I m in a messy mood, please help give some advice!

Don't be sad, since he said that he won't let you go to him, don't go, since he also said that he has nothing to do with his colleagues and believe him, don't be angry with him, let alone care about him, because you are not married, just boyfriend and girlfriend, the better you are to him, the more he feels that you can't do without him, and let him go to you if there is anything in the future.

Since he is worthy of it, he has always believed it.

If you don't feel at ease, you can secretly investigate, but you must not let him know.

Since you guys are public boyfriend and girlfriend why can't you let your relatives know?

Didn't he think so:

Relatives and colleagues all know that they will break up and pull in the future, and their faces are so ugly.

You're not wrong. Of course, you believe that he will not betray you, so continue to trust.

There may be other reasons why he won't let you go to the unit. He only knew it himself.

Then get in touch with his parents more, take him to contact your parents, and try to make your relationship reach the point of talking about marriage, so that you can go to his unit generously... He was able to reach out to his friends.

Quarrel is definitely not the way to go, and if you say it directly, he will also directly hit his cordon, maybe he also knows that you will suspect that what he is most worried about at this time is what you said, and if you say it, he will be afraid that you will be angry and impatient, maybe he is in some contradictions, you can give him the appropriate space, let him think calmly and objectively about what he should do, give a half-sugar doctrine, if it is true that he finally chooses the other side, then you can also use such a space to review the problems between you and prepare yourself psychologically I believe that you have been together for so long, and the relationship must be very deep, continue to believe in him, just let him pass.

You did nothing wrong.

Every couple is like that.

Why is he so angry?

I don't dare to say that here.

They just don't understand our women's minds.

You'll suspect him because you love him!

If you are wrong, you should not doubt if you like it, what is your other half used for? Isn't it difficult that someone is there to share it when you are happy, and someone listens to you when you are sad? He didn't want you to go to his unit, maybe because he was afraid that you would misunderstand Ma.

Others like him and it's someone else's business. I also like the ghosts of the Black Society. What can I do?

If I had a girlfriend, I would have introduced it to my family and friends, but unfortunately I didn't, haha. This man, to put it bluntly, has a problem.

Don't think about anything else, just think about your own learning, which one won't ask the teacher, you can never finish thinking about interpersonal relationships, and competitiveness will always be there, as long as you put your mind at ease, it's good, be a happy student.

It's a point of no return.

There is no one who is the savior of whom, only oneself can liberate oneself.

It's a little bit of a psychodynamic problem. And a little bit of internet addiction. Minor issues.

Get out and exercise. Running. Shift your attention and turn the blame for yourself into acceptance and letting go.

Who doesn't make a little lazy... Normal. Run, kick and sweat.

Come back to take a bath and study. You're a good student.

I'd love to help you, but it's you who can really help you.

The past is gone, don't think about it anymore.

The key is to be a new self with a confident heart.

So, you go take a shower and change into a set of spiritual clothes;

Then think about what kind of person you want to be, and what you have to do to become such a person.

Write down your plan and do it right away!

Remember! The you used to be are not the you you are now! Believe in yourself!

Internet cafes will hurt a lot of children, quit as soon as possible! You'll go back to the beginning of your life learning! Otherwise, the next step in your life is slim!

I'm also in the second year of junior high school, so I feel the same way, you should restrain yourself

Junior high school is a critical time If you don't want to do what you want to do when you want to study, don't deliberately ask yourself too much, you have to grasp many things well, I believe you will pass, I am a sophomore, and I have had your helplessness and helplessness, but let yourself work hard, cheer yourself up, do something related to learning, don't relax yourself too much, and find the motivation to study.

I seem to be the same, but I don't think it's okay to look at **, as long as you listen carefully in class (I really can't make up for it).

Your situation is very similar to a friend of mine, at least the man's parents are good to you, you choose this man to love his family, including the son born to his ex-wife, if you reject it, there will definitely be family conflicts in the future, and don't be unreasonable, the man will be annoyed after a long time.

Silently choose to accept the child before him. However, it is possible not to live together.

It's up to you to choose this path, it's hard for us to say, you can ask about the reason why your ex-wife divorced him.

Don't get married, come to me. Are people who rely on children worth relying on?

Exercise sports, vent hard.

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! No one can change it!

It may be that the thrift of work or life now brings you great mental pressure, feels psychological troubles, and needs to be adjusted.

Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

minutes to vent the resentment in the heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

minutes, and you'll feel much more comfortable after that. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Stand up to the reality and don't admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

Have a good mood!