How should fathers relate to boys? How to get along with your father?

In fact, there is a certain "subordination". As a son, you must obey your father's discipline, and even if your father's actions are wrong, you should unconditionally forgive and obey them.

But for young people in modern society, they will respect their fathers intellectually. But from a practical point of view, they will also have their own opinions and attitudes when dealing with things. In many of the more harmonious family relationships, the father and the son are relatively harmonious when they get along.

But for families that have not handled the relationship between father and son well, few sons will listen carefully to their father's advice, and even contradict when their father says something wrong.

If you want to deal with the relationship between father and son, you can actually choose some scientific methods. The premise of being responsible for a harmonious relationship is that the son respects his own affairs and supports and understands the father to a certain extent. Because the father, as the pillar of the family, not only has to bear the responsibility of educating his children, but also has to run for the family's food problems.

No matter how you look at it, you should respect and understand your father as a son.

As an elder, the father tries not to talk to his son in a commanding tone, after all, today's children have a relatively independent ability to think and behave. When facing the same thing, as a younger son, he will also have his own opinions and attitudes. Therefore, the father must not always be diverted by his own will, and should also listen to his son's advice at the right time.

Especially for fathers who are usually very busy with work, or do not have time to spend with their children. Be sure to develop a habit of playing and communicating with your children outside of work.

Especially when children are young, if they can receive love from their fathers as soon as possible, they will grow up with a healthier personality and life. On the contrary, the father is always "absent" when the child grows up, and treats the child with a tone of reprimand or scolding when he encounters anything, and the child grows up in this family atmosphere. Either a particularly cowardly and timid personality will appear, then it will become particularly irritable.

Here, I need to advise the majority of male friends who have become fathers to be patient when dealing with their children and wives. Especially when dealing with the father-child relationship, we should master more scientific and correct methods, so as to make the father-child relationship more intimate.

The relationship between father and son is bad, and as a son, no matter how dissatisfied you are with your father, you have to stay sensible, and then communicate with your father. You can talk about the hurt, grievances, pain, anger, etc., that he has caused you, so that he knows why you hate him. At the same time, you can also listen to some of his feelings, thoughts, etc. about what he has done.

No matter how much hatred you and your father have, I hope you can truly understand each other through emotional communication, and then resolve the conflicts between you.

The father is too much for his son, and the son can seek help from the "authority" around him. China is a country that attaches great importance to the culture of "filial piety", and if a son is disrespectful to his father, even if the father does something excessive, many people will blame the son and think that it is the son's fault.

So, if you meet a father who is doing things very excessively, it is best to ask some "authority" people around you to come forward and help you solve the problem between your father and son. You can invite respected elders in your family or local leaders to mediate between you and your father.

Sons and fathers are like enemies, and there must be a reason why sons hate their fathers in their hearts. For example, some fathers ignore their sons when they are young, often gamble outside and do not come home, only care about their own happiness, and when they are old, they always ask their sons for money, and they also go to their sons' workplaces to make trouble, asking their sons to buy him a house, provide for the elderly, etc. For such a father, how can the son not resent him in his heart?

Therefore, if your father is bad, you have to learn to separate yourself from your father. Your father is your father, and you are you. Everyone is an individual, and everyone has their own tasks.

Don't deny yourself and give up on yourself because your father is bad. As long as you are separated from your father, you will be able to create your own life.