In the past, life was very lively, why do more and more people like to live alone now?

In fact, this has a lot to do with the personality and working environment of many people nowadays. In the past, everyone liked to go out in groups to play, or to do things together in groups. Compared to many people nowadays, they like to live alone and do some things alone all day long.

There is no need for others to intervene too much, in fact, what you are talking about is more about young people now, because young people are currently the most stressed in society. They have to be busy with work, family, New Year's holidays, and dealing with their parents every day. They are under some pressure that no previous generation has experienced.

In this way, it is easy for a person to become silent.

For the current society is developing too fast, the pace of life is much faster than before, so for contemporary young people, they prefer to have a little time for themselves, to be able to live a slow pace, can make themselves more relaxed. And many times when a person is alone, including living alone, it can actually make oneself more excellent, and it will make one's time and work arrangements more reasonable.

If you have a lot of friends around you, every day when you get off work, they call you to eat, drink, and sing, in fact, these are not willing for people who like to be alone. Because what everyone wants more is to be able to have a good rest at night, arrange their affairs and work perfectly, so that they can continue to cope with tomorrow's life. And sometimes living alone can make you more relaxed, do whatever you want, don't care about other people's opinions, and don't have to be too restrictive.

Now more and more people like to live alone, firstly, because young people now have unstable work schedules, it will be more convenient to live alone, and secondly, because there will be a lot of free time to live alone, and now the social pressure is very great, and they need a certain amount of time and space to adjust.

Many people prefer to live alone, because the pressure of society is also relatively high nowadays, and if you live alone, you can do something at home to release people's stress, so it is often more convenient to live alone.

Because the current society is different from the previous society, the current society is more complicated, the people's hearts are more sinister, everyone has their own ghosts, in their hearts only interests and status, not pay attention to feelings. Therefore, instead of getting along with this kind of person, it is better to be more comfortable to be alone.

Maybe I think it's too noisy, because people are under a lot of pressure now, so when they come back, they want to be quiet, so many people want to be quiet, so it's normal to live alone.

The excitement is someone else's, and now many people will only feel more and more lonely when they are in the midst of the excitement, and if they are alone, they don't have to think about how to accommodate others and cater to others.

Because society is developing, the social competitiveness is getting bigger and bigger, so many people will be more stressed, and some people prefer to be alone to decompress, so they like to live alone.

In fact, the current society also likes to be lively for adults, but it may be due to various reasons that they cannot be lively, and over time, there is not much hope for the lively.

The main reason is that I don't like to pretend to be lively outside, and most people like to be real, and I hate the kind of pandering to others with utilitarian purposes.

I think I probably liked it when I was a child, but when I grew up, I definitely had a lot of pressure in life and work, so I definitely like to be alone, and I think it's understandable.

Thank you. I think I can only talk about it from a personal point of view, because it will be very one-sided, so I will just use it as a reference.

Living alone excludes two very important options: first, living with a partner. Second, live with your parents.

For women, living with their boyfriends will exacerbate their dependence on each other, and many things will gradually become centered on the boyfriend (the vast majority), accompanied by the loss of a certain degree of self. There are good and bad things about this, and it will be warmer for two people to be together. Connecting with each other, feeling a strong sense of being perceived and existing, and understanding each other will lead to a happier mood and more hope for life.

But if you get too close, your life will be unbalanced, because your personal interests and hobbies will be abandoned due to the disgust of the other party, and your personal space will be encroached upon to a large extent. When all aspects of life are evaluated by the other party, they will always suppress their true selves in order to please the other party. It will be terrible to break out in the end, maybe it is a quarrel one after another, maybe it is a continuous cold war, and finally break up.

These are all hidden dangers in two people living together.

This time ......The advantages of living alone are greatly demonstrated. Because you have always lived alone, you will have a firm creed in your heart and everything depends on yourself. Once this creed is kept for life, many things are guaranteed.

When studying, I no longer expect someone to take the initiative to check the key points, I no longer expect someone to help organize documents when I work, and I will plan accordingly on weekends because I anticipate your own "lonely time" in advance. So, solitude brings the first benefit: independence.

1.In fact, not everyone is suitable for that kind of group life, because many people have different ideas and different personalities, and sometimes, it will be better for them to live alone, but the truth is not completely in accordance with their ideal direction to develop. Because in many cases, you are like being in your 20s at a certain age, and you will be urged to marry at the age of twenty-five or six, especially if you have just graduated, you will be urged to get married, and you will be urged to marry for several years.

Especially my family, friends, and my parents, as well as those relatives, have been urging, have been urging, and can't resist at all, so in many cases, sometimes I may just choose a random person to marry, just barely suitable, what does it matter if I love or not? Then, after marriage, there will be a lot of chicken feathers, and there will be a lot of contradictions, and I don't want to solve them at all or can't solve them, just think about divorce.

2.So in many cases, I think my personal words are able to accept a person for a lifetime, because many times, I think a person will be a lot more ideal, do whatever he wants, no car loan, no mortgage, and then there are no children to raise, one person is full, the whole family is not hungry, many times, if you want to buy a small house, you don't have to buy more than 100 square meters like a family, you can buy dozens of square meters if you are alone, In this way, the price is not so expensive, and then you can afford to buy a house.

3.Then, if you don't have the daily expenses of your children, you can eat whatever you want, and then you don't eat so expensive or not so good, you can use as much as you want, not to mention worrying about anything else. Wouldn't life be much simpler if that way?

You can get what you want, instead of saying that you have to save it for your children, because your children need better, your children need milk powder, your children need to go to school, your children need to go to cram school, you need to buy clothes, you need toys, you need all kinds of socializing, what do you need?

4.Or what money my family needs, or I need some various expenses, so that I will feel so tired if I have socks, because all kinds of expenses will really crush me, and then sometimes I myself am not suitable for communication, because sometimes, I feel that I am unhappy alone, and I am good alone, but others will think that this is cold violence or ignore them, and then this contradiction will be aggravated, so I think I am personally suitable for living alone, But then life really can't resist.

I can't resist those gossips, I can only go with the flow.

I hope I can help you, I wish you a happy life and a happy day!