My girlfriend is gone, and now the children are 11 months old, what should I do.

Updated on healthy 2024-02-08
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go find her, if the child is still there.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is it your child If so, why don't you go to her If you can't find it, you can report it to find Tiger poison doesn't eat children, he won't leave his child.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Get it back, after all, the child is innocent, and the child needs a complete home.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're too good at the 5L one, aren't you? Pregnant in October, once giving birth, this is something that everyone knows.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Find someone who doesn't mind if you have children and go on with it. Don't pick again.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be too sad, you are now the only person your child can rely on, you have to be strong to make your child grow better, for the child's mother, for the child, as a man, you have to work hard! Hold on, support you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Mother's love is irreplaceable. The child is still young, and the most important thing is to give her a complete family.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Feed the child well and wait patiently for his mother to come back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Take out your sincerity and move her with action, women need to be coaxed.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The child is gone, and you start again.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hurry up and get her back, apologize to her, the child can't be without maternal love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First, find her to discuss the child's problems or propose to her.

    Second, if she abandons her husband and children, you will be a daddy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You should take the child well, since you have already made a mistake, you can't make a mistake once, otherwise you will regret it for the rest of your life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Tell her to come back. Child. All that is needed is a complete home.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    .The child is too young. Find him a caring stepmother. The one who left was so ruthless. Don't look for it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Go chase it back, and propose.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, I advise you to give up this relationship. Why? Because the woman's father is unreasonable, even if you can compromise this time, but there is still a long way to go, such a father will definitely make trouble for you, and sooner or later one day you will not be able to stand it, so I advise you to give up as soon as possible.

    The child must be knocked out, and if he doesn't, there will be a lot of trouble. The two of you are still young, and you will meet more suitable people in the future.

    Without a marriage certificate, her father asked you for a pension, which is not legally feasible, maybe the woman's hometown has the custom of asking for a pension, but that must be just a custom, if you don't want to give, then you are not wrong, you can only say that you and her family can not run in. As for gold and silver jewelry, it is a gift, if you love her very much and you have some financial strength, then you will buy it, so the meaning of buying gold and silver jewelry depends entirely on your own situation.

    In any case, don't accede to his father's request, and keep in mind that if you agree this time, it will only make his family worse! Don't let people pinch you like a soft persimmon.

    If the woman's father really loves her daughter and thinks favorably of you both, then he won't make things difficult for you, in short, my advice is that you are not suitable, you should make a decision as soon as possible.

    Good luck.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In this way, 1, in fact, all you have to do is to give birth to the child, get married, get the wife and children well, and of course the elderly.

    2, marrying someone else's girl, it costs some money, first pay the dowry and jewelry and then get the certificate, how can people rest assured that there is no sincerity?

    3. In addition, I remind you that you are responsible for making someone's belly bigger, and it is very irresponsible to beat it off, whether it is for your girlfriend or for children.

    4, the woman's father is a bit too robber to ask for pensions, first drag, negotiate, you said that it is not easy to bring the child out, the child is out, and when you can earn money, the old man will have to be raised.

    5. Negotiate with each other more from the perspective of development, don't stare at the present, young people, I wish you happiness!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    '91 ... How old is it? I'm dizzy!

    If you really want to get married, then both parties should make some concessions, after all, they will be together in the future, and it will not be good if anyone is unhappy. If you all have reservations and are not sure whether you want to live together for the rest of your life, then kill the child as soon as possible. I don't know how old you are, anyway, the new family that was established, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, house, car, all have to be considered, do you have the ability to bear these now?

    Think about it, and if you're not ready, even if you're together, it's recommended to beat it out. Be careful, young man!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Knock it out! How good this is for everyone! There's nothing wrong with a child, but it's hard to tell when you're born! Listen to my brother, that's right!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    ...... 11/91

    Then this child can't get a hukou after birth......Your girlfriend is under the legal age to marry.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Either you will get rid of the child, or you won't have a girlfriend...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My God, you are too early to marry, your wife is not old enough, and your husband is too much... But your father-in-law is like this to your son-in-law, your father-in-law is so greedy for money.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Khan, listen to me, pull her to a place where no one is, give her a flower and a lollipop, and then tell her that other girlfriends will kiss their boyfriends, don't you like me if you don't kiss me, and then... And then... Do it yourself...

    If she still doesn't want to kiss you, then you have to walk away in anger...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You have a girlfriend at such a young age, ha, lala's little hands buy her gifts, and kiss her when she is not paying attention.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You're too young, so think about studying.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You just said you want to get up with her, haha Sven no.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    11-year-old Ana, it depends on how old your girlfriend is older than you, if you are 10 years old, it is more troublesome, 20 years old is simple, 30 years older is more convenient.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Take your time, don't rush, "the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge", be kind to her, and it will be fine in a few years. Don't forget that "you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry".

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Strong. Just be overbearing!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Just hug it and kiss it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    For example, the chickens, ducks, fish, and meat we raise are mixed with many growth hormones in the feed in the process of feeding, and these hormones make children grow faster through biological processes, and the development is generally 2-3 years earlier, and the traditional Chinese culture has not been carried forward, while the Western subculture is spread in China through books, periodicals, film and television, so that children can understand the ambiguous relationship between the two sexes prematurely.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hehe, it's not surprising, children nowadays are exposed to too many things....Exposed to all kinds of information, they begin to consciously imitate.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This is the universal law of society.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There is too much information of all kinds, so today's children are precocious.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Physiological maturity is early, so well.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It is a 1 3-ball joint action doll manufactured and produced by the Japanese volks company, and there should be a production point in China, which can be searched in **, but there are fewer people who buy it, and the credibility is not high!!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Currently, there is no BJD for sale in China. SD can be purchased on the official website and at Japanese chain stores (Angel no Sato), or participate in online auctions.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    SD dolls,**There are them on the top search.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    BJD dolls.

    If you want to buy it now, I'm afraid it's too late, and you have to wait 2 or 3 months after placing an order.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Barbie. Don't you think this doll is a little scary?

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    The policy of late marriage is that you can take a few more days of paid leave;

    The birth permit is to be processed 3 months after the child is conceived, with ID card, household registration book, original marriage certificate and a photo of the husband and wife;

    The reimbursement for giving birth depends on whether your wife has maternity insurance or other insurance;

    You have to consult your insurance office for maternity insurance, and you must buy maternity insurance one year in advance, and you can enjoy it the following year.

    If your child has been born for 3 months, then you will not be able to enjoy the above before, go to the local family planning office to apply for a birth permit and pay the social care fine; Hurry up and go through all the above procedures, go to the child's household registration, and then you can buy NCMS insurance locally, and the child can enjoy protection if he wants to be hospitalized in the following year.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You have children before you get married?! This is childbearing before marriage and violates national policy. Fines may be set.

    Unless you don't register your child. There is no preferential policy for late marriage in rural hukou, and you must apply for a marriage certificate before you get married, and both men and women must have a physical examination. Don't say you have children!

    In addition, you will apply for a birth permit immediately after you get the marriage certificate. The sooner the better; Does your man have maternity insurance? No, maternity insurance works for women, and men don't enjoy it!

    Female rural households can use cooperative medical care, and part of it can be reimbursed. The actual age of the first child on the household registration may not be true. It will be fine to arrange it in half a year after the marriage license time.

    As for the hospital certificate, you can bribe the doctor to change the next time.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    1. If you marry later, you can generally enjoy a little more paid leave if you have an establishment.

    2. Apply for a marriage certificate first and then a birth permit, and you can apply for a marriage certificate at the place where the male and female parties are registered (prepare a 1-inch ID photo of the two people and 2 photo of the certificate).

    3. There is a birth permit and a marriage certificate to reimburse the production and medical expenses, and it is necessary to maintain the insurance (including medical insurance, maternity insurance) or agricultural insurance first, 4. It is best to contact the village women's director (in charge of childbirth) to see what materials are needed to handle what things, because different places are also a little different.

    It seems that the woman still needs to type a certificate of unmarried and childless to apply for a marriage certificate.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    1:: Women who are 23 years old and men who are 25 years old are considered late marriages.

    If a woman reaches the age of 23 and gives birth 10 months after she reaches the age of 23, she will be considered to have late childbearing.

    The wages and bonuses during the holiday period shall be paid as usual, and the amount of the bonus shall be determined by the unit to which the recipient belongs. However, when the unit stipulates on its own, the amount of its award shall not be less than the average award of the same kind of personnel in the same period, and it will not affect other bonuses, such as quarterly bonuses, semi-annual bonuses, year-end bonuses, etc.

    The incentives for late marriage are as follows: first-time couples who meet the age of late marriage will receive an additional week of marriage leave; Both sides achieve the enjoyment of both sides, and one party achieves the enjoyment of the other. Late marriage leave shall be used continuously after the marriage leave.

    Incentives for late childbearing: Couples who meet the age of late childbearing are given an additional 15 days of maternity leave for the woman and three days for the man. The man who is entitled to the three-day leave must be a first-time married person or a remarried person who has not given birth to a child.

    The woman's 15 days of leave shall be used consecutively after the prescribed maternity leave. The man's three-day leave shall be used during the woman's maternity leave.

    2.1. Couples of childbearing age who give birth to their first child shall apply to the woman's unit for the "Birth Service Certificate" before or within three months after pregnancy with the "Marriage Certificate", "Resident Identity Card", "Resident Household Booklet" and other certificates. The "Maternity Service Certificate" is valid only after it is stamped by the family planning office of the street or township where the woman's household registration is located.

    2. Couples of childbearing age who meet the requirements of the policy and can give birth to another child shall apply for the "Fertility Service Certificate" before becoming pregnant. Couples of childbearing age shall first submit a written application to the woman's unit, and after examination and approval by both units, report to the family planning office of the neighborhood and township where the woman's household registration is located, and the district and county family planning commissions for examination and approval. The "Maternity Service Certificate" is valid only after it is stamped by the Family Planning Commission of the county where the woman's household registration is located. :

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I'm really inexperienced with this, so pay attention to your family.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Get a marriage certificate first and apply for a birth certificate immediately to facilitate the registration of the child after birth.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It depends on the local policy.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Don't get into conflict with those close to her.

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