What should I do if my husband and wife live in different places and are not at ease with my husband

Updated on parenting 2024-02-09
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.The upstairs said it so easily, you really have to encounter this kind of thing yourself, your own other half has such a performance, what do you do? Can you deal with it calmly?

    2.Moderate trust is necessary, but excessive trust is stupidity.

    3.Why don't you go to the place where he works and see him, and if you have a child, take the child with you.

    4.It doesn't have to be a problem, but couples who have been separated for a long time are in danger of getting out of the way, after all, it's very lonely to be alone.

    5.Think about it, what would you do if your current situation could not be changed? If it were me, I would go with him, because although the career is important, I would rather follow him than the danger of losing my husband and family.

    6.If my husband doesn't call me for a day, I will feel abnormal, if he thinks, even if he is busy, there is always time to go to the toilet, only do it himself to reassure his wife, my wife will not think much, if he cares about you, he should also want to listen to the voice of his lover and children, so busy should not be an excuse. Whether you want it or not is the key.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Trust is the foundation of life, and it seems that you should often go home to visit your relatives or he will come to visit them. Do not decline for any reason**. In the past, people relied on writing letters, but now it is convenient, and it will not waste time to call ** a few more times. Communication is fundamental.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Support the upstairs!

    Even if people live in one place and sleep together every day, they want to change their hearts like changing their minds, and if you want me to say that you must care more about him, don't care too much, and don't do anything else. Responsible men don't leave this house easily!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's no need to disbelieve him so much, men are ambitious, maybe he is really busy, and when he is idle (for example, after eleven o'clock at night), he can't bear to disturb you when you are sleeping. If you love him, support him, have a loving heart, don't think too badly of a man.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The husband and wife have been separated for a long time and miss their husbands, and smart women know how to solve it by themselves.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's better to persuade your husband to come back to you! You can still find it when the money is gone. If a man's heart is gone, it will be difficult to come back! He always said that there must be something wrong with the meeting!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let your man go back to work with you, the sales job is okay, the government unit is not easy to find, if your man really has a heart, he will find a way to accompany you, people's hearts are unpredictable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    By all indications, your husband is now in trouble. You now have two paths to choose from:

    1.Divorce him and find your happiness again.

    2.Make some sacrifices and quit his job, after all, he is just starting out and should have a chance to turn around. It's up to you to sacrifice your current job for him.

    However, you also have to be mentally prepared that maybe in the end you will lose your job and your husband will still not be able to change his mind. There is also a possibility of this.

    So, you must think twice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He has a problem, if a man loves you, no matter how busy he is, there will be toilet time, as long as he can be free, he will have time to call you

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you want to keep your marriage, either you go to your husband's place, or let your husband come back.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Without prior notice, take the time to see him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The basis of marriage is mutual trust, always suspicion will not last long, you don't trust your husband, you can do it together and don't live in a different place.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then discuss moving in together, and if you don't have children, you can find a job nearby.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After living in a different place for a long time, the gap between me and my husband is getting bigger and bigger, what should I do?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Conflicts should be resolved well, and if conditions permit, face-to-face communication can be done to achieve better results. When there is a conflict with your husband living in a different place, you must pay attention to the following points:

    1. Don't mention old things.

    What should I do if I quarrel with my husband in a different place, there is a conflict, the previous Chen sesame rotten grain must not be mentioned, men don't like women to mention men's past relationship history, this is bound to be difficult to end. To avoid this problem, couples should:"Chapter 3 of the Covenant", which stipulates that "no fault that occurred one month ago shall be mentioned".

    2. Don't cry.

    Quarrels are not purely emotional, but logical, and crying will allow emotions to influence decision-making. In the event of a heated argument, you should restrain yourself and leave the scene for a while"For example, go to the bathroom, go to the kitchen to wash the dishes, tidy up the house, and give each other a chance to calm down. After the quarrel, making a joke, giving a small gift, inviting the other party to watch a movie, etc., are all ways to resolve it.

    3. Consider the actual situation.

    Many people immediately think of divorce as soon as they quarrel, this is not right, marriage is indeed free, and it is natural to divorce if you can't get by, but you have to know that you are really happy after divorce? In some families with siblings, even if you get divorced, you will not be able to return to your parents as you used to. And if you already have children, you also need to think about what to do with your children after the divorce.

    Now it is a very normal thing for husband and wife to live in a different place, at this time, the wife needs to be more patient to understand her husband, give her husband a little time to work hard, I believe he wants to give your future home a better material guarantee. You must have faith in your husband, and of course she needs to come home often, so that the woman doesn't think too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The two live in a different place and are not together all the year round, so it is easy to have emotional problems. Not only do you live in a different place with your husband, but also have contradictions, it seems that your problem is relatively big, you should actively face this problem, find a breakthrough in the contradiction and actively resolve it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not easy to live in a different place, and there is no way to solve it, for life, if there is a contradiction, explain it, solve it, if you are not together, you must be more tolerant of each other, be considerate of each other, care for each other, and eat soil As long as it is not a matter of principle, don't take it too seriously, it will hurt very much, life is not easy, the pressure is very high, there are contradictions, it affects the mood, there is no need to be angry, treat each other well, and cherish it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Two people should understand each other, and don't always have conflicts if there are conflicts in living in a different place. Two people should understand each other, and if there is always a conflict, the two will break up, and both parties are very painful, so it is not recommended to have a long-distance relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is very dangerous to have contradictions in living in a different place, and the heart is already relatively empty, and the slightest wind and grass will lead to cranky thoughts and rupture.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then don't be in a different place, now you can find a job in your own home, it's okay if the salary is low, the main thing is that the family is harmonious, or you can take the children to live where your husband works, the best way is to find a job in your hometown, so how good it is to be together with the children.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This is normal, well, as long as you understand each other and have a better relationship, and then apologize quickly if it is your own mistake, buy some gifts to let him lower his anger, it is always possible, there must be no contradiction to enter the conversation, don't collide with him!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are no big contradictions in the other place, it will be fine in a few days, do they all miss each other, and the two can't be separated for too long.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's normal to have conflicts with her husband living in a different place, two people who don't live together need each other's care and care, how can he have a place to care? You can only live to attract the attention of the other party, and there will be contradictions in a decent way, and then you can be cared for in this way, life together, it is normal to live in a different place, and it is normal to need to have contradictions.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After living in a different place for a long time, the gap between me and my husband is getting bigger and bigger, what should I do?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If there is no relationship of mutual trust, it is very dangerous, communicate more, talk more.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It is said that distance produces beauty, and they are all in different places, how can there be contradictions?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The most taboo thing about getting along between husband and wife is suspicion, you can't always worry about him, so he will be disgusted with you. In fact, it is up to you to tie a man's heart, because you are suspicious of him, so Keke is always concerned about his affairs, he is against you acting indifferent, try to find something to do, it may be much better to distract yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This is every woman's death hole! But we should all control ourselves and keep telling ourselves to believe in Him! The most taboo between husband and wife is to be suspicious of each other, if you love him, please believe him!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have to find something to distract you ... Husbands and wives need to trust each other ...

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The first is to trust him from the heart, and the second is to keep my husband's stomach and give him what he loves to eat; Again, be good to his family, don't be obsessed with money, and turn his family into your strong backing; Also, love the house and Wu, turn his friends into your friends, and hang out or travel with him when you have the opportunity. Finally, let him feel your tenderness, your thoughtfulness, your understanding, your broad-mindedness, your infinite love and dependence on him all the time. Seek adoption.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In fact, people's psychological suggestion will cause many consequences, such as a person who takes the wrong test report, thinks about cancer all day long, and finally really dies of cancer. Two people should trust each other when they get along, and if he really wants to change his mind, you won't be able to change anything. You care about him too much!

    Women should be indifferent, face it calmly, and all they can do is to care more and be considerate of each other! Then he will leave you, and that's his loss!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you're old like this, it's easy to lose her. Be confident. Since he can choose you, it means that he cares about you and you are the best.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Concern is not coming, it shows that you are not independent enough, inner dependence and lack of self-confidence, we can't ask others, we can only ask ourselves.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Well, either your husband is introverted, or there is a problem between the husband and wife.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You tell him to come often.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Whether he has a red face on the other side,

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    He doesn't look for you, you look for him!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Men are not as careful as women, and if they think about him, they will give him **.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    So how do you live as a couple?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    We are a long-distance couple, and he doesn't care about me, doesn't give me **, and doesn't greet me, I feel chilled when I think about it, and that's how long-distance couples are, right? That's all busy, how can there be anything like you, stay at home every day, and do nothing, so whether it's a long-distance couple, or a couple who can meet in reality, you should be more considerate and caring, so if he doesn't look for you, it may be because he is busy with work, otherwise perseverance is also painful anyway, so you hurry up and let him come back, or you hurry to his city, otherwise it's not a way for so long.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Long-distance couple, what kind of play are you doing Work is so important.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    He's the kind of guy who doesn't speak very well.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    The most important thing between husband and wife is faithfulness, and there is also the trust in each other. Moreover, if the husband and wife have to live in a different place for a long time, they must be working hard for a better future of the family, so it is even less likely that the man will not be as loyal to his wife as before. In fact, the relationship between husband and wife is not as easy to shatter as we think, and now the quality of people is getting higher and higher, so the man will definitely be responsible for his wife, and he will definitely not do anything to hurt his wife, which we must rest assured, after all, it is a last resort, and living in a long distance must be for a better future between husband and wife, so it is impossible to be unfaithful to women.

    But I am talking about this based on most cases, and there are a few cases where a man can't bear the emptiness and loneliness to do something that hurts his wife。But all are very little, almost none. In my opinion, husband and wife live in different places, and the husband and wife should maintain their relationship well, be sure to take good care of their feelings, love each other well, don't quarrel often, and don't often have conflicts.

    When you encounter something, you must calm down and solve the problem and resolve the conflict, so that the relationship between the husband and wife will become stronger and stronger, and the man will become more and more heartfelt to his wife.

    The wife must not be unreasonable at this time, and must take good care of the boy's emotionsAfter all, it's normal for him to have something wrong when he's out alone. At this time, the wife must know how to feel sorry for her husband, and she must empathize with her husband and understand her husband's difficulties.

    Looking at the problem from each other's point of view, the relationship between two people will become stronger and stronger, and there will be fewer problems. Looking at things from each other's perspectives will increase the stability of the couple's relationship and reduce the occurrence of many conflicts.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Men certainly can't be faithful to their wives, there are too many such people.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    This is not necessarily, it depends on what kind of husband you are looking for.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's hard to say, because there are both situations, so women have to be independent.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If that's the case, then I think you really should be loyal.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Maybe, maybe not, there's no specific standard for this, and it can't be the same for everyone.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    This is a common mentality of women, and if they come together, they should rest assured. There can be no doubt. Allow the husband to have his own circle, and not control it too much, otherwise it will backfire.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Improve yourself and keep his heart.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Then you can visit your husband on weekends or holidays, or your husband will come back to see you.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Then you can only endure it, otherwise there is no other way.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    If a woman wants her husband, then you can go to see your husband, such a simple question.

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