Do you want to choose what you like or choose to be together?

I suggest the latter, maybe because I'm also a more independent girl, I don't think you like the former so much, if you really like her that much, then you won't think she has so many shortcomings now. It is recommended that you communicate with the latter more often, which will allow you to understand the other person more comprehensively. And from the perspective of later life, the latter is also more suitable for you, because you say that you are a person who is not very mature and not very good at taking care of people, then the latter is undoubtedly the best choice for you.

Choose what you like, the result is that you are miserable, choose to like you, you will feel the feeling of being loved, but because you don't like people, you can't feel that she is good to you, so after a long time, you will give up on others, and when you meet someone you like, you will love her very hard, but when you end up losing her, you will be very painful, and then you will find that you like yourself in the first place.

This is my point of view, think for yourself, happiness is earned by yourself, feelings are cultivated, don't you feel people you don't like like you, are good to you, and you don't feel it after a long time? I don't feel why you're asking questions here, so I think you'd better choose the one who likes you, and you have to be nice to her, so that you can both feel happy.

Look at yourself, only you know best.

In fact, there is no threshold in life that can not be passed, it is recommended to choose the former, now I think that we should choose a challenging one after 85, and it is still a learning one, you can, in the future life, when you are tired, you can also combine work and rest, flirt, how warm it is, the boat is naturally straight to the bridge.

I'll tell you my experience, this question is that I will choose the former, if that girl is also interested in you, you can try it together, because people will change, you have to believe that she will change for you, now squeamish, because she hasn't grown up yet, you see that she is 30 years old, and she is still squeamish to you in public?

Grab it, don't regret it, brother, and good luck!

The latter, I can't say why, anyway, I think I like my own.

The latter, if she still likes you!

When you reach a certain age. Just settle down.

Over time, there will be love. And what is born is family affection

I don't think there's anything bad about it.

Let's follow your heart.

It's just my thoughts.

You have made the question so clear, you must already have the answer in your own heart, you just hope to be affirmed by others, don't look for a stupid girl when looking for a wife!

First of all, anyway! Find a life where you have feelings! Because marriage is not love, many sweet love is suddenly not after marriage, because marriage is life, and it is impossible to live happily together without what you don't like.

A lot of times, I don't believe in love at first sight because it's unreliable, and if you want to really live a life, you still have to find a down-to-earth one. As for the feeling, I believe that sparks will slowly pop up in the tea, rice, oil and salt.

Lad! Pursue your own marital happiness!

Choose what you like, happiness is the 、、、 you strive for

I only have one sentence, the relationship between the two is happy and happy, if a single relationship does not give anything in return, it will gradually wither after a while, if you don't believe in yourself, try it, the result may hurt yourself and others.

Choose to love your good points because you will be warmed and affectionate? After being together for a long time, it will naturally come. I'm also a person from the past, and it's really tiring to follow what I love.

Dude, you will choose the back after you work, and in fact, your family must also want you to choose the back, one is stable, the other is good for you, and the third is that you are hesitating, right, because you also have feelings for her, so you are hesitating, listen to buddy! Second !! You will be happy.

Will you be happy in the first one? Possibly, but most likely exhausted

Choosing what you like and being with what you like is the right solution.

Look at you, your fate is in your own hands.

In terms of love psychology, boys like a sense of conquest, and girls like a sense of security. So the boy should be with the one he likes, and then work hard for her; Girls should find someone who likes them and seek stability. When we like someone, it must be happiness from the heart.

Only when we take the initiative to love can we understand the true meaning of love.

Of course, some people will say that it will be painful to take the initiative to like someone and not get results. But if you rashly choose another girl who pursues you and give up the one you like, will you be happy? After the breakup, can you pursue her again? Stop it.

It is impossible for people to selflessly say, I like you, without expecting anything in return. I believe that everything you do for her, is the hope of being with her. So first of all, don't pay attention to other flowers and plants, just like it exclusively.

Marsky once said: Love is something that has gone through thousands of things to condense.

In this way, love is not built at first sight, but after getting along.

But Stehl said: If it weren't for the love at the beginning, there would be a lifetime of companionship.

In this way, if you don't like it at the beginning, then even if you get along with you for a long time, you won't end well.

This leads to a contradiction, after all, there are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people, and everyone has different opinions.

It's better to choose what you like, it's embarrassing if you don't like to be together, after all, intimate actions are indispensable for two people to be together, you don't like him to be together, kissing you will feel disgusting, why bother, people have decades in their lives, and it's over in the blink of an eye, don't let yourself miss even the feeling of heartbeat, you will regret it.

If the person you like doesn't like you, then you might as well choose someone who likes you! Even if you chase the person you like to your side, her heart is not all for you, the person who likes you has more heart for you than the person you like, if it comes together in this way, it is better than the former together, you choose a person not to choose her appearance but to choose her inside, the inner good is really good, good luck.

You should choose someone you like, but the other person should also like you.

If it were me, I would choose one that likes my own. Because it's really tiring to like someone unilaterally, I can't guarantee that I can continue to love without reservation and without asking for anything in return for so long in the future.

I think you should choose what you like. Because with such a person, you can have a feeling of being pampered. And you can feel a lot of happiness.