If you can t find a suitable one, you d rather not get married for the rest of your life

It's okay, look at what you said, you can re-develop, develop friends, and developing friends of the opposite sex among friends is the most feeling. Young, there's nothing to worry about! Don't just find someone, have a feeling, weigh the conditions.

I think marriage is a bond, a bondage. A responsibility.

People who are married are not necessarily happy.

I am a perfectionist person.

I think that life is short, doing what you love and spending every day happily is the true meaning of life.

This is what you said, tell you, everything depends on you to fight for, you have to believe in yourself, besides, you have changed places to work now, so start again, there is a chance, believe in yourself.

Why do people have to grow up, go to school, and study? Go to college, go to work, get married, have children, and then let your children repeat your life experiences. Finally waiting for old age!

Can we jump out of this cycle and boldly live a new life, adding some luster to the ordinary life? If I have enough courage and ability, I'm willing to give it a try. Because there are so many things about love in this society, those of us who have never been in love are more sober than those who are in love, and we all know the sour and sweet in it, so why try it, it is better to live our own life.

There is no selfless love now. It's actually good to be alone!

Sometimes love is bitter.

You can't find the right one not to marry.

But some people, if they find a suitable one, they can't take it.

For one reason or another, it's tiring.

Think about it a little, I'm also in the pain of love.

was about to become someone else's husband.

But providence separated us ,.. again

But we're still trying, and we don't give up on our years of affection!

Organisms are evolved, and humans are no exception, and when they evolve to a certain stage, there will also be a third nature, maybe tens of thousands of years, and what you are mentioning is just avoiding reality.

In fact, a person's dream requires courage and freedom.

Thank you and wish you all the best.

So what do you want to ask. Is it hovering between knots and non-knots??

Yes, because there have been plans to do so, including my high school teacher, who is an unmarried, and there have been some exchanges.

First of all, you need to think about the reasons why you choose not to get married. Because people will become, sometimes these entanglements are more annoying, if you just can't feel for anyone, just like a person's happiness and relaxation, you might as well go with the flow.

And then come back to this question, it is very easy and happy not to marry a person, because there is no need to think about family, there is no need to compromise, as long as your life is interesting enough. At present, the biggest obstacle is still parents, modern social concepts, unmarried people are still accepted, and there are more women in the new era who prove that they can also be financially independent, so it is not considered strange not to get married and marry late. You need to convince your parents that the traditional concept of unfilial piety is three, no queen is the greatest, parents always want you to be supported and accompanied when you are old, how not to quarrel with your parents to make them understand, is the key to this problem.

If no one stops you, of course you can!

Just imagine, you don't have any pressure in life, because you don't need to buy a house, you don't need to save a house for future generations, you can live freely, go to many cities to live and travel, because you only need to rent a house, you can make many friends, to experience the joy of life with friends. No matter what you choose, a stress-free life is desirable.

I just hope that you won't regret it, I regret it, because I still didn't stand the loneliness of a person in the end, as long as I don't regret it, I will do it bravely, and life is for myself after all.

It's normal not to want to get married, because it's a personal choice whether or not to get married. Some people are still beautiful and elegant when they get married and have children, and some people are happy without marriage or childbearing, which can only be said to be a different way of life or a different stage of life. Life is so long, the world is so big, there are many possibilities for life, and the important thing is to never give up the exploration of life and self-improvement.

It's realistic not to get married for the rest of your life, because if marriage doesn't bring you happiness, not getting married is really a very good choice. It is an indisputable fact that the number of singles continues to expand, partly because people feel a fear of marriage, and partly because they think that marriage is just a cage with huge internal friction.

In fact, whether you are single or married, you will face a lot of pressure, as long as you are an individual, as long as you live in this world, it is difficult for you to find the three words of security. And for the leftover women, this is not an advantage, let alone a shame.

Often, people are asked, "Why aren't you married yet"?

Me: "I didn't meet anyone I liked."

Ask again: "Are you too picky?" ”

I... In real life, I have indeed met many people, and at the same time missed many people, but I have never met the right person, because the right person is a small probability event, and it is lucky to be able to meet it.

Each of us is looking for the most suitable person for ourselves, but no one is willing to wronged themselves to become the most suitable person for each other, which is probably the common reason why there are so many people who have not yet married at a certain age!

Slowly, we don't seem to love anymore, and when we see the opposite sex we like very much, we no longer take the initiative to confess, and that bit of love is hidden in our hearts, and we will naturally forget it after a long time. We love ourselves more and more, and one person can earn money to support his family, and he can be beautiful like a flower, and he doesn't need the existence of another person at all.

In this way, love is gradually drifting away from us, and we begin to imagine what we will do if we really can't meet the right person in this life? Otherwise, I won't get married!

Let's take a look at what netizens think of this issue?

If you don't get married for a lifetime, in the eyes of ordinary people, you are a maverick who doesn't take the usual path.

Some people say that marriage is a game for the brave, so I don't want to enter marriage, I don't want to face firewood, rice, oil and salt, and lose my happiness and freedom. So what will they face? What are the consequences? What are the difficulties?

Scarcity is precious, choose not to get married, you will grow old for life, it is a rare breed, everyone will always have other thoughts when looking at this kind of person, thinking that there is something wrong with you, or you are gay. or have suffered some major blows. If you are in a relatively backward, fourth- or fifth-tier small city, people's thinking is relatively conservative, which will make you feel that spitting stars will drown people if there is no place to stand.

Because you are violating the values of the public.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, marriage is not only your lifelong event, but also your parents' event, it carries the hope of your parents, you don't get married one day, he is anxious one day, you don't marry in your life, and your parents will die without turning a blind eye.

If you choose not to get married, you will have no worries about firewood, rice, oil and salt, and no children to tie in. But you have to work hard to earn money, desperately earn money, just in case you need it, because there is no one to share it for you, when your parents are sick, you have to take care of them alone, and when you are sick, you can get the money at any time. There are many, unexpected risks in life that you have to face alone.

You have to have enough capital, you have to earn money, you have to fight hooligans, you have to go to the halls, you have to get into the kitchen, and you don't have to be surprised.

When we were young, we were very independent, because we could carry it on our shoulders and carry it in our hands, and we didn't need anyone's help to take a trip that we could just go. But after you reach your 40s, you will find that the house is too big, you don't want to play games, you don't want to chase dramas, you drink too much will hurt your body, look around, and there are fewer and fewer people playing with you, because they all have family ties.

Mom and Dad are old, always looking at other people's children with envy, they will sigh from time to time, loneliness and loneliness will be around you. Because freedom and loneliness can't have the best of both worlds.

If you don't get married, the most test is old age, I saw such a sentence in an article, the essence of human beings is the sum of all social relations (very well said), people live, it is not an independent individual, she needs to help each other, and a person needs to take risks with you and resist pressure together.

I think young people choose not to get married, mainly because they have little experience, lack of social experience, and have not been beaten by society. When your elderly parents are gone, the person who cares about you is not by your side, which is really sad and lonely.

No one asks me about the warmth of porridge, and no one stands with me at dusk. Can you imagine that picture?!

If a person chooses not to marry for the rest of his life, he may encounter the following difficulties in the future:

1. It may cause some gossip, if a person has reached a certain age, has not been in love, has not been married, the people around him may look at him with strange eyes.

2. As he grows older, he will feel more and more lonely, because his parents are also getting older day by day, and it is impossible to be by his side all the time.

3. Because he is not married, then he has no offspring, when he is old, there may be no one to support him, and when he can't support himself, he can only go to a nursing home.

I've seen a sentence:

The lights are bright outside, others are happy with the family, and you are alone at home, and you will not feel so lonely that you want to cry, then you can choose not to get married.

People are group animals, no one is born like a person, the biggest difficulty facing not getting married in a lifetime is loneliness, if you are not afraid of loneliness, first of all, you have the courage not to get married.

Secondly, everyone will be old, and it is not unreasonable to raise children to prevent old age, after all, compared to most people who are not related by blood, their relatives are still the most reliable.

Imagine, when you are old, other people's children are on your knees, and you are alone inside and out, can you handle such a life?

And as time goes by, you will have less and less contact with society, maybe one day, when your friends have forgotten you, that time is the loneliest, this feeling, are you afraid?

These are the main psychological problems encountered in not getting married.

Also, if you don't get married in your life, can you resist the world's eyes? When your parents are pointed at, you will definitely feel guilty, in case your parents can't understand you, not to mention relatives and friends, it is definitely you who are urged to marry every year, these are all ...... that need to be considered

If you choose not to get married for the rest of your life, then you will face the biggest difficulty, that is, you will be very lonely and bored, and this is the biggest difficulty I think you will face.

If you choose not to get married for the rest of your life, you will face a lot of difficulties, no one will buy you a house, no one will take care of you and have children, you can only rely on yourself, there is no living expenses, and you have to earn milk powder by yourself when you are pregnant. The child does not have enough belongings, he cannot take care of himself, there is no one to protect you.

It is your freedom not to get married, of course it is okay not to get married, but after you want to decide whether to get married or not, there are several difficulties to face. The first loneliness is that when there is no partner, people will be lonely. Your friends are not like your partner who is always there for you.

Also, if you don't get married, you may not have children, and you don't have expectations for the next generation, education, disappointment, and the feelings that parents have for their children. In your old age, you will have a strong desire to have children or young people come to see you, but not at this time. There is no substitute for this loneliness.

If you choose not to get married for the rest of your life, you will not face the difficulty of providing for the elderly in the future, because with the aging of the population, the pension mechanism will definitely become more and more perfect, and the concept of counting on children to provide for the elderly is changing rapidly.

If you choose not to get married for the rest of your life, what difficulties will you face? Maybe it's regret, but no matter how you choose, the difficulties you face are regrets. As old Mr. George Bernard Shaw once said:

If you want to get married, get married, and if you want to be single, stay single, and you will regret it in the end anyway. ”

If you choose not to get married for the rest of your life, the first problem is whether you will be lonely when you get old in the future? If you are sick, is there anyone who can take care of you? And in the face of rumors in society, will others talk about you?

But I think that since I have chosen this path, I don't care what others think. Stick to your own ideas and live, because life is for yourself, not for others. Since you have chosen not to get married in order to freely choose, you will naturally face some troubles caused by not getting married.

Marriage also has the trouble of getting married.

Hello, if you choose not to get married for the rest of your life, the difficulties you encounter are that there is no one to help in time when problems occur, and there is the pressure of family and friends.

If you choose not to get married for the rest of your life, the problem of abusing you in the future is that there will be no one to take care of you when you are old, and no one will take care of you in the future. This is a question that you need to face later. I don't think anything else. I know that if you are a certain age, you will feel lonely.

On the one hand, there is pressure, friends and relatives should be nothing when they are young, but, but when they are older, the pressure may become a little bigger, and a person may be more lonely In fact, it is mainly a problem of pension, and you can go to a nursing home.