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Anonymous users2024-02-06See if the other party is free at this time.
Useful when asking a colleague a question).
At that time, I was on the high-speed rail, and I thought that I would take the opportunity of a business trip together to ask Tongshen to consult one of my experienced colleagues. My colleague Brother Liang was talking to the project leader at the time, and I rushed up and directly said the question I wanted to ask, without taking into account that he was playing **.
As you can imagine, Brother Liang's face changed on the spot, and he didn't communicate with me after hanging up the **, and I still can't forget the way he looked at me at that time.
If I had been given another chance, I think I would do it :
Seeing a colleague playing **, it means that I am busy at this time, and if I have the eyesight to see it, I will step aside first, and wait for Heng Jingshi to hang up**, and then ask for advice.
Here, it is necessary to empathize with colleagues in the workplace. Imagine you're busy and a new colleague comes in to ask for a question, and you don't know each other well, would you talk to him? You can tell me the answer in the comment area. ）
Before asking a question, think about it yourself and ask your colleagues for advice with your ideas.
On the one hand, it is to see whether the views of colleagues are in line with one's own, and on the other hand, it is to exercise one's ability to think independently. ）
There was still 1 hour before we got off the bus, but my problem was still not solved.
At this point, I asked myself, is this really a problem that can't be solved? Have I thought of any other workarounds? What should I do if it wasn't a colleague who was on a business trip with me today and I was on a business trip alone and encountered these problems.
My colleagues can't always be by my side to help me, so I can only think of several solutions to the problem. In fact, after thinking about it, I can come up with the answer on my own, but I just need a sure voice to affirm me. At this time, you can bring your own ideas to ask experienced colleagues for advice.
Pay attention to the tone of communication and the attitude of humbly asking for advice, rather than the attitude of a condescending boss greeting employees.
At work, colleagues are not obligated to answer your questions, so if you want to get answers, your own posture is important. ）
After getting off the high-speed train, I was anxious to know the solution to the problem, so I grabbed my colleague who was walking in front and asked him why I didn't have my problem just now. My colleague looked at me and smiled helplessly.
One of my colleagues couldn't stand it anymore, and he told me: "Xiaoxiao, you are asking others questions, not questions, do you think your tone and attitude just now are not like bosses?" ”
Fortunately, thanks to his reminder, I realized that I was asking for help, and I needed to put myself in a correct position, and my colleagues had no obligation to answer their doubts.
When there are different opinions in communication, we should discuss things and not people, and discuss things on a case-by-case basis.
Quarrels with colleagues because of disagreements of opinion, which is undignified at work. ）
My colleagues and I didn't eat for a few hours on the high-speed train, so as soon as we arrived at the station, we went to find a restaurant near Lunyan to eat. While I was eating, I threw the question out again and expressed my opinion.
My colleague Brother Liang directly rejected my idea, saying that according to your thinking, the data will not be completed.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I thought about taking the opportunity of a business trip together to ask one of them about it.
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Whatever you want, there will be such a thing happening when you go to ** to do things, and anyone will talk nonsense behind your back, in fact, sometimes you will say that other people's are not behind your back, so you should be retribution! Even if you know who is not, you must pretend that she is a no-nonsense person in front of him, and treat her with a smile on her face, and the relationship will not be so stiff! It's the same with business, no matter how the guest is not, how difficult you have to get along with, at most after you go back, you keep talking about how he and how she is, anyway, she won't know!
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