My girlfriend has a bit of low self esteem and keeps talking

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you want to marry her, will you marry her, and if you can't promise to marry her, don't do irresponsible things.

    Because a girl like your girlfriend takes this kind of thing the most, and if she gets hurt, she gets hurt the most.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She is not inferior, it should be said that it is tradition, it is not necessary that two people get along happily and must do that thing. Blessed are you when you meet such a woman. Treasure!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you shed tears when you have low self-esteem?

    I guess you're not good to people.

    Care more about her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you care about him? Does he care about you? If it is, don't care too much, so you don't have to deliberately change anything, as long as you have him in your heart and he has you in your heart, isn't that okay? Is it important to do anything else.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A piece of jade is waiting for you to mine

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I think that your girlfriend is not inferior, but thinking about her original boyfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your wife should belong to the kind of girl who is more quiet

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There should be something on her mind, open her heart with your sincerity.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Women are different from men, men just do it, and women are to love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Psychological factors for it! She may think that you don't love her enough and are insecure, but if she is secure, she will be willing to do it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is recommended to take your girlfriend to see a psychiatrist, or if you have any problems with yourself, also review it, and if you are married, you still do it, if you can do it for a long time, men have to be responsible, and you should be glad that your girlfriend refuses Maybe because she wants to get married, this kind of girl is rare, you should cherish it, what knots in your heart let's solve it together, I wish you happiness!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It should be guided correctly, not forced.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, I was originally a person with low self-esteem. My girlfriend has always been very tolerant of me, and slowly I don't feel inferior. Couples need to know more about each other, they all rely on each other, and they need to communicate more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There's nothing you can't do, if you have weaknesses, you can generously admit them, and then you can work hard to make yourself better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's better if you say everything and feel comfortable with yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    That's when she feels insecure....It is recommended that you look at her with a certain look....Ten fingers clasp tightly when holding hands....Hug her harder, kiss her forehead more...Put her hand in your heart and tell her that it's just you...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A girl's inferiority complex is a kind of disbelief in herself, a disagreement with herself, and a denial of her own ability. This kind of inferiority complex will make you feel that you are inferior to others, that you can't do anything well, and that you feel that you are worthless. This low self-esteem will make you unnatural in your interactions with boys, you will feel inferior to others, you will not dare to look at boys, and your voice will be quiet.

    This low self-esteem can also affect one's own studies and life. This kind of inferiority complex needs to be overcome by oneself and oneself needs to have confidence in oneself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think you should change your mindset and you should be more confident in yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hurry up and break up, regardless of staying for the New Year?

    Your girlfriend is very strong, very strong, very strong, no matter where she is, she is probably the kind of big sister who is big, and she is also very capable, and most of the time she is chasing her, so you are in a weak position, and you are not used to expressing your emotions by "scolding" this way.

    Scolding may not really dislike you, but just a way of saying that this is the point, or that it has been emphasized many times, of course, in fact, there may be a sense of superiority here, a sense of superiority that your girlfriend feels stronger than you.

    Love is a one-person thing, but being together is never something that can be decided by one person. Look at the answer, saying that because I love you, I will show the most real side.

    Because I like it to the extreme, I will naturally try my best to please him. This kind of flattery is sometimes blind, but sometimes it is rational. But anyway, I wore a mask almost every day.

    To put it another way, of course. At that time, I was changing every day for her and for my future life to be better.

    However, like I mentioned before, being together is not a one-person thing. Blindly giving will only make another person more and more unreasonable, this is not tolerance, this is framing.

    It's not so much what you should do now, but the nature of the problem, whether she can still change. If you can't even ask her this question, then I can't see a future in this overly unbalanced relationship.

    Loud and humiliating are two different things, and there is often a reason for being noisy. And humiliation is out of habit. If you don't owe her, why get used to her. The purpose of spoiling a person should never be to spoil people.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'm really uncomfortable like this, and a lot of times I care about her and think I'm annoying, I'm impatient with me, I talk to her a little loudly and think I'm fierce to her and lose my temper, and I keep saying that I can't speak, I don't have emotional intelligence, and I step on the radar, but she's really thunder, and I think I'm inferior now. But I really like her too much, every time I feel uncomfortable, I can only hold back, thinking about the girlfriend I am looking for, I really like it, I really like it. In addition, if she is this kind of character, it is recommended not to be together, otherwise how uncomfortable it is.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If she scolds you right, you should correct it, and if she scolds you for no reason, then you make it clear to her that you don't like her scolding you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You have to learn to reflect and find the reason from yourself, it must be that you have a lot of mistakes, and your girlfriend will scold you, seriously find out your own problems and correct them well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Your girlfriend often scolds you because she thinks you may be doing something bad, and she wants you to do better, so she will be anxious to scold you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Reflect on whether what she scolded you didn't do well, if there is, correct it, and if not, directly show her that you don't like her to scold you at will.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Scolding you must be to make you better, but also for your good, in fact, there is no need to think like that, and then feel inferior for this kind of thing, you should communicate well to see what you are doing well.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Reflect on why your girlfriend scolds you, and then find the problem, change yourself, and make yourself better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This question should reflect on yourself, why does your girlfriend scold you, you know it in your heart, change yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You should talk to her first, because maybe she didn't mean it, she probably just thinks she's just joking with you and doesn't know what will really hurt you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Then you should find the reason from yourself and see if it is because you really have such shortcomings that your girlfriend often scolds you.

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