What is it like to pursue a girl who is taller than you?

Very uncomfortable. I'm 172 tall and I've spent some time with a 178 girl. I began to meet in the English learning group, and after chatting, I fell in love.

Her avatar is very delicate, there are no obvious traces of beauty, and the dialogue also has the feeling of an ignorant little girl. After chatting for a few days, she once made an invitation: go for a walk in the playground.

It's in the same school, so let's see each other. I arrived half an hour early and circled around the playground, keeping my illusions about each other. Suddenly, I heard someone calling my name behind me, and I looked back.

Half a head taller than me, and a face that was noticeably larger than my avatar. After walking a few laps, I found that there is not much difference between the Internet and her in reality, and they are all little girls.

Her mood was getting better and better, and I was getting more and more impatient. Then they went their separate ways. Later, there was no later, the personality was incompatible, and he soon died without a problem.

In this life, I shouldn't think about girls who are taller than me anymore.

Let's not talk about what women will think, men can't accept that the other party is stronger than themselves, so that men will become more and more inferior, more and more lacking in self-confidence, until the marriage breaks down, and women will know more people who are better than men or even better than themselves, once the relationship changes, it will be like a bamboo, collapse in seconds, and can't withstand any wind and rain! Eventually, the marriage was declared a failure.

Low self-esteem will cost you everything and will make you regret it for the rest of your life. When I was young, I drifted north alone, met a person who loved me like my life chasing me, and brought many friends to confess to me in public, and I was also love at first sight. It was a heartbeat that could never be had again in this life, because he felt that his family was poor and inferior, and he felt unworthy of him, and his face was short, so he chose to remain silent.

Missing the love of his life, leading to the failure of his final marriage, a lifelong knot. You will regret why you had so low self-esteem at that time, and why you didn't try, and how did you know that you couldn't? Why not be brave enough to give it a try?

And the other party thought that I was rejecting him in public because of love and hate, seeing my eyes are full of anger, since then I believe that there will really be true love in this world, true love your eyes are like heat, deeply attracted by you, his eyes are affectionate and gentle, he wants to care for you and protect you, and hug you deeply The strong desire is undoubtedly expressed in the eyes. At that time, I began to fully believe that there really would be someone who loved you as much as life. If you miss it, you won't have it again, and don't let yourself regret it for life.

Does the level of education affect the happiness of the marriage? I don't think so. First of all, since the two parties can get married, it means that they don't care, otherwise they may not even be able to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

Secondly, education is not equal to ability, high IQ does not necessarily have high emotional intelligence, and family management after marriage requires high emotional intelligence. Compared with academic qualifications, whether or not there is ability is an important factor affecting happiness, and the ability to solve difficulties is particularly important, and women are always insecure, regardless of their educational background. Therefore, it does not matter how high or low the level of education is, the important thing is whether you can give your lover a shelter from the wind and rain, a big tree that can be relied on.

I'm the taller girlfriend I've known for 12 years and I've never worn high heels. When I met my parents, my whole family felt like they were standing out from the crowd. I was barefoot and he was standing on a small bench during the wedding photoshoot.

When he received his permit, he was asked by the photographer to stand on tiptoe. The wedding scene was jokingly called the potato and chopsticks combination by friends. After marriage, he is the little bird.

With a baby, I'm worried about the baby's height, haha.

The girl of 175 floated by, and her boyfriend was 173 (although he always said that he was 175), and before I was with him, I felt that I had to find a 180+ male ticket, and then I felt that it was okay not to be too outrageous. Sometimes you can walk like a buddy with your shoulders on your back, haha.

Very supportive of your pursuit, as long as this girl has a good impression of you, I hope you will continue to chase it, but you yourself have to have two brushes in terms of work and business and emotional intelligence to be surprisingly successful.

I was more educated than my husband, but we were both high school classmates, I went to junior college, and he gave up his studies due to the lack of family funds at that time, but his college entrance examination score was much higher than mine. Now I don't feel like we're at any distance! I feel that the main difference between high school and university is that there is just one more major, although my husband gave up his studies, he did not give up his studies, and learned graphic design through his own efforts.

Now he is engaged in his **graphic design, and has started his own**. Now in my opinion, there is no difference in our academic qualifications, we are just the same academic qualifications. And we only talk about majors, never about academic qualifications.

Besides, the level of education is not the only criterion for evaluating the happiness index, it only plays a reference role, not a decisive role. If you are not happy, it can only be said that you have the wrong way of dealing with problems, and it has nothing to do with academic qualifications. Is it possible to live at home and still take out your qualifications and academic qualifications?

1. Character is more important than academic qualifications.

2. Most people are the destroyers of the academic qualifications of the object.

3. It is not only your partner who cares about your academic qualifications, but also your partner's parents.

In fact, I personally recognize the views of Yu Zhaotong Xiaoxiao and Xiaojun, as Xiaoxiao said, character is more important than academic qualifications.

As Xiaojun said, you can't use academic qualifications to deny a person, not everyone has the opportunity to go to university. It was found that most of the students who came to register for the entrance examination were because their family's economic conditions did not allow them back then, or they did not perform well in the college entrance examination.

Why don't they want to spend their beautiful youth in the campus quietly rented, but the reality does not allow it!

In a relationship, academic qualifications are relative.

If you only have a junior high school education, then secondary school students are also highly educated in your eyes; If you are an undergraduate, then a secondary school student is a low degree for you.

Most people can only find objects in their own circles, if you are an undergraduate, then the people you know must be mainly based on the same education, if you are a secondary school student, then your circle is also difficult to contact people with higher education.

What's more, China has paid attention to the right door since ancient times, and many parents look at their future sons-in-law and daughters-in-law by their academic qualifications, just like Xiao Dan, her ex-boyfriend's education can't pass her father's level.

Looking at Zhang Xian's words again, it is very realistic, but it is also very real. Academic qualifications also have a great impact on future generations and children's education.

Life is so realistic, you can not pay attention to academic qualifications, but it does affect your professional life, and even your emotional life, including life after starting a family, in fact, it also has a great impact.

If you want to pursue a higher level of life, then you should improve yourself to break through your circle, go to the college entrance examination if you miss the college entrance examination, and go to continue education if you miss the university.

Hello, will you choose someone with a lower education level than yourself to fall in love, the answer to this question varies from person to person, and there is no fixed answer. However, some people may choose to fall in love with someone who is less educated than themselves, and here are some possible reasons.

First of all, education level is not the only criterion for judging whether a person is suitable for love. A person's level of education and knowledge is not directly related to his personality, character and other characteristics. Therefore, many people may pay more attention to the matching degree of the other person's personality, interests, hobbies, values, etc., rather than the other person's cultural level.

Dry and sensitive. Second, some people believe that education is not the only measure of a person's ability and wisdom. For certain professions and lifestyles, there may be a greater emphasis on practical experience and skills rather than academic qualifications and knowledge on paper. As a result, some people may prefer to choose those who have demonstrated competence and wisdom in practice, rather than judging each other based solely on their academic qualifications.

Third, some people may be more willing to choose those who are less educated than themselves, because they feel that it will be easier to control and dominate. In a relationship, some people may prefer to take the lead, and choosing someone who is less educated than themselves may make it easier for them to control and take the lead.

Finally, some people may choose someone who is less educated than themselves, because they think it will be easier to gain the trust and dependence of the other person. Trust and dependence are very important factors in a relationship, and some people may feel that it is easier to gain the trust and dependence of the other person by choosing someone who is less educated than themselves.

In general, choosing someone with a lower education level than you are in a relationship is a personal choice, and many people's choices may be different for various reasons. However, no matter who you choose as your love partner, you should pay attention to the character and character traits of the other person, respect and support each other, and work together to manage a healthy and stable relationship.

A: Essentially, as long as I like this person, then I am willing to accept the culture, and people who are lower than me fall in love.

The level of education is only one degree of universal education. The level of education of your other half does not mean anything, but more importantly, it depends on the essence of this person. Many excellent people have not had a high degree of education, and there are many reasons, such as family economic problems and so on.

Moreover, the level of education can be caught up and made up for later.

If the communication is unhindered, the ideas have always been the same, what does it matter if there is so much high level of education; On the contrary, if the other person is highly educated, but you can't communicate and communicate, then what's the use?

Of course, if you don't understand each other and have no emotional foundation, it's like the way to choose a mate is in the form of blind date. Then let's take a look at the other party's academic qualifications, after all, the general view is that high education also represents high personal quality. In the absence of other hardware to compare and reference, it is better to choose a higher education or equivalent than yourself, so that you can have considerable topics and ideas, and there will not be too much gap.

One person reads books every day, and the other chases soap operas every day, and it is difficult for the two to have a common language.

On the contrary, if the two themselves know each other very well, the emotional foundation is also deep. Then it doesn't matter whether the education level is high or not, or whether it is a match. It's good to love each other, and it's good to understand each other.

Although some people have a low degree of education, they are very cultivated, very emotionally intelligent, and very considerate of each other, so such people are also very attractive and must be very likable.

I may fall in love with someone who is less educated than myself.

For the concept of love, the most important thing to pay attention to is the character and temper of the other person.

For people with poor academic qualifications, as long as he is not particularly short-tempered and unable to control himself, as long as he is not brainless and arrogant, as long as his character is not unprofessional, gambling and stubborn, as long as his behavior is not impulsive and violent. That's not a problem.

The school is a university, and society is a more cruel university than the school.

40% of people feel that true love has nothing to do with a diploma, it is a mutual attraction between soul and heart;

60% of people are worried that if the difference in academic qualifications is too great, they will not agree with each other, and their circle of friends will be very different.

In fact, for falling in love, the most important thing is fate, and the level of education does not represent the level of a person's literacy.

In these years, there is no shortage of highly educated people, but what is lacking is people with self-cultivation. You may think that a high degree of education means that you are educated, and culture is a high quality.

Highly educated people, fundamentally speaking, only have a more detailed and in-depth understanding of a certain industry, and these knowledge are mostly used in scientific research work, and are basically not used in the relationship between two people.

For highly educated people, due to the need to study for many years, most of them will dabble in a variety of knowledge, therefore, most of them like the habit of reading, and will have their own unique views on life and the world.

Secondly, we need to understand that academic qualifications have no direct impact on our married life, and if two people want to live together, they must have the same outlook on life, world view, and values, that is, the three views are the same.

In love, what really affects the two is values; And most people have drawn an equivalence sign of academic equivalence and the combination of three views.

This is because differences in academic qualifications often lead to different value orientations. This is like the so-called "right door", in fact, there is a certain truth.

Different living environments, family backgrounds, living environments, and material foundations will produce all kinds of values. But this phenomenon is only a probabilistic phenomenon, and not all of them will be like this.

When two people go through the period of love, when they really face life, the material life has exhausted, and they are eager to resonate in the spiritual life.

Height is one of the first things a girl will consider when she has a boyfriend. When your friends find out that you have a boyfriend, they will ask you, "How tall is he?" What does it look like?

A lot of people will be concerned about height. Girls like to grow tall when they have a boyfriend because they have a sense of visual security, and a tall figure represents a strong and powerful physique.

With a tall figure, the female Min will have the feeling of being a bird, and there is a feeling of being protected and cherished. If the boyfriend is shorter than the girl, the girl is next to the Roc to spread his wings, and the boyfriend is in the bird. Such a height gap will also affect the emotional direction of two people, and girls will not get a sense of security and dependence, and eventually there will be a crack in the relationship.

If the boyfriend is shorter than herself, the girl will also have an uncomfortable feeling when she takes him out to meet her friends. If you take your boyfriend who is shorter than you to meet your friend Qiao Naqing or participate in some social activities, you may be looked at strangely by others. Some people will talk about her behind her back, "Her boyfriend is so short!"

The two of them don't match the height. "She's not a good match, why should they be together? ”。

The girl will be under pressure at this time, and her boyfriend will feel embarrassed to lose face. The boyfriend will be angry about these remarks, and it is naturally very good if two people can look at this problem calmly, and they can communicate with each other to express their inner thoughts and propose good solutions, so that the relationship can still develop. If the boyfriend has been minding this matter, the objective fact that the height is placed there after all cannot be ignored, which will cause contradictions between the two people, and more contradictions and misunderstandings will follow, which will affect the feelings of the two people.

Most girls simply don't look for a boyfriend who is shorter than themselves in the first place, so that they can avoid this kind of relationship problem and don't have to be pointed at by others. Isn't it good to live happily, why do you want to find a boyfriend who is shorter than yourself to make yourself more troubled.