I fell out with my parents, I left home, everyone help me what to do

Friend, you have to reflect on it, maybe my experience may be different from yours, but I still tell me about my own experience, and I will be like you soon. Hostile to parents. My parents couldn't give me a good life, and they hated my parents and often quarreled with them.

He also ran away from home. Maybe I have more hatred for my parents than you do now. But what happened on a recent day made me realize the value of life.

No matter how much parents quarrel with their children, they are doing it for the good of their children, even if their children feel that their parents' demands and unreasonableness are not what I want at all. My heart is now filled with guilt for my parents. My mom.

Bought for me a gift that I had been dreaming of for a year. Skateboard. I asked my mom at the time that skateboarding is expensive.

My mom's salary is only 550 yuan a month, and the skateboard costs 320 yuanMy mom said it was fine. At that time, I saw the loving side of my mother and the selfless side of her dedication to her children, but I did not see the happy side of my mother.

During this time, I recalled the care of my parents when I was a child, and my heart hurt when I thought about it. Even though I was so poor when I was a kid. When I was a child, I always had a hatred for my parents.

When I was a child, because my family was poor, other people's children bullied me, and they didn't wear well on me, and they bullied me when they knew that my family was poor. I complained that my parents couldn't give me a good life. There's so much going on.

I've lived for 18 years, and before I was 18, I was in a completely dull and illusory world, and from time to time I was asked stupid questions about why I lived. When I think about what happened when I was a child, I feel distressed. I'm 18 years old, and I should do my best to make my parents happy and not make them sad.

No matter how much my parents scold me in the future, I won't talk back, and I hope my parents beat me to death. It can make them more comfortable. When I think back now, I was running away from home when I was 17 years old, and I felt that I was just thinking of myself as a spoiled child.

This kind of behavior only brings the sadness of the parents, the pain in the hearts of the parents. At that time, I was a rebellious kid who liked to be fashionable, to be fashionable, to be fashionable, to be handsome in everything. At that time, I was like an emperor, and I wanted hairstyles and jeopardy pants, and now that I think about it, I am really ignorant.

I don't pursue meaningless things anymore, I only pursue a life that makes the people around me happy, and if God can give me a chance, I would trade my life for a little more happiness for my parents.

If going home is a pain, settle your life first (including a job that you can support yourself, don't be picky - willing to be bitter and tired; You also need to rent a temporary home) Choose a time to tell your parents about your situation, so as not to worry about you. When the mood is calm, sit down with them and have a good talk, maybe this day will be a long time, maybe not very far, before the next New Year's Festival.

First of all, praise it. You're very talented, and the journal writing is pretty good.

Actually, what are you looking for is what makes your family relationship so bad? And then look for a solution. Because there are always more solutions than problems, right?

If it can't be solved, then why should it be solved?

I'll admit that I had a bad relationship with my father, but I preferred to keep it because I didn't want to be hurt myself. Some people call this psychology "escape"...

Why can't you cherish a good future in life, why complain when you have the current environment? I don't understand, if you can't, then think about the children in the mountains, they have the same age, why can you go online and play basketball, you can despise the body? (They're malnourished.)

It's just because your mother gave birth to you in this family.

Don't be helpless, study hard, you really can't go abroad after you learn well.

It's not easy for your mother, and we'll know when we're older.

In fact, in front of our parents, we are too face-saving, in front of our parents, put down the shelf!You will live more freely, in a word, you have to learn"Listen"It doesn't matter if you understand it or not.

I fell out with my parents, I left home, everyone help me what to do

-Stand corrected!

Lovers and friends can never compare to parents because they are selfless and they are the only ones.

You're going to be a parent in the future, and how you're going to treat your children, maybe you're not as good as your parents.

I'm about the same as you, come to me

Summary. Now I can only communicate with your dad well, a big man is broad-minded, my mother and her have suffered all her life, we must understand each other and tolerate each other!

My parents quarreled, my mother went out, I said pick it up, and then my dad started talking about picking it up or something, and it was also interfering with me, and I was irritable and upset.

Pro-3 Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, why did your parents quarrel?

And it's the same old thing that your dad obviously won't let your mom come back, what kind of grudge is there to guarantee? Husband and wife!

How old are you? Do you have older siblings or younger siblings at home?

You can go to communicate with your father together, how can you let your mother be alone?

When you encounter a quarrel with your parents, it must be more disturbing, and the teacher understands you! <>

Now I can only communicate with your dad well, a big man is broad-minded, my mother and her have suffered all her life, we must understand each other and tolerate each other!

Home and everything is prosperous.

25 years old, the main thing is to always tell me what I can solve.

25 is not young, they are all adults, and they are going to have families, why can't your father listen to you well?

Is your dad a bit of a grumpy?

Well, it was a lot of noise last time.

What is the main reason?

Does your dad like to drink?

Well, it's too long to say.

If you drink too much, your brain is easy to mess up.

Solve it at the source.

Let him drink less.

Without listening. Who else is in the house?

Except for you and your parents!

There is no one else, just three people.

That's the case, then you're under too much pressure!

Are you working now?

The opportunity is gone, and 25 because of the epidemic, I took a doctor's certificate at home.

This profession is good.

If Dad is often so unreasonable.

Let's go out and work together in the next year.

Let him wake up at home alone.

Your mother probably likes to talk back, so she always quarrels!

It's okay to say a few words.

Summary. Dear, when you encounter a quarrel with your parents, you as a junior can persuade from it. Husband and wife are fate, everyone understands each other and tolerates each other, which is the most important thing.

My parents quarreled and wanted to separate the family, and my mother wanted to leave home, and my father said that my mother always used this to drive her away, and he felt uncomfortable.

Dear, when you encounter a quarrel with your parents, you as a junior can persuade from it. Husband and wife are fate, everyone understands each other and tolerates each other, which is the most important thing.

It's normal for husband and wife to quarrel, but it's always mentioned that running away from home is a serious problem. You should persuade your mother to want to open some more, and if there is anything you can do in the future, you can communicate more with your father.

My parents' fake divorce turned out to be a real divorce.

How so?

Dear, are your parents still divorced? That's so sad! <>

I'm also 25 years old, and I'm still living together, just because of the house or something, my mother said that when the house came down, my dad thought my mom would drive him away. Anyway, the starting point is that my mother is not good at buying groceries online. My dad grinded, and my mom got angry.

Dear, this situation is still because your parents did not communicate enough. If two people can do something negotiably, there will be no contradiction.

<> you've grown up, and sometimes you need to do some work.

What can I do, it's useless.

Maybe it's because my father is strong, right? Then comfort your mother. It's also quite worrying to meet such a family.

I'm still in a bad state for the whole day of exams, and this family is noisy, it's really annoying.

Dear, I understand your feelings very well. It's sad enough to meet such a family. In the future, it is best to have a house and live by yourself.

I think so too, but getting married, it's so easy, when will I be able to have a home of my own?

Dear, at this age, I'm almost independent, so bear with it. If you are not happy, think about the fact that you will be able to be the master in the near future, and you will be able to get some relief.

I'm 26 years old, and I'm still studying for the certificate, which is difficult to examine, and the family is always noisy.

Oh, research is important, but it shouldn't affect your marriage conversation. You will be able to find your happiness soon, bless you! <>

First of all, don't say who's right and who's wrong, and your move to throw a bowl is not okay. After all, there is a fate to be a family, and every parent cares about their children. Why do you feel that your parents didn't treat you well?

Which are you looking at? If your parents have made promises to you that they haven't fulfilled for you, talk to them and ask them why they didn't keep their promises. Because I care, sometimes my parents' education methods are different, I hope you can understand their hard work, and from my point of view, you really have to apologize to your parents first, and they forgive you.

There is no overnight feud in the family, and it will be fine if you communicate well. Hope it helps.

There are no parents who don't love their children, and the most important thing for families to be together is to be harmonious, what can't be said well? Take a step back and open the sky. Parents sometimes have their own helplessness, maybe they don't want to talk and don't talk, be considerate of them, after all, they have a nurturing grace for you.

The landlord tries to take the initiative to communicate with his parents, don't be too extreme, slowly talk to his parents, tell his parents what he says, and hope that the landlord will have a good relationship with his family as soon as possible. Finally, I would like to send you a sentence: home and everything is prosperous!!

As a parent, there is no one who does not love his children, but everyone expresses it differently, just like you, you always feel that your family treats you badly and does not care for you enough, and you are not willing to apologize. But if you think about it carefully, from childhood to adulthood, aren't there some things that are worth remembering? Aren't there things that are beautiful and happy?

I think there must be. As juniors, we have our own self-esteem, our own ideas, and the elders must also have their own set of ideas, whether feudal or conservative. You may not be able to say the words "I'm sorry", but you can prove it with other actions.

I think the family will understand and be considerate of each other. You can also communicate more often. Family is always family, the closest people in the world.

Maybe your parents may have a worse temper, but I believe that there are no parents in the world who do not love their children, as the saying goes, beating is love and scolding is love, maybe your parents hate iron and steel, and maybe you should reflect on whether you have done not good enough?

Even if it is really the fault of your parents, you have done a good job, China is a country of etiquette, Chinese have always been polite and filial piety, they are elders, we should not treat them with such an attitude, it is really not good to break the bowl, what is difficult to discuss in the family, when you and your family have disagreements, be children, be more patient.

Like me, I think this way, maybe it's because you hate iron and steel, and the more you don't fight, the more angry they are, and if you're not good at other things, at least you have to understand something, so that they don't be so disappointed, and adults like to compare their children to others.

It depends on why you quarrel, I often quarrel with my dad, he always preaches me at every turn when he eats, he doesn't do well in exams, and when it comes to the place where it's hot, he knocks me with chopsticks, I'm used to it. Don't think about running away or something, you don't have the ability to take care of yourself, I used to be naïve to think about it, but when I think about going out and wandering alone, I am timid. If the bowl falls, it falls, and in a few days, when your parents are almost angry, run over and shout at your parents with thick skin.

As for what you can't say, there's no way to do it, the money is in their hands, it's a big deal to make money after you make money, if you want to buy three pairs of sneakers, one pair I wear, one pair I put at home to see, and one pair I throw in the trash.

The warmth of home can only be experienced after leaving home, family is the person we are very close to, we have no psychological defense, we are showing the most true self, in fact, there is nothing, I believe you will deal with your family to deal with the relationship.

The problem is complicated, you should compromise, see that you have a deep prejudice against parents. Think about your mistakes for yourself and be a good boy. Apologize.