What I said, I wrote about the cultural differences between Chinese and American family education

Differences between Chinese and American family education:

1. American parents encourage their children more than they protect, while Chinese parents are overprotective rather than encouraged.

American parents encourage their children to try things out to develop their abilities and interests, as well as build self-confidence.

Chinese parents are overprotective, resulting in children's dependence on their parents, making children doubt or lose the correct understanding and evaluation of self-worth and self-ability, and everything depends on their parents. Parents. Parents are afraid that their children will be injured or bullied, and parents do not let their children participate in many things or dangerous activities.

Second, American parents guide their children more than indoctrination, and Chinese parents preach more than guide.

American parents pay attention to guiding their children to gain experience and lessons and draw conclusions through practice or even after hitting a wall. Always say to your child, "You decide for yourself."

Go ahead and try it. "I think ......Maybe better, right? "My advice is ......"Wait.

Chinese parents like to tell their children directly about their lessons and lessons, so that their children will avoid detours. I often say to my children, "You are still young, you have to listen to adults."

You don't understand, do what I say. "I'll tell you ......Why don't you listen? "Wrong, you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.

Listen to me, I eat more salt than you eat" and so on.

3. American parents demand all-round development for their children, while Chinese parents often replace everything with good learning.

American parents encourage their children to participate in public welfare activities in schools and communities, and parents also act as participants, organizers, and service providers of activities, requiring their children to do volunteer work twice a week. However, American parents do not require their children to learn the piano, painting, and dance, and it is all up to their children's volition.

Chinese parents only focus on their children's learning, and parents do all the housework, let alone let their children do volunteer work. If there is no extra point evaluation, even the class cadres are unwilling to let the child serve. But he never relaxes or even forces his children to learn the piano, painting, and dance, and accompanies them around the clock on weekends.

Fourth, American parents build their children's self-confidence, and Chinese parents hit their children's self-confidence.

American parents say to their children, "You're the best. But I know you can do better, I know you. "I'm far worse than you when I'm your age. It's okay if you don't do well in the exam this time, I'm sure you'll be able to do it next time. ”

The Chinese parent said, "You're so stupid, you can't answer such a simple question." "You see, other people's children are better than you.

I've told you how many times, but I just can't remember it. These words, intentionally or unintentionally, are often on the lips, which greatly hit and destroy the child's self-confidence.

Chinese families (mostly copied numbers): child attacks.

Children are all in their mouths, for fear that they will be bullied if they are not careful, or whatever, children lack independence American family: children are independent from an early age, sleep alone in a room at a very young age, and have a strong ability to do it themselves, but it is also easy for children to go down the wrong path.

If you want to say which of the two aspects is better, it is impossible to judge, it depends on the child's personality, the personality should be strong from an early age, then according to the American way, if the character is softer, it can only be according to China, and then slowly cultivate the child's independence.

Most of the children who grew up in China have been coming from childhood to adulthood, and they must study hard so that they can have a way out, and most parents have higher requirements for their children than the mausoleum. Most American families may not be so strict with the management of their children, and they usually pay more attention to each other's joy in the process of getting along with their children.

Domestic violence is being managed in the United States.

This is a very strict aspect, and if parents beat their children on a regular basis, then parents are likely to lose custody of their children.

This is very different from us in China. Although we in China do not advocate parents beating their children, taking children to be beaten by parents, this is also a very common thing, in the minds of our Chinese, it no longer matters. What we pay more attention to in China is to let children listen to their parents, let them listen to their parents unconditionally, and let children not have the courage to refute their parents.

Perhaps in the minds of most of our parents in China, they want to be able to let their children be like a puppet, only knowing how to do some things according to their parents' requirements. In fact, in the concept of education, every country is a little different, not to mention every country, every family is a little different, some parents pay attention to what they do not want, do not do to others, some parents pay attention to timely fun, and some parents will have the phenomenon of worrying about the sky, so it also leads to their children facing greater pressure.

Regarding the education of parents, although the starting point is for the good of their children, they also hope that parents can use the right way to educate their children. In this way, the child can avoid some harm in the future or cause the child to have some character defects and so on. In the Netherlands, some parents are interviewed directly by the local child protection department for yelling at their children twice.

First of all, there are many different views on the education of Chinese and American families. But their starting point is to rent Chunhan for the good of the child, and they also want Senyu to be better at the child's laughter.

The purpose is to make children better, but American education will be more direct, and Chinese education will be tactful.