I said I feel like you ve changed, and she said, what do you mean when you say you ve changed?

This shows that he is very dissatisfied with your words. This kind of him is very negative. So you have to think about what you say to a girl, otherwise she will be angry.

Whether he has changed or not, you have to find the real reason. So that you can better solve the problem. This avoids some conflicts.

It shows that she has really changed, and her attitude towards you doesn't matter anymore.

This shows that she is too lazy to explain, right and wrong, only in your thoughts.

I feel that you have a conflict now, and there is a misunderstanding of your feelings, and you should communicate well.

I said it felt like you had changed, and he said that if you said you had changed, you would have changed, right? I don't think he wants to argue with you about this, just what you say? Because arguing with you about this matter still requires quarrels and unpleasant quarrels, so I think he is backing down.

So I don't think you should chase too much scenery to a person. Looking too tight or asking for so perfection, in fact, people are not perfect, and everyone has certain shortcomings. If you keep going like this, I think he's a little less patient, and if you like her, you have to know how to tolerate him.

Doesn't matter. Change is inevitable.

He doesn't want to quibble with him, you say it's changed, it's changed. Maybe he doesn't dare to be interested in this person anymore, and he likes to say whatever he likes.

It just doesn't matter, I think her thoughts are that no matter what changes, there are changes for you? But it doesn't matter to him. So I think this kind of relationship has really come to an end, she doesn't take you seriously anymore, she doesn't feel it too much, well, your feelings make up for your feelings.

Your girlfriend says this because he feels that he has changed recently, and you have to reflect on whether your attitude towards your girlfriend or the way you deal with problems has changed, if not, it may be because of your girlfriend, and she is tired of facing you in her heart.

Your girlfriend said that you have changed, it may be that your attitude towards her is different from before, girls are emotional, as long as they find a little difference, they will bring up such words, so if you still love her, treat her the same as before.

In general, this situation may be that there is a gap between the first acquaintance and the current you. Maybe in the process of getting along with each other, you are getting more and more familiar with each other, and some problems are slowly exposed, but I think the communication between two people is the most important, and calming down with each other to communicate well will help you both understand each other better about what the other person really cares about and really wants.

To put it simply, your thoughts and actions about things are different from how she imagined you to react, so she will think that you have changed.

But in fact, you know better whether you have changed or not.

Summary. So, if you have to say that it has changed, both parties have changed, this is the process that every relationship will go through. But it's not that the blazing love that began has cooled, it's that this love now has a responsibility attached to it.

In fact, many times feelings need to find a balance between hot and cool. A balance that keeps each other in the same rhythm and at ease. It is the rhythm that belongs to each other, the glue that binds each other closely.

Therefore, if you have to say that it has changed, both parties have changed, this is the process that every relationship will go through. But it's not that the blazing love that began has cooled, it's that this love now has a responsibility attached to it. In fact, many times the feelings of the elderly need to find a balance between heat and coolness.

A balance that keeps each other in the same rhythm and at ease. It is the rhythm that belongs to each other, the glue that binds each other closely.

You've done a great job! Can you elaborate on that?

Unfortunately, not everyone is willing to pretend to be calm and seek this balance, and the pace is either fast or slow, and the results can be imagined. Just like pursuing this matter, most people fail because they fail to find a balance with each other, or they are in a hurry, or they are procrastinating, so that the other party doubts whether they can trust with peace of mind. This balance conveys to people the feeling that is usually the feeling that everyone is right in choosing a mate, and what is the feeling that is right

It is undeniable that it has some connection with appearance and strength, but the most important thing is the inner feeling and soul resonance, which also explains why many people who are not as good as you have the other half that you envy. Finding this balance, keeping both parties in the same rhythm, and letting each other's souls match orange auspiciousness, this is what feels right. Therefore, finding a balance with each other is the best way to deal with the "you have changed" sentence in your girlfriend's mouth.

If someone says that about me, I will tell them directly, it's not that I've changed, it's that you've changed now.

So you're looking at me right now, because I'm still the same person I was back then, which means that your mindset or perspective has changed, so you think I've changed.

One of the most important aspects is that you now think that my condition is getting better and better, so you will say this directly, and I am very grateful for your call to me.