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Men talk about career first and then talk about love, and those who have just come out should put their career first, and wait for the moment when their career is successful. The matter of love is naturally solved.

Career and love are indispensable in life... I can't say who is light and who is heavy... The materialistic society has transformed too many ignorant teenagers, and under its guidance, many people today have established a worldview, outlook on life and values that are contrary to "the beginning of man, the nature is good".

Let's start with the analysis of the way love and career are generated, there are two ways to produce love: first, two people fall in love at first sight, and hate each other late, and second, cultivate or love over time... It is a natural physiological phenomenon that the human brain secretes hormones to the human body. . .

There are many ways to generate a career, mainly in four parts: inheritance, labor, gifts, rewards... These are the natural results of man-made transformation, which are exchanged for labor by man...

As analyzed above, love is a natural physiological phenomenon, and career is the result of human labor, so the problem is not difficult to solve: love is a signal sent out deep in the heart when you meet a specific person, please note that it is specific, not all, it is something that can be met but not sought; Careers can be created as long as you work hard with wisdom and hands. What can be created through wisdom and labor, if you don't have it for the time being, you can continue to work hard, as long as the opportunity and method are right, one day, you can get it after all, and what you can meet but can't seek, once you miss it, maybe it will never be produced again...

I hereby appeal to all lovers in the world, please hold on to your hard-won love, and don't change the best things in the world because of practical factors! May a lover eventually become a family!

Career tells you that men have money and everyone has a fate.

Life is precious, career and love;

If love is good, career is more important.

The woman who loves you will support you to focus on your career and don't have to choose at all The woman who doesn't let you choose is selfish and doesn't think about your future She only covets love Why is such a loveless and naïve woman coming?

Career and love don't have to choose one or the other, it should be career and marriage or family!

How is it possible to choose only one If as long as love does not love career, this is an immature love Because there is no way to give her home, as long as career does not want love, then it will be difficult to get along with a girlfriend.

Everyone's state of mind is different, some think that there is no love without a career, and some think that there must be love before they can develop their career with peace of mind.

If you are very confident, then choose love, such a love she must like you as a person. After a successful career, she is not necessarily because your personal charm may be money.

Starting a family, it is said that you will start a family first and then start a business, but this also depends on your own conditions, you will have children next year when you get married this year, and there will be more than 220 milk powder, if the conditions are good, you can get married first, I hope it can help you.

I'm having the same problem as you now, but I see a lot of things, no money and no career, even if you get the love in front of you, you will still lose it in the end, so let me choose again, I will definitely work hard to have a good career, as long as I have money, I can protect the people I want to protect.

I believe that as long as there are men, they will pay attention to their careers. Career is the foundation of love!

If you meet a responsible'A good woman will be of great help to the career.

If you are more obsessed with love, you can wait for the future to make love, do you still meet a good girl when you are old?

Poor couples mourn for a hundred years, how to live without money with love alone, and how to be romantic without money.

A man who is unable to strike a balance will not succeed on either front.

Is it better to be a person who gets the country and loses her, or is it better to give up everything for love?

career, with a good career, love is not a problem.

Sometimes you have an answer to this kind of thing, but you don't want to face it, the choice is difficult, and if you go to the answer and are not decisive, it means that you are not a man.

Profit first, then start a family, and if you have money, you will have love.

Career, love without bread is a very difficult and very real problem.

He can't do much without love.

1 The ancients said that starting a family and starting a business, first starting a family, then starting a business.

2 Behind every successful man there is a woman (the reverse is fine), suitable for confusing the topic, using it when sophistry, secretly changing concepts, and replacing success with starting a family.

3 For girls, it's too late if they don't get married! Good men have been snatched away For boys, if you don't pick up girls, there are fewer ownerless girls after work, there are fewer opportunities, and there are no girls!

4. Both sides work together and support each other, and they will develop better.

1. Love is most directly related to the fulfillment of the first social obligation of human beings - reproduction.

2. A happy love can promote career development.

3. A happy love can promote personal growth.

True love is only once, and if you miss it, there will be no more.

One, if you promise a girl, then start a family. Second, if girls are reasonable, they can also test each other through the time and space in which you do your career. In the end, your ultimate goal is to give her a home full of happiness.

This is also the idea of grasping the core and putting the periphery, and the periphery is the process of how you slowly implement it.

I think it's good to have a career because society is different from being in school, and you have to go through it.

Then I realized that the importance of the family will be more cherished.

I also know how to endure and what to do when I am wronged.

It's good for both of you.

All better love your family personal opinion.

I'm also the one who is about to step out of the university campus...

If you start a family, what we may care about is a series of economic and small problems in life brought about by trivial matters in the family, starting a family is not a bad thing, and it is not a good thing to have someone who really cares about you and takes care of you; Of course, you will also learn a lot from it, home is a science, a big classroom, such as responsibility, commitment, tolerance, responsibility, forbearance, tolerance, and of course, love. If we have a career around us, we should learn how to coordinate with our family, and if we coordinate with our family, wouldn't it be good?

Of course, you will also encounter the situation that your career is not very satisfying now, and you feel that you are not able to give each other happiness, then I think career is not something that can be achieved overnight, he needs time and opportunities, and if there is ready-made happiness around us, we don't have to give up because we can't give each other happiness and sufficient material life, there are many uncertainties in the future, but the happiness at hand can't let him go, if you can enter the palace of marriage with the right person, then I don't think he will throw you away, He will be your eternal support; If you are not lucky enough to keep the person around you, just because you can't give him what he wants, it may really be that you are not that pair in the first place.

Therefore, if you have a career, you may wish to consider getting married. If you are not very satisfied with your career, you can get married when you meet the right one, and don't delay your happiness for the sake of your career, after all, your career needs opportunities and cannot be achieved overnight, you don't know when you will be able to reach the height you want, in case you can't reach it? Not getting married?

So don't worry, as long as you work hard, there is no end to it.

It depends on your personal relationship and what the other person wants of you.

How do you know that no girl likes you... It must be that you are too shy and embarrassed You are embarrassed to be a big man, how can you make a girl embarrassed? Be handsome, this is the resources and talents that God has given you, make good use of them...

Doesn't love and career have to be done separately? If you have a woman, you can't have a career? Two things together!!

Career is important, but you don't have to focus on it, and finding a girlfriend doesn't mean that you can find it right now.

It's a kind of fate.

Usually when you have free time, you will find some friends to go to a party or something, and naturally you will meet each other who like each other.

Love and career can be two harvests, but can't you fall in love with computer maintenance? No way.

Look at yourself, if you need to do logistics alone, think about finding a girlfriend first, and if you don't need it, do a good job first.

With a career, the charm value of boys will also increase! Career is also the support of life! If you have a successful career, why are you worried about not having a girlfriend?!

In fact, girlfriend and career are not completely opposite, sometimes, the two even complement each other, a good partner, can wish you a helping hand in your career, I wish you early success, love and career harvest.

Nowadays, work and girlfriend are equally important, as long as the relationship between the two is balanced, not only will not delay time, but also will be of great help to the development of family and career in the future.

Work is more important, and girlfriends depend on fate, so they can't be in a hurry.

is only 23 years old, not in a hurry, and has become a lot of beauties in his career.

I'm a girl, judging by your question. First, if you really feel that you want to grasp her, it's best to take the initiative to hit **, girls are more reserved in the city, you should take the initiative. The most important thing is to ask if she has a boyfriend, if not, first **text message to understand, feel that the time is right, make an appointment**, and often talk about your respective goals and future plans together.

See if you can have a common goal and language.

Question 2: 90% of college romances break up after graduation, and the reason for this should be clear to you, that is, the goal is in a different direction. So, what you have to do now is to understand these things clearly, and try to be together as much as possible if you are likely to be together after graduation, long-distance relationships are difficult to succeed.

Whether you have a future with her is not decided by others, it is up to you to decide. My experience over the years is to be bold and pursue. Sitting there doubtful, worried, afraid, it is better to get up and act. Even if you are afraid of doubt, you can act even if you are afraid, and this is courage.

Hit **! Ask her to go to the hotel! Say: Let's make a shot!

It's possible later.

First of all, I want to say that love and love are not contradictory, not the relationship between fish and bear's paw, you can have both. Secondly, it doesn't matter if you're sure you've met your prince. If you are not so convinced, I kindly recommend that you choose the latter. Wish: you can have it both ways!

I think it's okay, women's feelings are more important than their careers, and working hard in their careers is a man's business, women don't need to work so themselves, and there will be no feelings if they miss it.

I just graduated and have been working for more than 7 months. I still think you should work first, build your network during the work, and accumulate funds and experience. Don't be clamoring to start a business.

After graduation, interpersonal relationships are really troublesome, and in the new environment, you must respect others, whether they are managers or cleaners. Don't try to think too high of your starting point, you should remember the gap when you first entered college. When you work, you must be down-to-earth, you can't be slippery and lazy in the early stage, don't think they can't see it, they are all from the past.

Keep that in mind. There is no priority between marriage and work, and when you meet someone who understands and loves you, you have to grasp it well.