My parents won t let us be together because my girlfriend smokes, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm a girl who smokes. I know her...Smoking doesn't mean to us that if we smoke, we're not good.

    Your parents don't agree because of this, and it's a bit of a fuss.!...But if you want to have children, you must quit smoking. Because smoking is very harmful to children, if you still have a dependence on cigarettes, you can smoke after giving birth.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The chance of cancer in a woman who smokes is more than a little higher than that of ordinary women, what uterine cancer, breast cancer, and your future baby is also very harmful.

    Personally, women who smoke are very much hated.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Female smokers! I think it's bad!

    If she loves you! You tell her to quit!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can ask her if she loves you and will change for you ...

    Quit smoking, it's good for your body.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Can girls smoke, and how will they have children in the future?

    Smoke, absolutely not.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's hard to say whether it's bad or not, but it's certainly not a good girl.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Girls who smoke are lonely and need people's company.

    If you love her, don't give up on her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why is my girlfriend different from someone else's? Can I still be with her?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have to learn to give up, what is yours is yours, not your reluctance or not, and distance is also a reason! Just like me, my parents were also against it at the beginning, I couldn't listen to it, and I was very far away, I got married privately, and I couldn't live for a few years after marriage, or I left, after all, people who are young and ignorant will be wrong!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The parents on both sides are also for the good of their children, this matter can be discussed well, don't worry, the two families can sit down and talk calmly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Stressed, you put pressure on her. Pressure from parents.

    You should think about how to get his parents to recognize you, distance is not a problem, the main thing is that his parents feel that their daughter is not at ease with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is your own must not be missed, and disagreement is only temporary.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. You can eat some animal offal in moderationSpring, eat the heart, liver, kidneys, intestines and other internal organs of animals in moderationmedicine, which is beneficial for increasing androgen levels in the bodyMicroto improve sexual function。2. Eat more zinc-containing foods。Zinc plays an important role in the maintenance of the normal structure and function of the male reproductive systemOysters are the foods with the highest zinc content, and beef, milk, beans, etc. are also good.

    3. Eat foods containing arginine, which have the characteristics of sticky and slippery, such as eel, catfish, loach, sea cucumber, etc. 4. Eat calcium-containing foods. Calcium-rich foods include shrimp skin, egg yolk, kelp, etc.

    5. Vitamin-rich foods, vitamins A and E help to delay aging and avoid the decline of sexual function, most of them are found in fresh vegetables and fruits. Male hormones are not only found in men, but also in women, but there are more male characteristics in men and more female characteristics in women. However, if the male hormone value in the female body is too low, it is also necessary to take the above foods in time, and cooperate with oral Jinchao An, gradually improve the endocrine, so that the level of estrogen and androgen is balanced, otherwise the body will be uncomfortable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Now let's get along with the two of us together.

    Her parents don't know much about you, so don't worry.

    2 sides are stable, work hard to earn money, and let his parents rest assured.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Stabilize your girlfriend first, in fact, the most important thing is whether your girlfriend really has to be married to you. It is normal for parents not to want their daughters to marry too far, but what parents want most is that their daughters can live happily, you just need to let your future mother-in-law know that you can make their daughters happy, enough.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Say separated,PeculiaritiesIt's to make you take the initiative to be thirsty and not separated. Mainly because she's tired or disappointed in you in some way. Yaohuang PavilionYou should calm down and talk.

    There should be no guesswork with each other. NetBless you all.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is normal for the woman's parents to worry about marrying far away, they all want their children to be around, this kind of thing is best for the woman to deal with the feelings between the parents, although Hebei and Anwei are far away, but now the traffic is so developed, it is not too much of a problem, the main reason may be that the parents may not feel so secure about you, afraid that the daughter will marry far away, and will suffer in the future. So what you have to do, be really good to her and be good to her parents, and believe that the other party will agree at any time, come on, stick to it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Try to prove to the woman's parents that 1 you are a responsible man. 2. You have the ability to give your girlfriend the home you want.

    Generally speaking, the woman's parents are not so easy to ask for the same boyfriend because they love their daughter, because they don't understand and are afraid that their daughter will suffer and be deceived. So don't rush and use time to prove that you have what it takes to give your girlfriend a lifetime of happiness.

    If you can't prove it, and others don't agree, and rightfully so.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Feel that your girlfriend, at this age, has little experience! I still have such a good relationship with you! You're so happy!

    Cherish it as much as you can! The idea of the woman's parents is very realistic, and as a man, you should respect it! Let's work hard for a few years!

    Don't be in a hurry to get married If it still doesn't work, she really can't buy a house, so try to change her parents' minds! First of all, you have to move your girlfriend with real feelings! You must stand on a united front!

    Then go and persuade your parents! Looking forward to hearing from you! I don't want to hear the possibility I didn't say

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hey, there are so many questions like this.

    In fact, the ultimate obstacle to your love is no longer something that you two can control, and no one wants to leave their homeland.

    Hehe: Let's see who makes the final sacrifice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Today's housing prices are so fast that they are inversely proportional to wages.

    People's income is negative, and the average daily income in rural areas can only buy 4 bowls of mixed sauce noodles, while housing prices have been continuously ...... for more than 20 yearsDon't say it's you, my family's income and income can't buy a decent house in the city or new district.

    At most, go to the countryside and buy a cheap house.

    You can start by asking why you want to buy a house and learn to empathize. Knowing the true intentions of the woman's parents, you can prescribe the right medicine.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Her parents didn't know it yet, but my parents firmly disagreed, and I was thinking that there was really nothing I could do.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My girlfriend and I love each other deeply, and I have 2 apartments before I am 25, one I bought, one my parents bought, and I bought a car myself, all of which are in full. My girlfriend's family is rural, and their family has been working outside, and they have earned some money in the past 2 years, and they also have 2 apartments and cars (the most difficult time for them to make money is when I secretly help my girlfriend through the difficulties). Later, my girlfriend took her mother's words and said that she was looking for someone from other places, and her mother agreed, and also agreed to meet me at a time.

    As a result, after a few days, her mother was reluctant to live or die, and she reversed herself and threw away everything I bought for my girlfriend and burned it. Her only reason is that I am from Sichuan, they are from Jiangsu, and on the surface they don't agree because I am from other places, but in fact, I also agreed to go to Jiangsu to live and find a way to buy a house. In fact, it was a good face, I felt ashamed to marry a Sichuan person, and forced my girlfriend to die, and I also frantically introduced my girlfriend to their local boys.

    I also want to ask, landlord, there is such a mother in the world, what should I do? What do I do with my girlfriend. By the way, today I was forced to die again and hit the wall.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You probably will resonate with that document, take a look at it, recommend the program.

    Parents change the fate of their children, behind the misunderstanding and pain of love--Lanzhi Talk Show Season 2 EP09".

    Don't give up your own happiness for the so-called happiness of your parents, it is right to be filial to them, but it is also appropriate to grasp your own happiness. This is the true filial piety to parents, and this is also a word dedicated to those who are bound by their parents in the traditional family.

    China is free in love, but the marriage is arranged, and in the end, no one is happy, no one is a beneficiary, but face is for a lifetime.

    I won't say much myself, you look at the choice yourself, and finally add: love is the only independent 4 stages, it is another life. It is not a lifetime of love, but the end of a love is equal to a lifetime, and the next time is equal to the next life.

    Therefore, the love of 2 people to stage 3 is the most critical, and to stage 4, it is the eternal love of a lifetime or even the next life, but here is the moment when most people inevitably compromise reality and give up returning to stage 2.

    So the next relationship starts from 0, it won't accumulate, the understanding is poor, and it's likely that it won't even reach 3 paragraphs. So most people's love is 2 stages of love - feelings make do with life, and something will happen. If you miss the third stage of love once, it will be difficult to have another chance.

    Because if you are still in stage 3 of life, then you will still go back to stage 2 in the 3 stages of love again. But if you're in stage 4 of life, it's going to be hard for you to fight anymore! 3 stages too.

    However, the two people who also insist on the third stage and really love each other will get a chance to fall in love next time to the third stage. So at that time, if you reach stage 4 in life, you will love forever, and if you are still in stage 3, then you will waste the opportunity again, become a bubble, and go back to stage 2.

    This is the reason why some people have fallen in love countless times in their lives, but they are getting worse and worse. This is the third stage of love does not insist, give up, understand retribution, the next love is the second stage of love, but because of the bubble of disbelief, the second stage does not want to insist, and another one, the next love may not even be a stage, the cycle is dead. So, blessings are lovers who are difficult but persistent in the third stage.

    This is the most critical time!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Sincerely communicate with her parents. You all have the same purpose, for the happiness of the girl. If her parents are reasonable, there is nothing that cannot be said.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Guy, I'll tell you a little bit :

    Three men went to the woman to propose marriage, and the woman's parents asked each of them to explain their own financial situation.

    A said: I have a bank deposit worth 20 million;

    B said: I have a mansion worth 50 million;

    The woman's parents were very satisfied, so they asked C, what do you have at home?

    A: I have nothing, only one child, and now the child is in your daughter's belly.

    A, B was speechless and left.

    That's all that is left of C.

    Did you understand something after reading it?

    This paragraph tells us a truth, the core competitiveness is not money and house, nor is it whether she is polite and self-motivated as her parents say. The most important thing is to have your own people, in key positions.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Do you like her? You care about your family, why don't your relatives agree? Please choose which side you want.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Of course, this is your man's ability.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Why is my girlfriend different from someone else's? Can I still be with her?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Your boyfriend's parents don't agree with you being together, and your parents as a man must have their concerns, so you need to carefully understand the specific reasons and then solve them one by one.

    First, it may be that the man's parents don't know your good and feel that you are not suitable for their son. At this time, all you need to do is to brush your presence in front of them. First of all, you need to discuss with your boyfriend, visit the man's parents when he is fine, show his good side in front of them, let them like you from the bottom of their hearts, and then they will agree to you as a matter of course.

    Second, if you don't agree to be together, it may be because the man's parents dislike your family or all aspects of the conditions do not match their children. If your boyfriend really wants to be with you, if you have this determination, there should be something he has to do to persuade your parents. At this time, what you have to do is to adjust your own mentality, and clearly understand that you are a girl worthy of being liked by others, and a girl worthy of the blessing of your parents.

    You have to know that not everyone in the world is kind, and not everyone likes you, as long as you have self-confidence.

    Thirdly, it may be some problems that come from yourself that make the boy's parents feel bad about you. At this time, you should calm down and reflect on yourself, what will make your elders dislike you, and at the same time pull your boyfriend and let him find problems with you. After finding the problem, they went together to apologize to the man's parents and ask for forgiveness.

    Solving problems starts with understanding the essence of the problem, so you will find a solution to the problem by following the ideas of these three problems. There is also the matter of two people when they are together, if you like each other, don't give up just because of your parents' resistance. But if you think about the longer term, you have to plan better.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    First, elopement.

    Second, let his father be his grandfather.

    Third, let your girlfriend act with you, she will not marry you, and you will come to her house to express your tough attitude of not marrying her.

    Fourth, in fact, she agreed to go on a blind date for her parents, and her parents have a very decisive attitude towards you, even if you are doing something, I am afraid that it will be in vain, unless it is a reference.

    1. 2 recommendations.

    Fifth, if you have the determination, then she will not marry someone else, and you will never marry someone else, and wait for each other for her parents to relax, as long as the time drags on for another year and a half, her parents will slowly relax when they see your attitude.

    Whether it helps you or not, I hope you will hold her hand and go on happily together.

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