What would you think if you were insulated from love by nature?

If an individual has a good heart, then the world he sees is often full of flowers and joy; The memories he collects are often the true, good, and beautiful side of life; What he gives to others is often sincere and kind help. Moreover, with a good heart, we will also have more confidence and strength to face setbacks in life, frustrations at work, and difficulties on the way forward, so that we will not complain about the sky and people when we encounter storms and waves, or even collapse. Sometimes, we feel like we've come to an end, but it's just our hearts that have come to an end.

I once thought that as long as I liked it seriously, I could impress someone, but it turned out that I only moved myself. If you lose your love, you have no color. Until one day, you meet someone, you love each other, and finally understand that all the searching, no matter how deep the despair, is just a process.

Jimmy said that I always see the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair.

Of course you can't think like that, the more you think about it, the more you won't be able to touch love, you can imagine what state you are in when you already have love, and then keep that state to love, so insist, and soon there will be love knocking on the door, I also read the book to say so, but there are examples, go to love, just like you won't get hurt, haha.

I didn't think much about it, and I went looking for friendship.

No one is inherently insulated from love.

Since you can't feel happy and warm with him, you should leave him, don't tie you and him completely together because of you, the twisted melon is not sweet, I can feel that he doesn't love you because of what you said. Women are for pampering, and you don't think it's good if you haven't beaten youIf he really loves you, will he scold you for saying such ugly things?

It's better to break up, leave completely, and believe that you will meet your happiness in the future.

In fact, there are some things that you can't escape if you want to, because it's fate.

If this is the case, everyone has good things to say, don't always quarrel, as long as one side takes a step back, things will be reduced a little, and there will never be such a group. If you love someone, you must be considerate and accept the various personalities and attitudes of the person who loves him, and you can't quarrel all day long.

Break up, you may cry at that time, you may be miserable for a year or two, but you will get a lifetime of happiness.

In fact, as long as you love, you won't care so much, what you feel at that time is joy and happiness, fear of not being free, fear of being managed is not a reason, unless you are dealing with her, you don't love her at all, so, let go of the heart to love the person you love, let two lonely people come together!

In fact, love is complicated because no one knows what love is.

I think love should be simpler, not so many thoughts, as long as both parties can get real happiness on the way to this love.

True happiness, I wonder if the fears you spoke of don't exist.

Don't think about the bad side of what you do, or love, think about the good things first, you will be happy together, right?

Both parties can get real happiness on the way to love The more afraid you are of losing something, the easier it is to lose. As a man, the best way is to have the charm to attract girls, so improve your ability, and naturally there will be girls who fall in love with you, and they will be afraid that you will run away.

Oh, the same as me.

I think so, if I'm afraid that I won't be free, if I'm afraid of being controlled, I'll leave it at that; If I'm afraid that I won't be worthy of her, I will work hard first, and if I am afraid that I will not do well, I will confess to her.

That's because you think too much, and if you think too much, the problem is complicated. It's easy if you don't want to. Don't think too much about it

That's because you have feelings, otherwise how can it be called love.

I'm afraid that I'm not free, I'm afraid of being managed, I'm afraid that I'm not worthy of her.

I'm afraid that I won't do well...

This sentence is not good, there is no rich and poor in the world of love.

The most unreasonable thing in the world is love, you must know it when it goes; It came without warning; When you find out, you're already in it. You can see that you are a very responsible person, and you want your girlfriend to be happy every day with you. That's why you have so much "fear", in fact, you just need to treat her with your heart.

Women are easily satisfied.

If you've had an experience, then wait a few years and say, play, don't hurt people.

Wait quietly for true love to come, your fate may not have arrived yet.

In the vast sea of people, you and I have been looking for, looking forward to, and pursuing, the fate that belongs to us. Fate to cherish, fate to go at will. Don't be greedy, even if you cherish things like life, you can't get entangled, because when you fight for all the love you have to win for, you will either be reduced to the world or lose both.

Don't worry, there is always someone waiting for us around the corner of the years.

What about love.

Why not ask your own heart.

Maybe something really isn't right.

It's a lot of grinding, just wait slowly.

Maybe the two parallel lines will intersect somewhere.

Yes, it can only be said that you have grown up, hehe, and you have not met someone who really makes your heart flutter.

Grown up and sensible. Hehe.

Grown up and sensible + I haven't met that person yet.

Everyone has a love for beauty.

Find a girlfriend and you'll find that everything isn't as hard as you think.

It's normal, you see an ugly girl, can you get hard?

Speaking of which, it's still a problem in your heart, love is in your heart, as long as you don't want to fall in love, I think there will be no love. Or you can find some friendship and family to dilute the love, or go to work or study, which are all ways to escape. What I'm saying is temporary, when your heart is calm, out of that very dark day, equivalent to the winter of love, and then spring will come, and when your favorite person appears, let it pick you and go.

Just don't think about the feeling of love. I don't need love now, even if I'm lonely. At least you have a good friend by your side.

As long as you still have roots, you won't be insulated; Since you can't insulate, it's better to change your thoughts and mentality. That way you won't feel any pain!

Simple, make yourself ugly! There is no man in the world who doesn't like to be pretty! Make yourself ugly and don't wear makeup!

Why stay away from love? Really looked away. I don't ask such questions.

Love is sinless and sinless. It's just that the heart is weak. Wounded.

Blame the fault on love. But. Why not try to heal yourself.

What about rebuttal of love?

Fall in love again with a woman who is prone to your injuries.

Don't be so desperate for anything! Take good care of yourself!

can't do it, love is in the heart, unless you die, what's the use of being a monk?

You are not insulated from love, you are used to being lonely but afraid of being alone. A failed marriage should make you mature, not despair and give up.

You can't be in love like a seventeen, eighteen, or twenty-year-old girl anymore, but you should be more rational about your feelings and the rest of your life.

You always shut yourself off in a hut you built, guarding and stealing, lamenting that you have been hurt, lamenting that you are insulated from love, but you have a passion that is suppressed and cannot be released, and it is strange that you do not hold back your illness if you go on like this.

Your emotional mind is too fragile in some ways, and you haven't gotten out of the trap you have set for yourself until now, and you are still wandering in the shadows, longing to go out and have a new life, and you estimate too much, complaining about others.

You may go to two extremes: first, you will be decadent and wander alone; Second, if you are sick, go to the doctor.

Adjust your mentality and think about it, although the relationship you have experienced is very bumpy, life has made you mature, and you know more about how to seek your own happiness the most, and you know how to live a good life for two people.

35-year-old women should be the most feminine in my eyes, they are rational, mature, and have maternal beauty, this is the most feminine time!

Take advantage of it, but don't force it too much! Everything must be fate, the mind is calm, and happiness must be grasped by yourself!

I bless you!

At the age of 35, you can find another love

The old man and the old lady still have remarriage, what are you afraid of.

What you have to do is to get up from the computer, go buy a beautiful and young dress, don't dress yourself up too old-fashioned, you can still wear a lot of beautiful clothes at the age of 35 Do it**, after the age of 25, the skin is prone to wrinkles

Read more fashion magazines, keep a young mindset, and try to make yourself 35 years old, but have a 25-year-old heart. When a mentality is young, the outside will naturally be younger.

If you do a good job of packing yourself, you can ask your relatives and parents to introduce you to a man who is suitable for you, preferably divorced but without children.

In fact, things are not as complicated as I thought, don't want to be lonely anymore? Then dress yourself up, adjust your mentality, and go on a blind date

There is no such thing as an absolute, I think first you have to readjust your mentality to get rid of the shadow of a failed marriage, and you will regain your strength and accept a new love. I wish you to find happiness soon.

What I was given was enough pain. I have been a single woman for a few years, my body and mind are already very tired, the panic and helplessness that single women often encounter make me have to re-examine my life, every time I am alone at home in front of the TV and computer these lifeless things, I always feel particularly cold in my heart, I am a lonely woman, I hope to be cared for and cared for by others, but also need to vent my tenderness.

Asked by: Qi Xiang - Assistant Level 2.

If you are just selfish from the perspective of addressing loneliness and exhaustion.

This is a mistake, love needs fate! I don't believe in fate, but I believe in fate, and love will naturally come when fate parted! Don't be too pessimistic about life! Have faith so that love will come quickly!

Eldest sister Actually, I'm much younger than you But I'm also very scared emotionally I've had a few girlfriends and left only pain In fact, this world is inherently painful, and there are no exceptions When you're happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that this pain is not eternal.

I think there is no formula, no principle, no reason to follow.

It's normal to be tired in your 30s and still young I hope you work hard because of right and wrong and gains and losses, and you can only be evaluated until the final result!

If you are only thinking about marriage privately from the perspective of solving loneliness and exhaustion, I advise you not to hurt yourself again.

Your thoughts can easily hurt the other person in the marriage, so the reaction force is also easy to hurt the other party.

It's about the age of the heart. It's not about biological age!

Just tell you: you are not insulated from love!

It is said that men don't have a good thing, they can't think like that, that is, they have polished their eyes, and women have to leave something for themselves, and often the little bit you leave is a way for you to turn back, and I hope you can be happy.

Find one if you want to. It's been years. You've learned how to love!

Don't be alone with the opposite sex, don't talk too deeply about topics with the opposite sex, only talk about superficial things, and don't let the opposite sex know too much about yourself, especially your strengths.

When someone of the opposite sex shows you love, you can play dumb or change the subject.

No distractions!

Concentrate on your work! Make a pair, conservative look!

Stay away from the opposite sex, and stay away.

Being single is understanding, and falling in love is a mistake.

Breaking up is enlightenment, and getting married is a mistake.

Divorce is awakening, remarriage is obsession, no lover is waste, and more lovers are animals.

Focus on your career and think less about the opposite sex.