Can a man reason with a woman, and what are the consequences?

Men can certainly reason with women, and there are three consequences. <>

First, men can't talk about women, and they are scolded for being bloody. Take my sister and my brother-in-law, for example. My sister is the kind of typical unreasonable girl, and my brother-in-law is the kind of boy who can bend and stretch, and he generally chooses to let my sister avoid conflict with my sister.

But once, my brother-in-law really couldn't stand my sister's unreasonable trouble, so he began to reason with my sister, and after talking for a long time, he was finally led astray by my sister, and my sister turned out the old past and reasoned with my brother-in-law, and finally my brother-in-law was defeated. Even if you lose, you have been scolded by my sister, and the situation is very miserable. <>

Second, men have talked about women, and women have turned their faces. My brother studied law, so my brother's ability in logic and expression is very outstanding. My sister-in-law, who studied computer science, couldn't do anything to my brother in terms of eloquence.

Every time the two of them quarreled, my brother abused my sister-in-law, because what my brother said I was reasonable, and my sister-in-law had no way to fight back. A few days before my sister-in-law left, my brother didn't care, and after my sister-in-law left for a week, my brother went to my sister-in-law's house in disgrace, and made amends, and did a lot of things to coax my sister-in-law well, and my sister-in-law was willing to go home.

Three, the two tied and started a cold war. My friend and her boyfriend basically don't quarrel, and when they do, they are very serious, and the two are of equal strength, so every time the two quarrel to a tie, and then a distant cold war begins, until outsiders intervene to reconcile them. <>

The above three situations show that it is best for men not to reason with women, because when women are angry, the more they listen to reason, the more annoying they are, and they provoke women, and the final suffering is still suffered by men. Therefore, men can bend and stretch, and the little things will be endured, don't be more serious with women, otherwise, women may not be able to reason with you, more truthful, women dump you a few streets.

Hello, I often see some couples arguing over trivial matters, one feels that the other is unreasonable, and the other is disheartened. Home itself is not a place to reason, and when your reasoning is clear, your feelings will fade.

Men always hope to resolve conflicts in a reasonable way in the process of quarreling, but they find that women don't listen to those reasons at all, they just rely on their own feelings, they understand the reason, and they care more about your attitude. Quarrels, men quarrel, women quarrel, and in the end men feel that women are unreasonable, and women feel that men do not love themselves. Therefore, it is actually a very unwise thing to reason with a woman.

Instead of waiting for them to start crying and settling old scores, try to compromise and accommodate.

They don't marry you to listen to your chatter and reasoning, they just want their men to pamper and tolerate themselves unprincipledly. At this time, your hug, "Wife, I was wrong" is more effective than anything else.

Women are never reasonable, the vast majority of girls are like this, especially when you have problems at the beginning, if you go to reason with her at this time, she must not listen to it at all, at this time it is best to have a quiet space, and then you will reflect on what you have done badly, you don't want to tell her how to do it, so she will be very annoyed, and she can't listen, so it's best for everyone to calm down, if you are right, she is wrong, At this time, you can calm down and tell her calmly, and don't necessarily mean that you are wrong about me, it won't be interesting.

Men are not allowed to reason with women. The consequence is that the wife becomes more unreasonable, and will call out and be more angry, women generally do not listen to reason, they only recognize their own bottom.

Of course, men can reason with women, because women also have to be reasonable, but men and women should be gentle when reasoning, don't yell, and be respectful to women.

Men are not allowed to reason with women. The consequence of being reasonable is that men are kicked out of their homes and live on the streets, because women are unreasonable animals.

You can reason with women, but you have to be reasonable. If you blindly reason, the consequence may be the Cold War, so it is necessary to grasp the degree.

No, a woman is a creature with no reason to talk about, and the consequence is that reasoning with a woman will only add to your troubles.

It is unreasonable for men and women to be reasonable, because it is generally unreasonable, and it will make women angry, and women need to be coaxed.

I think men should never reason with girls, because I think women may be unreasonable when they are angry, because the more reasonable they are, the more angry they are.

Whether girls are in love or married, they hope to meet a boy who is more gentle and considerate and good to them. Although it is inevitable that two people will often quarrel and contradict each other when they are together, whenever this happens, girls hope that the other half can tolerate them, instead of reasoning with themselves and preaching to themselves with a condescending attitude. A man who loves to be reasonable is really scary, if the girl's personality is not docile enough, she will only be discouraged when she meets such a man, and she is unwilling to continue to associate with him.

1. He doesn't love you enough.

Those men who like to tell you big truths and preach to you at every turn, on the surface, in the name of caring about you, say that he will treat you like this because he cares about you, but as everyone knows, such a man does not really love you at all. Because a man who truly loves you, he will be patient with you, treat you warmly and softly, will be willing to tolerate you, and is afraid that saying the wrong thing will hurt you.

2. He is very egoistic.

Men who like to preach to their other half at every turn in life often live more self-consciously, and this kind of person has a kind of machismo in his bones. No matter when Wang Xiao is right, he always feels that he is right, as long as the girl does not obey his heart, he will feel unhappy, and he will want to preach to the girl.

3. He has a strong desire to control.

Men who like to reason with girls and use long speeches to lecture girls at every turn are also very controlling. A girl is actually not happy at all when she falls in love with this kind of man, because what he needs is not a girlfriend who truly loves him, but a puppet tool man who is obedient to him and can be manipulated by him.

4. He is hypocritical.

In reality, many reasonable men are actually very hypocritical. Don't look at him always pretending that he is very sincere and cares about you to teach you to be a man, in fact, many of the big truths they just say, they can't do it at all, I have to say, this kind of man should not be too double standard. When a woman encounters such a hypocritical man, there is no need to be docile to him.

Recently, a friend told me that her boyfriend would always talk to her about a little thing, and he was more verbose than a woman. Once she said to her boyfriend that a colleague was too stingy, but the other party said seriously that it doesn't matter if you tell me, but don't say these things in front of outsiders. She said that she was angry, she just wanted the other party to comfort her according to her wishes, but she didn't expect him to reason with herself like this.

This reminds me that when we were children, other people's parents were always very kind to you, even if you did something wrong, they would not scold you or blame you, even if you hit their children, they would still say that their children were bad, but they would not say that you were not.

So you think how good they would have been if they were my parents, who were so kind to me, wouldn't beat me or scold me, and would just follow my mind everywhere. And his parents usually don't allow you to eat a little more sugar, you make a little mistake, you have to be scolded and beaten at every turn, you have to eat the board if you don't get good grades, and you have to tell you all kinds of big truths, a lot of big truths, in short, what you do will be restricted, you can't do anything and there is no freedom. Why do other people's parents never care about you and don't reason with you?

Have you ever wondered? Because you are not their child at all, what you will become in the future has nothing to do with them, and he does not need to be responsible for your future, so why should he care about you?

So it's the same as feelings, your boyfriend will talk to you because you are his girlfriend, and he thinks that you are not doing the right thing, so he has to correct you, he will not get used to you, he will spoil you, because he will be responsible for your future. In fact, it is much more difficult to be a good man than a scumbag, a scumbag never needs to care about women, as long as he follows women, it is very simple to coax, everything you say will be attached to me, I don't need to worry, I have an easy life. But the scumbag never thought about being responsible for your future, he didn't want you to be better, he didn't want you to be better, he didn't want to make you better, but boyfriends are different.

That's why I say that I hope girls can understand, because sometimes your boyfriend can reason with you, maybe his way is wrong, but the starting point is good, never reason with you, and keep following you and coaxing you to make you happy.

When two people are together, there is no reason at all, only whether the other party will understand and forgive you. Most couples' quarrels are actually not a matter of principle, just a small bickering in life, and in this process, girls just hope to find their own sense of existence to prove the boy's love for them, and boys just want girls to understand their own truth.

And this kind of too rational words makes it seem that two people don't seem to be in love at all, just like brothers, because when each of us falls in love, we are unreasonable, because we care, so we tend to lose our basic judgment because of emotion.

Boys like to reason and just talk about things, but girls always like to think wildly. No matter what she does, the girl will feel that the boy is completely wrong, and it is completely impossible to reason with her at this time, so she can only compromise.

Women don't need to reason with men, just ask for it, of course, with their boyfriend or husband.

1. Men like to be "reasonable", which is actually the root of hoping to solve problems.

Men are more rational in themselves, even if you are lovers, when you encounter problems, he will still rationally find out the key to the problem and find out the cause of your conflict. The essence of men like to be reasonable is that they like to solve the problem fundamentally, if in a relationship, your contradictions can never be resolved, every time there is a contradiction, kissing and hugging will fool the past, but it is not conducive to the sustainable development of the relationship, men like to be reasonable, that is, they want to solve the root of the problem, but women see men like to be reasonable as he does not understand you at all.

Second, in fact, no matter how much a man loves you, he can't help but want to be reasonable.

No matter how much a man loves you, he can't help but want to reason with you, and if he doesn't talk about it, it's too uncomfortable. In fact, compared to men who like to be reasonable, the men of the Cold War are more overwhelmed by you, and they like to reason with you to prove that he is still patient with you.

3. The love that men want is actually equal, not to lower their dignity to please you.

What a woman wants is a man who will coax her, who will lower his dignity to protect her, and praise her even when they quarrel, but what does a man want? Men's ideal love is equal, and there is no need to lower their dignity to please. There was once a male friend who thought that his girlfriend was really used to coax, but when he found that there was more coaxing, she became more and more presumptuous and unreasonable.

The kind of love that men want is not like this.

Men are usually not willing to reason with women, they will feel that it is a waste of time, and they will also feel that women are easy to be unreasonable, so they will not want to entangle with each other more.

Yes, if he thinks the woman is wrong, he will reason with the woman.

Many people can come into your life, and few people can come into your life.

Sometimes, even if a man knows that he has time to appease a woman, he will "deliberately ignore the woman" for the sake of purity or laziness, and the "reasoning" of the man with the woman at this time seems to be the most important countermeasure.

It's just that here, what I want to say is that before a man quarrels with a woman, he must figure out why the woman wants to find his own awkwardness and quarrel with himself, not to reason with a woman to convince a woman, and if he doesn't find out the root of the problem, then he will always have to fight with his girlfriend like this, and finally lose both sides and part ways.

I heard that the men who won the quarrel with the woman became singles, of course, this is just a joke, but this does show another truth, that is, it is very undesirable for women for men to reason with reason, which can easily make women have the idea of breaking up. In a woman's intuition, she is also disheartened when a man doesn't care about her.

Therefore, the best thing for men to do is to find out what is the root cause of a woman's quarrel with him, and according to the reason found, he will "prescribe the right medicine", and he will naturally reap a good result. If you have too few girlfriends, then spend as much time as possible with your girlfriends; If your girlfriend wants a gift, buy an affordable gift according to your ability; If your girlfriend wants you to have less contact with other beautiful women, then you should be cleaner and only be intimate with your girlfriend.

A woman is still angry with a man, which means that she still cares about this man, from this point of view, there is no woman in the world who is not worthy of men's efforts to coax, so those men who have girlfriends, please cherish the woman who quarreled with you and was judged by you countless times to be unreasonable.