Choose to love or be loved, whether to be loved or choose someone you love

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Both options are bitter. Choose a lover, if he doesn't like you, you may be hurt by him; Choose to be loved, and if you don't like them, you may hurt them. So whether it's choosing to love or being loved, it's bitter.

    It is better to find someone who you love both him and him and you so that you will be happy and happy. I will also choose the people I love and those who love me, otherwise I will not choose ..

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Choose to love you. It can be tiring to love someone who doesn't love yourself. And it's a very unfair situation.

    He doesn't care what you give. On the other hand, someone who loves you will care about you everywhere. Don't say anything you don't feel for him.

    Without love, eventually you will understand that the so-called love is really ethereal and illusory. Slowly you will know what life is. The so-called love will become extremely fragile in the face of real life.

    Being alone is good to you. Everywhere for your sake. As long as you don't really hate him.

    Like him a little bit, then there will be a good life between you

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Neither, be sure to choose someone who loves each other.

    The one you love, being with him will make you very hard, you can only give him a smile, but he can't take care of you when you are hurting, it's very painful, and how long can you last?

    If you love you, you have to endure the same pain, you may do your best, and it will be difficult to make you smile, how long can he persist in such a life?

    The cultivation of feelings requires the joint efforts of both parties, just as the growth of trees needs water and sunlight at the same time.

    On the one hand, it is impossible to maintain the relationship for a long time. Find someone you love is hurting yourself, finding someone who loves you is hurting others, I hope you don't do both, give yourself more opportunities, and you will find the person who is compatible with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe: If you really love him, how can you mind if he is a coward? It's because you don't love him enough that you feel pain. If you're not happy together, then why be together?

    A person who loves you very much If you like him, will you choose him because he likes you? You know that you are willing to accept someone in your heart who you do not love with all your heart. So his love doesn't matter to you, so you shouldn't choose either

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Choose to love me, and you don't get bored of it, so that at least you won't let yourself be hurt, and your feelings are slowly cultivated, and you will feel it again after a long time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love when you have the ability to love, and if you feel tired of love, choose to be loved.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love yourself. You don't know what your vision is, so you may fall in love with someone you shouldn't love.

    But if others like you, it means that he has a good vision.

    It's okay to believe that you are the best.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whether it's to love or to be loved, it is.

    A happier one.

    You love her, it's worth doing anything for her, be happy.

    She loves you, and she can sacrifice everything for you, and she is really happy to be loved.

    Love is mutual,The most important thing is to feel love with all your heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Choose to love and be loved.

    When you love someone, you feel that he is.

    Worthy of your love. You can't numb yourself in the face of love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    is still loved, and the likelihood of being hurt is less.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Choose someone you love to be your lover and choose someone who loves you to marry. This is the best result.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you have to choose one of them, you'd rather be loved.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Choose the one I love and love mine.

    If I don't love me, I'm barely useless.

    It's useless to love me reluctantly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it were me, I would choose to be loved.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Someone you love.

    The happiness that comes with one's own efforts will definitely be better than that obtained without effort.

    Even if you don't get it, the process is beautiful, although it will be painful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Instead of choosing to love, choose to be loved.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Loving and being loved are blissful, it's just that love is harder.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Choose the one who loves you, and you will be happier

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it were me, I would choose to love me very much.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    None of them. After all, it's small now.

    Because the person who says this is generally very small

    Hehe. Reading well is best

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you want to be happy, find someone who loves you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'm going to love someone.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Wife. It's hard but it's fun!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love is to give, to be loved is to return, love and be loved are equally good, since you pay true love, then you will definitely be loved, maybe it's just a matter of time, even if you can't get it in the end, or the result is not what you want, but you have paid, your heart will be solid, if you have been deeply loved by a person, even if you lose it one day, or leave, you will have a sense of happiness back in your memory,!

    So, to love is just as happy as to be loved...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Loving and being loved are mutual! No one wants to post it the same.

    Loving someone else may hurt, and being loved may not love someone else! So it's up to you to choose to love and be loved.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Choose what you love when you are a partner, and choose what you love when you get married

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I will choose to be loved because I will be happy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In the face of love, will you choose to be loved or loved? It has been said that both loving and being loved are happy. I think it's a unique feeling to love someone and give to them. And I've always believed that giving is happiness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In the face of love, you will choose to be loved or loved, you will choose to be loved, because being loved will be happier, and the lover will be more hard, and you will not necessarily get love, or it is better to be loved, you will be happier, so in the face of love, you will choose to be loved.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Everyone wants to have a love that they really love.

    But people are selfish.

    There are still more people who still want the other party to love themselves more.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Love is mutual, but because of different personalities and ways of doing things, it may not be easy to predict how to love and be loved in advance.

    Like a brother and sister in a kinship relationship, or a brother and a sister, this relationship is more delicate, sometimes the younger sister behaves like an older sister, and the younger brother will also act as an older brother sometimes. The same is true for men and women in love, which makes loving and being loved not static.

    In the face of love, of course, I am willing to choose to be loved, especially the person I like, just like the Cowherd being selected by the Weaver Girl, there is a feeling of being flattered. Similarly, the ugly duckling fantasizes about the appearance of Prince Charming.

    If there is a person who loves you and someone you love at the same time in your life (envy, jealousy, hatred), then ask your heart, being loved may be a kind of happiness, and loving someone may be a kind of hard work.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I will choose the person I love, maybe people are a little cheap in their bones, the person they love will be willing to give, and the person they love is happy in their hearts.

    If you are a person you don't love, pay for me every day and dig out your heart and lungs for me, not only will I not love him, but I may also be bored, many people are like this, in the face of people who are not interested in themselves, the more he is good to you, the more you feel annoying to him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Love must be loved more than lovers, although it is a good feeling to be able to love people, but after a long time, if you don't get a response or don't get the desired effect, you will definitely give up, and even resent, so you still choose to be loved. Being loved, although that person may not be perfect, but at least, he makes you feel happy, and after a long time, you may really love it.

    But no matter what, being loved and loving people are not perfect, and it is best to be able to find the best of the two permanent relationships.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Be loved! The loved one will not be hurt and will be very happy. The loved one doesn't have to take the initiative to give, just accept the love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), worried about him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, you will always think of him (her) when you can't see him, you will be excited when you see it, your heart will beat faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, really! Positive love for a person will willingly take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, see your loved one happy you will also be happy, see him (her) troubles you will also follow the troubles, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy I am happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) to get along, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In the face of love, I chose to be loved and loved is a very happy feeling, being loved will not leave you, but it is a very difficult thing to love someone, everything has to be for his sake, being loved is a feeling of being pampered, being loved contains a lot, the meaning of happiness.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I feel that there should be more people who choose to be loved, because it also takes courage to love people. For most people, life is difficult, it is already very hard to live well, and there are really not many people who can show the courage to give love that may not be reciprocated, and when love is not available, how much courage is needed not to hurt, whether it hurts others or hurts yourself, it is the same pain.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    In the face of love, will you choose to be loved or loved? In love. It's a pleasure to be loved. Loving people is a pursuit. In the face of marriage, you must choose to be in love. Don't blindly pursue your lover.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    In the face of love, I will choose to be loved, to be precise, it is mutual love, love is always developing, in this process, it is happy, it is sweet, love always tests us!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Loving and being loved is a very happy thing. He or she does not love you, it is you who suffers; To be loved, but you don't love him (her), it is he (she) who suffers. Between loving and being loved, more people choose to be loved, because no one chooses to grieve.

    But it doesn't mean that you don't love people, when you are really sure that he (she) is the person who has accompanied you through your life, love him (her) bravely, confess him (her), even if you fail, you will not regret it, because you can proudly say: I have loved.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Face love. I will choose to be loved. Because of being loved by others. It's a happy thing. And. Being loved by others will be cherished even more.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    In the face of love, I will choose to be loved. To be loved is to be happy and warm. And if you love someone, you feel very tired, and sometimes you are very lonely and powerless.

    If you have someone to love, you can enjoy an easy life and be happier, especially girls. will accept the boy's love and care for themselves, because it is an indescribable happiness and warmth.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Love is a need for both men and women to love each other, appreciate each other, two people really love each other, unilateral love is destined to be no happiness, the person you love does not love yourself, and the person who loves you can't love yourself. Sometimes love is so contradictory, so no matter whether you love or are loved, you hope that both men and women can understand each other and face it together, and only in this way can you get a happy love.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    In the face of love, I will choose to be loved. Because the loved one is very happy, the person who loves you will spoil you to heaven, and the other party will be good in your eyes, you just need to cherish him and respond to him. In short, the loved ones live more easily.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It must be a lover, I hope she is happy, I hope she is happy, that feeling, happiness from the heart, no matter what the outcome is, at least you have loved, you don't know how to love someone, what qualifications do you have to be loved?

    It's not easy to love someone.

    It's even harder to find someone you love who loves you.

    If you come across it, cherish it.

    It will be the best memory of your life.

    You'll find that you get a lot and a lot.

    It's not just her youth.

    And that heart that has always loved you forever and ever.

    Despise those who say to be loved, selfish! I only know that I don't know how to give, and love is a promise.

    If you can't afford it, don't love it easily.

    You will leave a deep, deep imprint on him.....

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Love is pleasant, sad, intoxicated, emotional, brave, trusting, sincere, considerate, lovesick, nostalgic, sweet, drunk, drunk, happy, sacrificing, noble, dedicated, and responsible. What is Love? Love is when you think of this person, you will wish her happiness and peace, you will want to be with her forever, when you have to leave, what do you want to leave for her.

    Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in her hand but can't read it, thinking about whether she has dinner at this time, whether she thinks about herself as much as herself. Love is, on the weekend, use half a day to make a few good dishes by yourself, and watch her (her) eat them satisfactorily; It is to constantly refill her (her) coffee cup with hot water in the cold winter; Love is to see flowers, want to enjoy with her or her, love is to walk through the cliff and waterside, you will think with a little regret: if two people travel together, what a happy thing!

    What is Love? Love is to want to see her but afraid to see her, love is to talk to her and afraid to disturb her, love is silently wanting to help her, love is an unquenchable desire, love is to see her, with a look of indifference on his face, but when he passes by, he carefully feels the vibrating air around him, so he can't help but look back at Hu Chang; Love is to see a figure that resembles her back on the street in a foreign land and stay in place for a long time. Love is a good companion that is obviously inseparable from her.

    Loving someone is painful. Especially you love him. And he doesn't love you.

    It's not the same to be picked up by a person who loves pants and lacks them.

    To be loved by someone. He will care about you. Be considerate of you. Everywhere you want. Sometimes choose to love someone. It's better to choose to be loved by someone.

    Choose the one who loves me.

    This is more statusual.

    I won't be too aggrieved by myself.

    But at the very least, it's pleasing to the eye.

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