Mental and psychological problems of the elderly, how to solve the mental problems of the elderly

First of all, I am not a professional. I studied education and I studied psychology.

Everyone is actually a mental patient, but the position and depth of psychological illness are different.

Your grandfather has too strong self-esteem and is unwilling to bow his head and be inferior, but the reality is that feng shui takes turns. People with too strong self-esteem are generally more selfish, have a very high self-esteem, have a certain ability, want to get everyone's praise and recognition for doing things, and once they are not satisfied, they will lose their temper (the most fierce to the closest people). Your grandfather hates your grandmother for losing his face, and "face" is your grandfather's life.

Now there are only two things that might help your grandfather. First, if he can listen to the persuasion, find his favorite family member, and when he is happy, gently persuade and untie the knot. Such people generally don't think they're wrong, you can also try to make your grandmother admit your mistakes, I know it's difficult, and it doesn't make sense, but the most important family relationship between relatives is not the truth.

Home is never a place to reason. At the same time, you must also find opportunities for your grandfather to "win back face" in front of everyone. This is the second best policy, let family and friends go back to see more, and do happy events at home to dilute this matter.

This is the middle point. I don't think that's why you're asking.

I don't know if mine satisfies you.

It's hard to introduce this in detail in this place, right?

When my grandfather was in his 40s, what happened to him needs to be interpreted in great detail, because in that incident, you can see what kind of concept is dominating him in your grandfather's mind, causing him to suffer such a big setback, so that it affects his marriage and family.

Your grandfather was also unlucky. He loves face so much, in addition to the setbacks given by his wife, his children also made him lose face. He ended up alone, and he didn't understand the problems and reasons for this, so what could he do if he didn't harass and retaliate against his wife and children who made him unhappy?

It seems that your grandfather is very face-saving, and his self-esteem is very strong and fragile, which means that he also has a strong inferiority complex, and these inner weaknesses of his make it impossible for him to enjoy family affection and love.

It seems that your grandfather still has a strong paranoid personality, and if he is a little stubborn, he is easy to get into the horns, inflexible, and introspective. Such a personality is relatively hard and difficult to change; The harder he is, the more scrappy he is. But the softness of family affection is the only way that can be changed.

You don't take him as an enemy, you have to keep connected, and at the same time you need your grandchildren to get close to him, generally speaking, across generations, he can't vent his anger to his grandchildren, (but his children he can beat and scold at any time), so the courage to take on the responsibility of family change should be the direction of your generation's efforts.

In fact, when he lost his temper, his heart was also very painful. If he doesn't use a form of catharsis, there will be a bigger problem. Others should also understand the pain in his heart.

On a physical level, there must be a health problem with his body. When he loses his temper, he must not be able to control himself. Attention should be paid to his physical and mental health, and there needs to be an understanding between people.

The elderly should go to the psychiatric department for mental disorders, and the reasons behind the mental disorders of the elderly must be clear, otherwise the potential harm will be unpredictable. Because there are many reasons for mental disorders in the elderly, such as intracerebral lesions, cerebral infarction, cerebral hemorrhage, and brain tumors, any lesion will lead to mental disorders, which may have unpredictable consequences if not detected in time.

In addition, the elderly are mentally disturbed, which sometimes causes great social harm, that is, the elderly may attack others, and in severe cases, they will kill others. Some elderly people may injure themselves with mental disorders, have a tendency to injure or disable, and some will also run around, resulting in trauma, traffic accidents, or accidental injuries due to long-term hunger, lack of water or freezing after getting lost. Therefore, if the elderly have mental problems, they should be sent to a psychiatric hospital in time.