Should we break up with such a relationship? Should this be the case for a breakup?

Try to date for a few more days, he may not be a flower like this. I think that although you may have known each other online for a long time, hugging you for the first time is indeed a little more open. Of course, when he wants to hug you and kiss you, if you don't want to, you can also refuse, and if you don't refuse him, it means that you are not disgusted by his intimate behavior.

After all, in today's society, hugging and kissing are common things lovers do. But if he makes more inappropriate demands on you, then you must not only refuse him, but also really consider whether this person is worthy of your relationship again. First of all, ask yourself whether you like this person or not, if you like it, try to date again, and see people's hearts over time, but if you don't like it, don't worry too much about each other, break up, but don't compare this one with the previous one, so that what you miss is always the first.

Divide and sum ... When you are there, you don't know how to cherish it, and when you lose you, you regret it... Why do people just not learn to be obedient?

Actually, don't you think you gave him too many opportunities? Indulge him again and again to make him think that you still love him deeply, and he can't do without him, so he indulges himself outside, and when he gets tired of playing, he goes back to you, and treats you as a novelty again and again, and then re-devotes himself to the arms of other women. Can you still tolerate this infidelity?

Long pain is better than short pain, and if you go on like this, you will only hurt yourself deeper.

Since he's not a good person, why are you still with him, the only one who gets hurt is yourself

Don't continue because you're not willing, that's naïve.

Hehe, I also hate such boys, but it's up to you, what we say can't compare to your inner feelings, if you don't like him, hurry up, after a long time, you will have feelings, and then you feel inappropriate, then the separation is more painful than now.

Maybe your former boyfriend hasn't forgotten in your heart, and it's hard for you to weigh others against his standards.

I can't comment on your current friends, after all, even you don't know each other very well. But I want to tell you, he really may not be very suitable for you, you are not the type of person, you will be very tired and bitter to associate with him, trust your own feelings, continue to be online friends.

I think it's good to divide it, he's not the person you're looking for, I believe I feel right! Love is about two people being happy, not wishful thinking!

It shouldn't be divided! Men will kiss you and hug you just if they love you!

Thinking too much!

Tell him seriously that you don't like him being so impulsive! Then continue to observe what kind of person he is, and then make a decision after seeing clearly!

Do you really know him, if it doesn't feel right, maybe it's not suitable, there's no need to waste time on it.

I feel that it's okay to hug and kiss Anyway, it won't lose meat = 3= Hehe, but the body must be taken care of, and if you don't get married, it's nothing

By: Tésesatan I'm very supportive!

People nowadays are like this, it's not okay to be open, just get used to it. Especially men.

Tell him how you feel. The man may think so, since the relationship has been confirmed.

Isn't kissing and hugging a sign of love for you?

<> the first point, the two sides have reduced communication. We all know that the relationship needs to be maintained by two people, the one who really loves you is very happy with your time, he can speak freely by your side, and is also willing to share his ideals and what happened in life with you, but if one day you find that he is not willing to talk to you too much, or even avoid communicating with you, this is likely to be the beginning of the relationship breakdown.

The second point is that there is no plan for your future. Generally speaking, two people who love each other have a plan for their own future, your future career or life, and so on, which is to prepare for the future life of the two people. But if you find out that after a relationship has been going on for a long time, the other bridge stares at half of the bridge and has no plans for your future, that's a red flag, because if he doesn't think too little, he never really intended to be with you.

Third, lack of patience. For the person you really love, the other half will give the greatest support and encouragement in many things, hoping that he can be better, but if one day you find out that the one you have expressed enough impatience for you to do something wrong or not do a thing, this is another red flag, this is probably not a little impatient with you, but a long-term accumulation finally leaked out, if your other half has this situation many times, I think it is necessary to consider ending a relationship.

In the final analysis, the relationship is still a matter of two people, and it needs to be operated and maintained by two people, which is not easy, and if one person doesn't care, it will break down. In the vast sea of people, if you fall in love with each other and intend to hold each other's hand and continue to move forward, it takes a lot of patience and persistence, but you must also pay attention to the small details in the relationship, and don't be too nostalgic when it is time to leave the wrong person.

Couples are tired of getting along with each other, so they should stop their losses in time, and what love needs is mutual understanding and mutual understanding.

Personally, I think that if two people often quarrel in their relationship, then two people can consider breaking up, because two people no longer love each other.

When both people are particularly bored with getting along, they should consider breaking up, because there is no longer attraction between two people.

When two people get along, they feel that they can't accept some of each other's shortcomings, and they should consider breaking up at this time.

As a person who has come over, I have something to say to you. If you don't want to have problems, it's better not to meet and not contact, you can leave a place in your heart for (him and her) because (he and her) used to be your love...You're all too familiar with everything about (him and her). An action or a sentence can evoke your previous memories, whether it is good or bad, it is difficult to do it without a little difference, after all, it is difficult to grasp the emotions between men and women, once the emotional floodgates are opened, can you stop them?

For example, if she is unhappy and wants you to accompany her, will you accompany her? Maybe a move of resting your head on your shoulder and you're falling....Why? Because you're too familiar with her action, okay?

So? Don't be the stranger you know best!

If they are still in contact with each other, they can only immerse both parties in the rights and wrongs of the past, and in the end, even this "beauty" is gone. A breakup is that you have nothing to do with each other. It's hard to do, because after all, you're used to living together.

But it is necessary to quickly cut through the messy "disconnection". The words "there is no love, and there is friendship" are all excuses for still wanting to find opportunities to get back together. It's also eating from the bowl and watching the pot with selfish behavior.

Shake hands, turn around, and leave beautifully. Don't contact if there's no urgency.

Isn't it? It's all broken up, it's impossible, and keeping the other party in mind is torture for your own emotions, and it's even more unfair to the current one. If there is a little bit of friction in life, or a little friction between the two parties after marriage, you will inadvertently think of the person you used to be, and you will pick up your mobile phone WeChat or Xunlun Xinger to call**, and this will not only solve any problems, but will only deepen the conflict between husband and wife again, so that your life will fall into a mess, and the other party is likely to be the same.

Why bother? Therefore, since they have broken up, they must be completely separated, no longer have any contacts, let alone get along as friends, and never disturb each other's lives again. Keep the past in your heart, and reminisce when you are old, if your wife doesn't care at this time, you can share it with her, just like listening to a story.

After breaking up, be a stranger, don't contact again, this is the best way for two people to remember, after all, you can't be friends if you love each other.

In the future, you can get along as normal friends, you don't have to be too anxious, you don't have to pretend to be pretentious, just get along normally.

It's okay to be a stranger, because two people have loved each other before, and it is impossible to be ordinary friends, and it is best not to contact anyone after a breakup.

Of course, it is necessary, the relationship is most afraid of confusion, and the breakup must be understood.

This brings us to the necessity of communication.

Fan Xiangyan said:

I don't like the unfairness, you and I had the last meal, the last time we met, you made all the preparations, and I didn't. If you really don't love, then make it clear to your face, after all, when the love at the beginning is real, the current love is also true, give this relationship a minimum of respect, give the other party a complete death, and then get together and disperse. They turned around and drifted away."

The beginning of a relationship comes from acquaintance, and a good ending ends with acquaintance, which is also the greatest respect for this relationship.

In real relationships, many lovers may not have time to say goodbye or even have the opportunity to say goodbye and talk about their hearts because of the final emotional escalation and emotional conflict, which is unfair and irresponsible for the other party.

In fact, the promise of love to the end is marriage, and we will all be co-responsible in the marriage relationship, so we are all a whole of each other, have the right to know and the right to decide, the best relationship is understanding, but also tolerance, it is not easy to meet a person, to have a person to accompany you to know your own side is even more unavoidable fate, even if it may not come together in the end.

We also have to face it calmly and open-mindedly, thank the past, thank him, and let the other party understand you, him, and you. This kind of relationship is worthy of respect, those who run away from their lovers and don't say a word are cowards, they don't even have the courage to break up in person, they can't even say goodbye to each other, how can they give a lifetime of life.

In love, communication is really an art, learning, disagreements, quarrels, coincidences, etc., these are what love should be.

If a person does not have the ability to communicate, it will be difficult for him to achieve great success, no matter how strong his personal ability is.

Psychologists mention that imitation hail disappears, and everyone has four levels of needs. Before focusing on the needs of the top, it is necessary to meet the needs of the grassroots first.

I think that when we break up, we must say that we know the reason, so that we can learn to respect and understand, and we can become friends and get along with each other in the future.

Therefore, it is also very important for us to be affectionate, and we must learn the correct way to communicate with others

1.Try to be considerate of the other person.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.Maintain appropriate respect.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Talk about common interests.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Be humble and listen.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand others and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and humility and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Use more compliments.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

Since you earn all this money yourself, you naturally have the right to use it. You can carefully analyze with your boyfriend how much money you and him need to save to ensure a normal quality of life and reasonable expenses at the same time.

After all, money is something outside the body, don't let this kind of trivial matter delay the true feelings, the two of them should communicate well.