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Anonymous users2024-02-06Jealousy often reflects the hypocrisy and selfishness inherent in a person, and is undoubtedly a huge obstacle in the development of the team's career, affecting the cooperation of the common cause. In fact, the success of the cause depends on the joint efforts of everyone, if there is jealousy between the individuals in the team, mutual deception, intrigues, it is difficult to make a breakthrough in the team career. A person who is confident in himself will not put his mind on jealousy of each other, but will constantly strive to enrich himself and achieve success through his own unremitting struggle and pursuit.
Jealousy can be the most common mistake in interpersonal relationships, which is mainly manifested in: fear of others surpassing oneself; Or they are obsessed with or deliberately showing off their achievements, arousing the jealousy of the other person, and taking pleasure in it. Comparatively speaking, jealousy is a relatively stubborn and long-lasting psychological phenomenon.
Saxon Denny famously said, "Jealousy knows no rest." ”
Envy is harmful to both others and to oneself, and must be eliminated by effort, generally speaking, from the following aspects:
The first is to fully recognize the dangers of jealousy. Jealousy is an immoral mentality that is harmful to others and to oneself. Entangled in this emotion, you can't move forward, so you have to get rid of it completely.
The second is to overcome selfish distractions. In real life, jealous people tend to be tolerant and generous about their family's progress and achievements, but difficult to get along with their own colleagues. The main reason for this is that the jealous person magnifies "himself" and sees his relatives as "his own person".
Therefore, the basic condition for eliminating jealousy is to overcome selfish thoughts.
People who are jealous often want to get ahead on their own, and the performance of jealousy has unabashedly reflected this psychology. In this regard, the envious person should evaluate himself correctly, give full play to his strengths in life and work, and make appropriate efforts, so that he can achieve something in some aspects.
At the same time, it must be admitted that even if a person is talented and energetic, it is impossible to always be ahead, so correctly evaluating and looking at oneself and others is also a psychological victory over jealousy.
As the saying goes, "compare the heart to the heart", which is called "psychological position swap" in psychology. When we are jealous of others, we should also think about how others feel when they have this kind of affection for us after we have achieved results, this method will be very effective in helping us to get rid of depression.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Calm down and do your best to be free from the world.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04No matter how you deal with it, there will be jealousy between your colleagues, because after all, you have a competitive relationship, as long as you get along with them.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03You need to be yourself, people are used to it, compare yourself with others. Because since childhood,
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Let's calm down first
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Her second aunt said let me go with me.
Colleagues are jealous of you, indicating that you are capable, and people will only be jealous of people who are better than themselves. So first of all you should be happy, which shows that they recognize your abilities; Secondly, it is important to manage the relationship with colleagues in the company, so you may need to be more proactive in handling your colleagues, after all, you need their cooperation when you are working. Again, the body is not afraid of shadows, if you haven't done anything wrong, you are not afraid of what others say, or you are neither humble nor arrogant. >>>More
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Whatever you want, there will be such a thing happening when you go to ** to do things, and anyone will talk nonsense behind your back, in fact, sometimes you will say that other people's are not behind your back, so you should be retribution! Even if you know who is not, you must pretend that she is a no-nonsense person in front of him, and treat her with a smile on her face, and the relationship will not be so stiff! It's the same with business, no matter how the guest is not, how difficult you have to get along with, at most after you go back, you keep talking about how he and how she is, anyway, she won't know!
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