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Maintaining a balance between pursuing love and studying hard, I feel that it requires you to allocate your own time, control your emotions when you should study, and try to pursue your love in your free time. And I think that a long-distance relationship may be a little better for your studies, because you can't see each other every day, so you basically spend your time studying, and you will only call each other ** in the evening.
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You arrange the time for study and love reasonably, find a suitable point for yourself, and grasp a degree. Take love as the driving force for learning, and you will be more active and energetic in learning. Take learning knowledge as a guarantee for your future life, maintain your love while learning knowledge, and know how to cherish a love.
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Love is indispensable, but learning can't be delayed, so it's possible to study while looking for a partner. When I was in high school, I was a student who didn't like to study, but I liked a girl, of course, she didn't like to study either, but in order to get into college, we agreed to study hard together. After a while, not only did we have a good relationship, but our academic performance was already at the top.
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In fact, as long as you grasp the relationship between love and study, you can do it. You can go on a date and pursue love on the basis of guaranteed learning. Of course, I think it's best if you can learn and improve with each other and have a healthy state of competition.
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There is no conflict between the two at all, but during the school day, the teacher and the parents have demonized love, and at that time, they constantly hinder the purest love in order to let the children study hard. Coming back to the point, love won't affect your studies, so there's nothing unbalanced.
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You should study hard when it's time to study, and you can pursue what you want to pursue in your spare time, but you must grasp the method. In fact, sometimes falling in love during school can be a good way to promote the learning of two people and make them progress together.
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When we were students, of course, we studied our own work, we should focus on learning, so as not to live up to our parents' expectations of us, but as we grow older, we will become more and more favored by the opposite sex, and we will have our own favorite opposite sex, and slowly we began to fall in love, and there will be such a law in anyone.
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It is necessary to find your own love, but you must clearly understand the definition of love, pay attention to your own learning situation while cultivating your feelings, make a schedule for yourself, and grasp each period well, so as to better promote your emotions.
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Love is the greatest physical and mental right and freedom of human beings, and college students should have the right to love freely and healthily. Love, study and life are not related to each other, and there is no priority or priority. You can't limit your love because of your studies, and you shouldn't delay your studies because of your love.
If you are an independent, mature and healthy college student, you are fully capable of balancing the two. It is fully capable of making love and study mutually reinforcing, intertwined without affecting each other. The purpose of university is to improve one's own quality, acquire a skill, and realize one's life ideals.
This ideal should include having a good partner. Therefore, strengthening learning is to let the partner appreciate themselves and make themselves love their partner better, so the partner should support, understand, and encourage the other person to strengthen learning. Falling in love is a catalyst for better learning.
It can motivate each other and supervise each other to fight for a common ideal.
When you are in college, you should learn more things, love is natural, and if you really like someone, you should treat it correctly. It's best to reconcile love and study. Don't blindly follow the trend, feel that everyone around you is in love, and if you don't fall in love, you will have no face and so on.
Love in college should be said to be the purest, and because of this, we should pay more attention to this matter. Many people are only looking for love because they are lonely, and they will still be separated when they graduate, so why bother.
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The relationship between love and study: First, we must strive to obtain love from the success of our studies and careers, enrich our spiritual life, and stimulate the potential of college students; The second is the resistance theory, which believes that there are more disadvantages than benefits, and the study at the university stage is intense, the time is limited, and the love takes time and energy, hinders learning, affects unity, and is not conducive to all-round development; The third is the equilibrium theory, which believes that the pros and cons are balanced.
In real life, there are two possibilities for the role of love on college students' studies and careers: one is that the relationship is properly handled, which can become a catalyst for study and career, making people study hard and their grades rise; The second is that the relationship is not handled properly, which may be distracting, waste time, mood swings, and declining grades.
Falling in love in college has both disadvantages and advantages. On the positive side, although falling in love takes up part of the time, it makes us more deeply aware of the preciousness of time like a white horse, so we can think about how to make the best use of time to be efficient and do twice the result with half the effort.
If you don't fall in love, how can your experience be made up for after you get out of the college campus? And they share resources and complement each other's advantages, so they will not fight at night to pass English Level 4. At least half of the results should be attributed to the TA who occupies the seat as scheduled each night.
It is a kind of close relationship between people, which will expose a person's shortcomings, and in getting along, they will let each other learn to modify themselves, tolerate others, and promote the growth of two people. Falling in love also contributes to the perfection of their personalities. And knowledge learning needs inspiration, and love is inspired'One of the best and helps develop interpersonal skills and much more.
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1. Don't let love take up most of your life.
Everyone knows why they have studied hard for more than ten years and squeezed through the single-plank bridge of the college entrance examination to go to college, the purpose is never to fall in love. The reason why we came to college is to continue to improve ourselves, pave the way for our future life, and find our real suitable life trajectory, so after going to college, we can fall in love, but we should not put love in the first place, you must always remember that you are studying in college, and love is only a part of life, not all. In addition to falling in love, there are other equally important things waiting for you to do, such as studying, and then taking time out to do something that interests you, try your best to enrich yourself, everyone likes excellent people, if you indulge in love all day long, do not make yourself better, not only will you achieve nothing in your studies, but the person you love will also leave you.
2. Maintain independence of mind and have your own space.
There are many people who think that after falling in love, they should be tired of being together all the time, so as to show how deep and pure their love is, but this is not right. Everyone is an independent individual, no matter what stage of love, even after marriage, two people should have their own time and space and independent thoughts, not one party becomes an accessory of the other, or even two people become one person. Like that saying:
Distance produces beauty. "If two people are together every day, they will inevitably assimilate each other, and then produce aesthetic fatigue. And if, after a period of time together, we can be apart for a period of time, absorb different knowledge, maintain our own independent thoughts, and meet again will not only become better, but also give each other a sense of freshness, why not?
Clause. 3. Two people have the same goal, learn together, and progress together.
The ancients said: "The Tao is different, and they do not conspire with each other." This applies not only to friends, but also to love.
Two people with the same direction will get along more harmoniously, and both parties will progress faster. As college students, we should turn love into motivation for learning, and you should clearly know that if you want to have a good future with your partner, you should work together now to contribute to your future. Excellent people will always be attracted to each other, if you don't improve, then your object will inevitably be attracted to more excellent and like-minded people in the process of continuous progress, then you will "know" the two empty.
College student couples, in the end, will face a problem, that is, whether they have to go their separate ways after graduation, if two people want to be together for a long time and successfully survive the "graduation breakup curse", they must have the same goal, so that it will last for a long time.
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Even if you are already a college student, you need to grasp the blood moon first and then choose to fall in love. If you're not good at school, if you talk about it, it's uh the color of the thing.
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There is nothing to argue about the fact that love must be free, and then it is a matter of balance, grasp a degree, and be able to distinguish the two very well can reflect a person's literacy. Can you understand such a master?
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College students should still focus on their studies, but falling in love can allow you to experience different college life, and different balances can be made according to different people.
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If a college student falls in love, it doesn't matter, the two of you should reconcile and encourage each other to finish your studies well.
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College students are still very rich in time, and they should divide their time between love and study.
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Balance? It's hard to grasp. In general, you have to have a lot of self-control.
If the relationship is going well, you can also maintain a good mood towards love and study, if the relationship is not going well, it will affect the study very much.
Try to separate love when studying, and two people learn from each other, help each other, make progress together, have a common goal, and when there is leisure time, two people can play together and relax.
But I suggest that you still focus on your studies as high school students.
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Regarding the person whose love can make your heart blush, it can be said that there are only one or two in your life. I've discussed this with my friends, and it's a common opinion. It's because you don't know the opposite sex yet, and you imagine her (him) too perfectly.
Keeping a distance has the beauty of being separated, and what you can't get is the best. When you gradually reflect on your previous behavior and experience, you will gradually begin to treat girls in a comprehensive way, we are not only the opposite sex, but also have tempers, thoughts, all human weaknesses and strengths, and people like you.
But what you get is growth, grow up bravely! Understand the opposite sex with objectivity and respect.
Finally, given that you are still in the system of exam-oriented education, you still have to care about grades. Feelings are managed with great care and energy. A love that is indiscriminate will erode people's hearts and make it impossible for you to get true love in the future.
At present, you should work hard to learn knowledge and make friends with girls normally. Love is really too unrealistic for you right now. If you are still in love with each other after graduation, you can really consider being together, but now divide your heart into two halves, love and study are actually not single-minded testimonials from people who have come over, I hope it will be useful to you.
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High school is a time of struggle. Dating compared to high school, in general, does more harm than good. If you want to balance.
Hard. Because, in that tense and oppressive learning environment, if you fall in love, it will be difficult to extricate yourself. However, it is not too difficult to deal with the relationship between love and study.
Let yourself want to open some, and if you really like this person, make an appointment with a good university. The two of them encouraged each other. Work together for this goal, because college is a paradise.
Compared to high school, I want to go to heaven and I want to be in pairs in heaven. You have to stand the test.
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Make an agreement on the time to study, everyone study, and you can relax a little during the break, such as going to school together, eating lunch together, and walking together after school, but you must make sure that you focus on studying when you study.
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Encourage each other to listen carefully during class and do homework carefully after class. The rest of the time, you can play as you like. And learning together is really a very romantic memory in the days to come.
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How was it before and what is still now, know what the task is now, don't do things that should not be done at this age, pure love can make you learn from each other, work together, and support each other. Hope it helps,
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When love gets in the way of learning, you should learn to give up. Keep love alive when love promotes higher grades.
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I suggest you block out love! High school is only for studying.
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1.Three months is not too long, but it is not too short, especially in high school, a lot of content is coherent, which means that you miss half a semester of classes. So, if you want to make it back, you have to be prepared to put in the effort.
2.Being in love is not necessarily harmful to learning, and many times being in love can promote self-motivation and enthusiasm for learning. But, apparently, you didn't do it, and when you were in love, you forgot to study.
3.It is feasible to balance love and study. It's okay to connect love and study, discuss problems with each other, study schoolwork together in your spare time, and solve problems for your girlfriend.
4.But I don't think you can do both. It's three months, not three weeks, and you've been addicted to love for so long that you can't even control yourself during normal class time, which shows that you don't have enough control to keep you sane in love.
So, you are completely addictive, I advise you to forget it, either choose to fall in love or choose to study. Because you're very immature and get lost all of a sudden, or do you only say this kind of question after three months, don't you feel like you're a bit of an afterthought?
5.Let's make up for your homework, let go of love first, and only worry about it after the homework is brought back, and the time for love is still very sufficient, isn't it? If you don't concentrate now, you don't need to learn, you will taste the bitter fruit yourself. Love aside, I think it's the best strategy!