After graduating from college, the two lovers are studying in different cities for graduate school,

Updated on educate 2024-02-14
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Basically, it won't last long, it's not a blow to you.

    People change with their environment, and so do their feelings.

    Maybe a better one will be encountered. People go through some processes.

    In the future, I will be more mature and consider things from a different perspective.

    There are changes. Not together, emotionally definitely.

    Affected. But things are not absolute.

    I think the first two of them should have a good talk, let's put it.

    Consider everything that should be considered, and everything that should be clearly stated.

    Make it clear. Then it depends on fate.

    If you haven't started yet, just want to ask about the odds of success.

    Then the odds are so much, not 0, but not either.

    High down ** go. In college life, love is an essential drop.

    It doesn't hurt to try it, and it doesn't hurt to enrich your life and experience, hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, I'm still worried that I won't be in the same high school as my girlfriend for long, college, no problem, definitely! OK!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I look at people, but 90% of long-distance relationships among college students have no good results.

    As you get older, you should be more mature.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can study in a different place, but you can't work in a different place. I wish you happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    So I think that in fact, long-distance relationships are not terrible, what I am most afraid of is the distrust of both parties, which is actually the biggest enemy that destroys this long-distance relationship. So if you want to be in a long-distance relationship for a long time, I think the best thing to do is to trust each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In general, yes. A long-distance relationship will inevitably increase the material and spiritual costs for maintaining the relationship between the two, but taking care of true love with heart can overcome distance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not necessarily, because as the saying goes, distance produces beauty, and two people who are not employed in the same place may also promote feelings. If something goes wrong, it's not entirely the distance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    will affect. Long-term long-distance communication will lead to a decline in the relationship, and the two people will become more and more estranged.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This situation needs to be continued. The two of you belong to each other and like each other, so that the love between the two of you can become happier and happier.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Now that they have been in love for four years, if the two silver trembling people have a temper, they will get along very well. I think stupid Boliang should still stick to it. It is best to transfer one person to another person's city, so that the problem of long-distance relationship can be solved.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, if you live in two places for a long time, the relationship will naturally fade, even if you are in contact every day, you can't replace the company by your side, even if it's in a space, you can't replace each other with your own things or work. To be honest, the husband and wife of the two places are not conducive to the elevation of the relationship between husband and wife, there is no one to say, there is something to do and few people to help, in the long run, both parties will be there, the surrounding environment and the continuous change of contact personnel, it is also easy to empathize with other people, and the change of the loved one. Feelings need to be managed, feelings also need temperature, the feelings of separation between the two places, even in the case of such a developed modern communication, can be seen and heard, but it is just a cold screen, no soft contact, no sweet embrace, and no deep kiss.

    At the beginning, the relationship between the two was good, and no matter how far away they were, they could be overcome, but after a long time, they were not by each other's side, and there would be small problems in many aspects, such as not being able to give support and help when encountering difficulties, and they would be lonely and lonely after a long time. The feelings of men and women who live separately in two places, in terms of ideals and noble sentiments, should not be affected, as long as the two people are heart-to-heart, regardless of the length of time, the distance is far away, the foundation of love will not only not be affected, but will be more solid. There are many examples like this in history.

    There must be a long-term plan, three to get together from time to time, as the saying goes, a small don't win the newlywed; Based on this, the rest depends on the will of God, as long as it is not a natural or man-made disaster, nothing can not go on, only those who can endure loneliness can harvest the most beautiful rainbow! Living separately and unable to take care of each other, it is easy to be cranky when encountering illness and difficulties, which directly affects the relationship between husband and wife. When you get help from the opposite sex around you, you will soon be hurting your husband and wife's life.

    However, long-distance relationships do have problems of one kind or another, such as time and money, lack of understanding, loss of intimacy, and prone to crises. But we can avoid it by making some efforts, first, being sincere, second, maintaining communication, thirdly surprising each other, and fourth, talking about your common future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    College love is generally not long-term, not only because of the separation after graduation, but also because of the different situations in which the two people live, and even because of the different social reasons that the two people are exposed to, which will lead to the love between the two people will not last long.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes. Because after graduating from college, two people will part ways, and there may be a long-distance relationship, so such a relationship will not last long at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, most of them are caused by this reason, they are too far away, and there is no way to solve the emotional estrangement, and they finally broke up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After graduating from college and choosing to live in a city with your love partner, will there be a future for the two of you? There will be a future. It doesn't depend on whether the city is unfamiliar or not, but on whether the friends you make are reliable or not.

    In my hometown, when I meet people who are not beautiful, no matter where I go, I must have the ability to stand up on my own, distinguish between right and wrong, deal with problems decisively, and get along with people. Far away from home and the city of study, just go to a strange place, and slowly become familiar. Be at peace with one another.

    If there is a problem to solve in time, do not go to distant parents.

    <> generally good news, don't report sadness to your parents, and don't bother your parents with small problems. If you can't solve a big problem by yourself, the relevant departments can help, and your parents have the ability to help you, and you tell them that they are not capable of helping you, and if you don't tell your parents, your parents will worry about you. It is also an adult who has to learn to face everything independently.

    One more thing, you also need to know the outcome of the risk! The future is uncertain. You never know what will happen to your boyfriend in the future.

    It seems that you love your boyfriend a lot. For his own sake, consider leaving a familiar place.

    You need to know your boyfriend's personality completely. See if he's a selfish person. You have to do what's best for him.

    See if he's a violent person, a violent person. I can't keep up. Otherwise, you won't be able to suffer in the future.

    Risk and well-being are also associated with it. If you're well prepared, go for it! Or, ask your boyfriend to come to your home for the country.

    I think when a guy really likes another person, he will try his best to like that person. Based on your description, I don't think he really thinks of you.

    What I see is that he thinks only about himself. So I think it's very dry pants dangerous for a girl to leave her hometown and the city where she goes to school to find her boyfriend. Also, you haven't been in a relationship for a long time, and you don't have a deep understanding of many things.

    Do you think this person is worth the commitment of your life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, you need to know your boyfriend's personality completely. See if he's a selfish person. You have to do what's best for him.

    Let's see if he's a violent person, a tyrannical person. Can't keep up. If you don't, you won't be able to suffer in the future.

    Risk and well-being are also associated with it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There will be a future, because a long-distance relationship is too unreliable. Career is important, but love is even more important!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Some are together, and some have chosen to break up because of distance.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After graduating from college, a large part of the couples in love will end in a breakup, but there are also a small number of two people who eventually get married, after all, the two people are very familiar with each other, and finally enter the palace of marriage.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After graduating from college, for various reasons, many young couples have separated, and some can achieve positive results, so they are happier lovers.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think most couples have gone their separate ways, but there are still college students who have been together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The couple I know who is in love after graduating from college has broken up, or even broke up before graduating from college, it may be that the two of them are facing the pressure of graduation, so there is no way to break up.

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