Can friends really be trusted, can friends be trusted?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are no eternal friends, only eternal interests. On the basis of having a common interest, you can trust friends. Make an assumption, since you are 15 years old, suppose you and your friends go to an Internet café at noon, and you are a few minutes late for school in the afternoon, and the teacher asks you to go to **, you two have common interests on this issue, so even if the teacher asks the two of you separately, the answer is naturally the one that has been discussed in advance.

    But if the teacher "lies" to you, saying what you see, what will happen if you don't admit it (usually looking for parents), etc., the balance in your heart will naturally be placed on the parents and friends ...... respectivelyThen, you confessed. Of course, this kind of behavior generally does not hurt friendships.

    If you have fun with your friends, then you can say that fun or friendship can also be seen as a kind of benefit. When your friends encounter something that needs to be compared with friendship, they will naturally make a choice that is beneficial to themselves, which is understandable, desire is the driving force for the progress of human society, and everyone wants to live a better life. If you don't want to be betrayed by your friend, the only way is to strengthen your common good, that is, to increase the weight of the friendship, and if you can give him more than he can get by betraying him, then he will naturally not betray.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is a difference between a friend and a confidant. A confidant is absolutely for the sake of a confidant, and a confidant will not leave his friend in times of difficulty. A confidant will treat you as if you were one of their own.

    The so-called: life has a confidant, death without regrets. However, many people do not find a soulmate in their lives...

    If a confidant can believe, a friend cannot. You haven't found a confidant yet, your friend is just a friend when you're an ordinary friend, and you, you see her as a confidant.

    Your person is very good, very righteous, you stay in a strange city for her, in order to keep your promise, you cheer her up and fight for her. But when you faced difficulties, she walked away. This kind of person, you can finally see her true colors.

    She just has a heart for you and never treats you as a confidant. Actually, she is very lucky to meet you as such a simple and righteous friend. Her departure is her loss, and she will not cherish it.

    People are separated from each other, many people in this world are not good people, many people can't believe it, and many people are selfish people. In the future, you should not easily go to the sword mountain for your friends and enter the sea of fire, because it is not worth it. Don't make promises with others easily, believe in promises.

    Sometimes we can't be too tied to principles, everything depends on whether it's worth it or not.

    In fact, not everyone is a bad person, it's just that you haven't met it, because there are very few really good people who can really be friends. Therefore, you have to have wisdom and see a person's character and heart clearly before you pay for them. If you know someone in the future, don't casually treat them as confidants, but observe them for a long, long time, maybe ten years, and then decide.

    In the future, you will wait for your friends to pay for you first, and then you will pay, which will be safer. Also, think more about yourself, don't give easily, and treat everyone you know as an ordinary friend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Wealth is not a lifelong friend, but a friend is a lifelong wealth!

    Because there are a lot of ordinary friends, and they come and go quickly. Only mutual appreciation, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual support, honesty, affection and righteousness, mutual tolerance and no exclusive friends are the greatest assets in your life!

    Friendship is only sublimated, grown, and developed after it has been acquired.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're already starting to get suspicious. It means that you don't trust him anymore. Hurry up and protect yourself.

    Because of your parents or social circumstances, you certainly don't know that friend well.

    But! Then again, even if he betrays you, it's at the level of a 15-year-old.

    Looking back, friends in elementary school, or friends in middle school? In elementary school, of course. Because of what? The younger you are, the more naïve and innocent you are.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Friends at your age are not fully trusted, because your minds are immature, and you are in the middle of adolescence and adulthood, and there are very many fluctuations.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are also ones that can be trusted, but they need a special number.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You mean a bosom friend. Of course you can believe it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Some can still be trusted.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, you cannot

    There is hypocrisy between man and man

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, but you have to grasp the scale yourself! ~~

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are suspicious of each other, do you think they are friends? As long as you are friends, you can treat each other sincerely.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why can't you trust it, I'll trust it! As long as you put your heart into it, it will be rewarded!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not all friends can be trusted.

    Be cautious when making friends.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hehe, people are always changing.

    When you open up, you will understand the child.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The human heart is separated from the belly.

    Do not have the intention of harming others.

    The heart of defense is indispensable.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It has been said that friends are used to take advantage

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    01 A true friend can always be by your side when you encounter difficulties and setbacks, comfort you, take care of you, never abandon you, and accompany you through difficulties.

    02 A true friend will help you when you need help, and when you borrow money from him, he will not hesitate to lend you money, because you know each other well enough.

    03 True friends don't just say nice things to you, they will pull you back when you take a detour, reason with you, motivate you, and everything they say to you is for you.

    04 True friends will always think of you and will keep in touch with you often, because they want to know about your life and work so that they can give better advice when you are confused.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As long as I can call friends are people I trust.

    But most people can't be real friends, most of them are just colleagues, and people who can be trusted by classmates can be trusted even if they are not friends.

    An untrustworthy person cannot be trusted, even if he is small.

    It's only about character, not whether it's a friend or not.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Trust is a heavy word, and a friend can't afford it because he won't feel responsible to you!

    People are selfish, and the ones who sell themselves are often the ones you trust the most! The only thing you can really trust is your family.

    A friend is just a playmate in casual times, a helpful companion when you are in trouble and he is able to help you, nothing more.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Ordinary friends vs real friends.

    An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. The shoulders of a true friend once made your tears water.

    An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.

    An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.

    An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.

    An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.

    An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.

    An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.

    An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

    An ordinary friend asks first and foremost when you ask for help. A true friend will silently help you and ask again.

    An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!

    An ordinary friend will rush to pay for dinner with you. A true friend will look at the wallet before paying for it.

    An ordinary friend will take good things to you. A true friend will take the heart to you.

    When you have money.

    Everybody comes to call you brothers.

    When you have no money, there are difficult times.

    They are all gone from you.

    Only those who are sincere will come to help you.

    That's friends.

    When you try your best but can't help your friend's troubles.

    A true friend won't complain about you.

    Rather, it comforts you in turn and appreciates the strength you give.

    True friends don't care about you talking to other people and taunt you.

    Because friends trust each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    A good friend doesn't have to be someone who is always there for you.

    A good friend is the one when you find him/her, no matter when (no matter the change of circumstances, the economy, or the outside world), it is the same to you as ever.

    A good friend is when you are unhappy, you will naturally think of her (him), but not necessarily the first to find her (him), a good friend is when you are bored, you will make him (her) happy, a good friend is when you are sad, you will talk to her (him).

    A good friend is someone who will immediately think of her (him) when you are happy, but not necessarily the first to tell her (him) that a good friend is someone who will tell you what he thinks when he finds her (he) when he needs help (whether he or not can help you, he will be as anxious as you).

    A good friend is not omnipotent, but a good friend is a god-like faith.

    If she (he) feels the same way about you, then there is no need to trust the statement.

    Because you are quite one, or you are transparent with each other.

    Trust has long been completely extinguished between you.

    Good friends are two-party business, and they can't be done unilaterally.

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