I m about to go to my boyfriend s, but my boyfriend s family hasn t said anything, what s going on?

People everywhere will have xenophobia, and you don't take this as a psychological burden. Now that his siblings have welcomed you, you've taken a big step. It's not easy for you to be together for four years, and you see that his parents were the opposite at first, but now they don't express their opinions.

It means that their minds are also changing, and they are moving closer to you. So don't give up easily. Before meeting his parents, you ask your boyfriend what his parents like to eat, what questions are avoided, and you should pay attention when you meet.

Anyway, I hope you have to have faith in yourself before you can cross over. ^_

Wenzhou people generally do not find outsiders to marry. The phenomenon of xenophobia is common in China.

There is no xenophobia,,, it is all Chinese, the key depends on your posture and attitude, since you do not express your opinion, it is to keep a wait-and-see, see how your person is going to make a decision, have a good relationship with children, be polite to the elders, and lower your posture but not humble or arrogant. Don't make yourself inferior, just master your posture and attitude, and there will be no so-called xenophobia problem

Be brave to love and come out boldly!!

If he can't talk to his parents

Then you go talk to his parents

Let them know that you love their son with all your heart.

I will take care of your feelings.

They will honor their parents with all their hearts.

Their hearts are not made of stone

Believe that great love can conquer all Good luck.

Go, you love him and not her family, why do you care so much, if he loves you, his parents don't agree with you together, he will find a way to be with you, if you don't love you, then forget it, hehe, [I wish you happiness.]

Look at how he touches things, if he has you, it's no problem, under normal circumstances, parents don't care about boys.

Since his family is opposed, what do you think his family's attitude is? It's already obvious.

This one is more difficult, this one is more difficult.

Did your husband perfunctory you?

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My boyfriend said that he would take me home to see my parents and I didn't go, he was angry, what would he think if I didn't go?

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Hello, I'm glad about your question, if the man takes you to meet your parents, and you don't agree, it will cause the other party to feel that you don't really want to be with him, because if you don't even see your parents, let the other party feel that you don't plan to marry him, and don't want to know each other further, if you have your own difficulties on this issue, you can explain it to him, express your own thoughts and your views to him, so that he can also understand what you think, In this way, the conflict between the two of you can be resolved relatively quickly, and I hope mine can help you.

Actually, I wanted to go, but I didn't know why I didn't want to go.

In that case, you can offer to meet the other party's parents again.

Just say go to see your parents?

Yes, to put it bluntly, be firm.

Actually, I don't think he really wanted me to go, otherwise how could he just say it?

If he didn't really want you to go, then he wouldn't be angry, and if he was angry, it proves that he actually wanted you to go in his heart.

I don't see if he's angry or not.

Didn't you say angry at first? It's okay with me, you can just say go to the parent and see her attitude.

As a man, let me ask you a few questions.

1. If you know a person out of 10 points, how much do you think you know him?

You must know that understanding a person is not only about character and literacy, but also about the bad side. Including some not-so-well-known aspects of the circle of friends and work circles.

2. From his point of view, there are generally only two factors.

One is that he may not have made up his mind and is mentally prepared to face the matter of marriage. Because this is a man's lifelong responsibility, who does not have a symptom of fear of marriage. Especially the tepid personality makes people feel like this.

The other is that your relationship is out of balance. Obviously, the more anxious you are, the more scared he becomes. There are his own factors, and there are your dominant factors.

Because men, when they don't find a comparison object, they often can't find the good in you, and the more you catch up, the more he feels that it is not worth it.

Finally, if there is a moment when you start to dislike you, it is that you have a big problem. From all angles, you actually pay more attention to your own feelings, and you don't know much about him.

It's just to see your parents, and it's not to get married right away, so I don't want to take you back, so there's really no need to continue, you think he likes you and is willing to live with you, but from this point of view, this is not the case. You're just one of his choices, not that he necessarily has someone else, but he didn't choose you. In fact, seeing your parents doesn't mean that you will definitely be able to get married, but seeing your parents is an attitude after all, and he doesn't even want to give you an attitude, do you still think he will give you the result?

What do you think?,Obviously you weren't included in the wife candidate.,Now there's no good opportunity to ride a donkey and watch a horse.,I just know.,People in love are eager to bring their objects home to let their parents pass by.,If you don't want to, the answer is already obvious.,I don't think it's child's play in this situation? This IQ is enough to choke, of course, you have the final say on whether to gamble with your own life

If he hasn't been sunset, he's thinking about it carefully, and if he doesn't take you to see his parents after the sun, then he's just playing. Remember that there is no such thing as pure love, just for sex.

Believe him, you can be sure that he loves you, he must have his thoughts, since he is sincere to you, he will definitely take you to meet your parents in the future. You can talk to him seriously, after all, your age has also arrived, and ten months is okay, not very short, and you can be dating for a while. I can feel that he is genuine to you.

So be more cautious.

Summary. Then your boyfriend respects what you mean.

Then your boyfriend respects what you mean.

Then why did he continue with me, did he have to wait for him to find a home before breaking up.

Or are you not in the right place?

What are the reasons for parental disapproval.

Family background, poor filial piety, cultural differences, education, car, house, ......Many parents offer a lot of conditions that seem to be like mountains, but they actually want you to stick to yourself and the love between you in the tide of opposition. Although Jinshan Yinshan is important, what is more important than Jinshan Yinshan is your love for Jinjian, as well as your indomitable perseverance ......If you can't even withstand this little obstruction from the outside world, and the outside world imposes a little obstruction, he or the cautious one is the one who immediately chooses to surrender, where is your love, and where is your perseverance?