thank you" to me with tears in his eyes and then he fell into a coma, I don't know what the coma was like when others saw it, and my father finally fell into a coma, and from the outside, he looked like a normal person sleeping, still snoring, until finally there was no sound.

At the end of a person's life, the most important thing to say is what they were embarrassed to say.

It should be to settle the other living family members, because I can't rest assured, especially my parents and children.

Some people will say who came back when they were dying, and there were those who waited for their grandsons and sons, but they really didn't wait for them to die.

It's probably just some words to explain the future, there are still nostalgia, there are too many things to be reluctant to, and there will definitely be too many things to say to children, relatives and friends.

Repent and see if there is anyone who is alive when he is sorry and does not want to leave this world with regrets.

My father passed away on May 25 this year, and I said goodbye to my brother and me half an hour before leaving, and I also told my father not to think about it, and he will be discharged from the hospital after two days of recovery. As soon as he finished speaking, he saw that his father was panting and struggling, so he went to the doctor, and the doctor came and began to rescue him. As a result, Dad left.

I still can't accept it.

After I said it, it is divided into two parts, one is not nostalgic for this world, and the other is nostalgic for this world.

Before leaving, my mother-in-law suddenly said, hurry up, hurry up and hold my legs, and then there was no movement, and it didn't take long to say thank you, and left before six o'clock in the morning, without saying anything. Terminal cancer!

I clearly remember that morning eleven years ago, my mother wore a gray and white dress, I was very unhappy and said Mom, why did you wear such a dress, I felt that the gray and white clothes were unlucky, my mother went to change them, and my mother had a car accident at night, my mother and daughter miss you so much, and my daughter really misses you so much.

Look ye away from all things, and do not grieve, and when you face death, do not be afraid, but sleep for ever.

I'm sorry, I've done nothing in my life, and I've lived in vain.

Don't come to pound me and rub me, let me go clean and free of worries

I really want to live another 500 years!

I'm also afraid that I will regret it in the future. When you are young, you only care about yourself, so now you start to spend the most time with filial piety, and hope that your parents will be healthy until they are old! In this world, except for parents and money, everything is fake, the clouds are light and the wind is light, the red dust is rolling, and it is just a chic walk!

This is actually all our imagination, and the real dead should not be able to think of anything before they die.

The 20 signs that a person is dying are as follows:1. Reduced demand for things.

2. Reduced demand for water.

3. Restlessness.

4. Energetic.

5. Cold hands and feet.

6. Purple spots appear on the body.

7. Incontinence.

8. Difficulty breathing.

9. Drowsiness. 10. The elbow joint and above the knee joint are hot.

11. The wrinkles on the forehead will be relaxed.

12. Be able to say something that ordinary people can't understand.

13. Cerebral coma.

14. Facial depression.

15. All kinds of reflexes are weakened, dulled or disappear.

16. Shock.

17. Confusion.

18. Weak breathing.

19. Tidal breathing or intermittent breathing.

20. Vision loss.

Expansion:

The dying period is a period when the function of the main vital organs is extremely weakened and gradually tends to stop before clinical death, the function of the central nervous system is in a state of inhibition or loss, the pre-tour vital signs gradually decline, and various signs indicate that life is about to end.

Before dying, people usually face great physical pain and psychological suffering, and the medical god Bu Qing and his family should try their best to help patients meet their physical and psychological needs, so that people's lives can be respected, psychological comfort can be achieved, and their surviving quality of life can be improved.

Summary. Dear, hello, people to the end of life, is in need of comfort, which also gave birth to the topic of hospice care, everyone has to face death, hospice care is a very important stage, including the language of the dying person, say some words to let them go at ease, ask what are the unfinished events, try to help them realize! How to help him with pain, how to feed, cover the quilt!

These need to be mastered, and finally let them leave peacefully. Say goodbye to this world!

Good. Dear, hello, when people are dying, they need to be comforted, which has given birth to the topic of clinical or end-of-life care, everyone has to face death, hospice care is a very important stage, including the language of the dying person, say some words to let them go with peace of mind, ask what are the unfinished events, try to help them realize! How to help him reduce pain, how to feed, cover the quilt!

These need to be mastered by the relatives, and finally let them leave peacefully. Say goodbye to this world!

1. Look at your loved ones.

Tell your loved ones and friends about things that you can't say before.

I want to see someone I've always wanted to meet.

Explain the aftermath to your loved ones.

The dying man has already seen it widely.

Neurological disorders, such as Alzheimer's disease, follow this pattern, as do liver failure, kidney failure, and other chronic diseases. Severe heart disease can be left uncontrolled for a long time, repeatedly worsened, and often fatal due to sudden arrhythmias.

Knowing the likely time course of the disease enables the patient and his family to make arrangements. If there is a possibility of death due to arrhythmia, they should be prepared for sudden death. In people with cancer, failure before death is often a sign that the last days have come.

End-of-life process:

As observed in cancer patients, when the condition worsens for a long time, complications and aggravation, it may indicate that the patient has entered a dying state. Usually about a month before death, the patient's energy, functioning, and comfort have been reduced and appear to be exhausted, indicating that death is imminent.

Dying also has its time course. Sometimes, a patient with a serious illness, in the course of an active ** in the hospital, suddenly deteriorates, goes into a dying state, dies within hours or days. However, the more common end-of-life process is persistent, prolonged chronic energy failure, or repeated episodes of Takano Liang in between.

I don't regret accompanying you through this life, and I hope we can meet again in the next life.

Everyone has some regrets in their lives, and I am certainly no exception. The loss of my first love is the biggest regret in my life, but it is the greatest luck in my life to find this person who is willing to accompany me through my life. When I am about to leave this world, I want him to be by my side.

I don't regret going through my life with you, even if I am not rich enough in this life, but I am happy enough. It's something I've always dreamed of trying to do, and it's what I want to give my loved ones the most at this stage.

The two of us have been married for several years, and my career is still not improving, and I am still hovering in the same place, and even regressing a little. I don't know if I will achieve something in the next few decades, but according to the current trajectory of my life, ending this life as an ordinary person should be the best ending.

Although I am not rich enough in this life, I still want to listen to the person who has accompanied me all my life before leaving this world and say that I will not regret it, even if it is a lie to me, I want to hear it.

Hopefully we'll meet again in the next life, and while I know it's unrealistic, I'm still looking forward to it. In the ups and downs of this life, I have always regretted the loss of my first love, but when my life was about to come to an end, I realized that the people who accompanied me were my most beautiful memories.

I hope that the two of us will have savings in the next life, and that we will still be able to hold hands and be together for the rest of our lives. I know it's just a beautiful fantasy, and it's uncertain whether there will be an afterlife, let alone two people who can still meet.

But I still want to hear such a sentence, even if it is just a comfort to me, I will leave with a smile on my face.

When life comes to an end, all the sorrows and joys are meaningless. I don't know what to say, and I don't want to say anything more, I just want to hold the hand of the person who has been with me all my life and silently wish him happiness for the rest of his life.

The moment I close my eyes, maybe my life will really flash in front of my eyes, maybe not exciting enough, but it is also worth remembering.