What should I do? I don t want to keep getting worse

You still care about your boyfriend, all you do is feel that he doesn't care about you, ask clearly. If he really doesn't care if you leave again. Don't think about it yourself, and don't be sorry for yourself, the other man can be ignored.

There are two ways not to hurt him, one is to choose him, and the other is to give up and leave him.

Long-distance relationships are too tiring, either you go to your man's side or break up. I've experienced the pain. So it is best to advise you to give up one side, otherwise you will be more tired.

The world is so dark, life is so short, don't leave regrets, 0000 indulgence.

Long-distance relationships are too troublesome. Find a local one. Convenient, know-it-all.

Decide for yourself who you have in your heart.

Hehe, you're still young! I've also tried to go through puberty. It's normal to vent and the most important thing is that you don't want to be bad.

Nothing can change your(Keep a thought.) Even if you're bad, you can't be bad, because you already have a firewall in your heart that you don't want to be bad.)

You don't want to be bad, in fact, what you mean I feel like you're about to learn the beginning of bad, in fact, it doesn't matter if it's good or bad, as long as you don't do things that harm others and yourself. Good people don't have time for bad things, and sometimes that's understandable! There are no absolute good people or absolute bad people in the world, because the environment in which he grew up is different, and the things he learns and comes into contact with are different, so he and her can only be released in different problems.

The point is that you don't know how to do it, I suggest you buy a copy of Confucius's "Analects" and have a look, although it is not very useful for you now, but you will have a certain benefit in the future!

Control yourself, let others be, be yourself, and recognize right from wrong.

Stay away from people who will make you bad. Come out with clean hands. Nope.

You don't have a bad heart. There is also salvation . Don't follow the bad guys. Don't do bad things

In fact, feeling tired, physically and mentally exhausted, because your inner burden has been loaded, experienced too many ups and downs, mental overdraft, just stop and rest, deep relief, bravely let go, calm down, close your eyes and recuperate, a scene of meditation, cultivate your mind, release your mood, adjust your mentality, get rid of troubles, reduce some inner pressure, let go of the burden you bear, change a simple way of life, let yourself have space to relax, and seek some happiness, It's better to feel better, so why bother yourself, otherwise you'll only experience a lonely long journey and scars all over your body. Many good things often become eternal after the vicissitudes of life in the soul. Life can cleanse a person's soul, time can cover all traces, a person can stop thinking about life, and for memory can subconsciously choose to forget life.

If you are injured, let yourself hide in the corner and use time to heal slowly, return to nature to heal the wounds of the soul, and wait for the wounds to heal. When you are tired, please put your heart on the shore; If you're wrong, please don't regret it; Only when you are bitter do you know how to be satisfied; When you are hurt, you understand that you are strong; When you are drunk, you know that it is unforgettable; Laugh and experience happiness; When you're bored, talk to a friend.

I know camouflage is tiring because I've pretended too. It's really tiring to bury your original personality and pretend to be one that doesn't suit you, so you can't bury yourself anymore, just do what you were supposed to be, don't force yourself for anyone.

Find an appropriate opportunity, ask your little sister or buddy to accompany you and tell your boss in person: we are just colleagues, that's all, and now the company has all kinds of discussions about me, which has affected and interfered with my normal life and work. Except for the work relationship, please do not contact or try to contact me again, please respect yourself! Thank you!

Everyone has their own bottom line, grasp their own bottom line.

Do you have the courage to tell him that you don't want to be ambiguous with him anymore, and tell him directly that you can change jobs?

Ambiguity is mutual, mutual, two-way, if you don't give ambiguous reactions, is he still ambiguous?? If your own door is closed, will people still be ambiguous about you???

You have to keep the door closed and don't give him a chance.

Big deal changing jobs?

Forget it, love veteran, you should get a boyfriend.

Point it out to him directly, or ask your boyfriend to come and date you, without looking for a pretend.

It's all a matter of self-control, and if it gets bad, it depends on what is going on, and what you can't generalize ......For example, if you go to gambling, prostitution, or drug abuse, you can find an excuse to leave, but you can't do it, you can only change the environment. If you give gifts and do speculative business, this is the trend of society, and you can't change it, you can only change yourself.

It is best to change the environment, and this is the reason for the "three moves of Meng's mother".

Take control of your heart. Don't go with the flow.

Follow the environment, don't pretend to be high, this is fate. Don't think about going against the sky, you can't go against the sky.

If you can't change the environment, change yourself!

This kind of thing can't be hidden.

It's better to confess to your family earlier.

If you make mistakes, you have to face them.

Be cautious and solve the goods by yourself.

A long-distance relationship is just more painful.

Although I am a high school student, I summed it up: it is normal for men and women to have contradictions, the key is to see how you treat and what methods you use to solve them, often contradictions, no matter who is right or wrong, in the end the woman will have the advantage, but the man will not give in, so what is needed is time, only give yourself time to quiet down for a while, so you can talk about a lot of things that should not be remembered, there is no one right and who is wrong in the love story, only who knows who knows who to cherish more, After a period of time, both parties only feel that there is a lack of something around them, and they feel lonely, then they will naturally miss each other (in the case of mutual love), and at that time, will you still pursue the thing that made you immortal conflict? I believe it will only become a memory, a joke of course!

I hope it can help the poster! (Long-distance relationship, if your boyfriend changes his mind, there is not much chance of recovery, but you don't do that stupid thing to be cheap, since now you have fallen, this is useless, there will never be a problem, if you say that you are out of love, don't do stupid things, you can give yourself a period of time, during this time, as soon as you think of that beautiful and sad memory, you will vent all the depression and unhappiness in your heart, and exercise is the best way, if you say you don't like sports, try it, run, run until you are exhausted, and then eat a big meal.) , so you won't get fat, don't worry! ）

The so-called close to Zhu is red, and close to ink is black. But let's not forget that there is also an internal factor that plays a decisive role and an external factor that plays a secondary role. If your boyfriend is a person with a lot of self-control, he is like any other person.

It won't be easy to learn badly. But I think it's better to keep your boyfriend as far away as those two so-called bad guys. Although it doesn't play a major role, it still affects, don't put all the blame on someone else.

The fact that he was able to refuse when those two male colleagues introduced his girlfriend to him, and then ran back to you, shows that he still loves you in his heart. This is important. You must play a role here to supervise and encourage him to jump out of the fire.

He's leaving this job. You can secretly investigate the nature and situation of the job introduced by his male colleague, and then slowly tell him the truth of the matter, and don't come up and make noise. Make him aware of his blindness and its consequences.

If he doesn't show you the QQ number, maybe he doesn't want you to see how entangled he is in his heart now, maybe he is also very entangled, maybe he is also struggling with whether to leave this company and go to another company, maybe he is also very conflicted about how to go in the future. He needs his own space, but don't give him too much space. You don't look at his QQ, you can know his heart through questioning, don't guess, if you can't believe him at all, then you should separate as soon as possible.

Dizzy, he's an adult, you're still responsible for his actions, he's responsible for his own actions, don't you really like him? He doesn't love you either.

I think it's better to break up, even if it's okay now, what about in the future? He can promise that he will not be fascinated by these in the future, so he still dumps him, why hang himself from a tree.