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I feel that you are a person who lives an easy and chic life, and you have two choices: first, you stick to your own opinions, do what you need to do well, and ignore what others say and say whatever they like: second, you change yourself because of other people's opinions, and if you do this, you will live a very hard life.
I remember a saying that said, people are not money, and it is impossible for everyone to like you.
Therefore, the most important thing is to live happily and comfortably.
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The image you give to others is the first impression you give others, and this first impression is very important and unforgettable, and it can't be changed easily, unless you do something that impresses them to prove yourself, speak with practical actions, and don't keep saying that you are not a frivolous person.
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If you don't think you're such a person, you don't need to bother with their opinions at all. If you want them to change their opinion of you, you have to take everything seriously from now on and show it to them. Especially when the results come out, they will gradually improve.
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Let the facts speak for themselves, to prove that you are not that kind of person.
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Don't pay too much attention to what others think of you, just do what you do.
With the accumulation of time, others will change their opinion of you.
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Then prove yourself with your actions!
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Don't be afraid, as long as you keep working hard, time will tell.
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Take out some performance for everyone to see.
And then there's the appearance of oneself on the outside.
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<> "How to change your image.
1. Don't laugh all the time, especially embarrassing smiles.
2. Speak naturally, don't be oily, calm and steady, and speak at an unhurried pace.
3. Generously reject others for short reasons. Too much explanation can make you the wrong party, remember, it's not your fault for rejecting others.
5. Don't use your own affairs to make others happy, and don't say things that belittle yourself and elevate others. It is better to be conservative than exaggerated, otherwise it is counterproductive and excessive.
6. When you are with others, let others find topics, and don't think of yourself as the one who enlivens the atmosphere.
7. Don't make too many small movements, it is easy to reflect your lack of self-confidence, and your behavior should be normal and relaxed.
8. Don't be a trash can for other people's emotions, and please be quiet when others complain to you.
Remember, you don't have to please anyone.
9. Your dignity and your principles are more important than being liked. They are the validation of you as an independent and complete personality, inviolable. Zheng do.
10. Learn to refuse, do your own thing, and have a clear division of responsibilities.
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