I m a middle school student now, but I don t have the heart to study at all

I am a student who has just started high school. I would like to warn you from my own experience. Middle school is a very important transition period.

What you have to do is put your mind on studying. You can turn learning into fun. For example, you can make an English vocabulary book and decorate it with funny and funny decorations, so that you can memorize words with a happy mood.

You can also have novel ideas, but you need to innovate! Let others see that our Chinese students are not lacking in imagination). When memorizing Chinese textbooks or ancient poems, you can listen to some slightly faster **, so as to follow his rhythm to memorize ancient poems, which can improve efficiency.

When doing math problems, put your mind at ease, prepare a correction book, and flip through it when you are bored. Actively participate in sports meetings, sports festivals, art festivals and other activities to ensure the combination of work and rest. If you feel uncomfortable once in a while, go to the counseling room at school and talk to the teacher inside (don't be embarrassed, this is normal.

Sister, I go to school seven or eight times a semester alone). If you feel nervous during the monthly exam, buy a bottle of your favorite drink, and if you can't write the question and are nervous, just take a sip. I check it several times after writing it.

There's a little time left for you to calm down and write about topics you wouldn't otherwise have. Most importantly, exercise at home. It's best to run or play physical activities like badminton regularly.

If you don't have the confidence to learn well, prepare a delicate box and put a note in it with your favorite philosophical sentences. Use it as your motto to motivate yourself. Take it out and read it again every day.

It works! ）

I'm also a middle school student, so I just need to keep my mind and adjust my mentality. After all, you are a junior high school student now, and it is terrible to have no knowledge now. Do your best!

Now, there are a lot of people who can't go to school, and they all have some very hardworking people, aren't you more useless than them? I don't think so, in fact, as long as you work hard, you will definitely succeed, even more than others! Come on!

I have a few tips, but I don't know if it's right for you.

First, when I was writing my homework, I was rewarded with a small cookie after writing this paper. Then go ahead and do it. This method will make you feel that learning is not so hard.

Second, when playing the game, there are a few English words that occasionally appear, right? Then think more about the Chinese meaning of these words. Make yourself feel that you can't study well, and you can't understand playing games.

Third, you have to put a little pressure on yourself, specifically like when you see others working hard to write homework, you say to yourself: I don't study hard when others don't study hard, and I have to study hard when others work hard.

Fourth, if you don't understand, ask as soon as possible, and wait until the teacher talks about the book of heaven to ask. In addition, I want to tell you, although teachers like to ask children, but they don't like to ask students what they don't understand, and the students say with a blank face: "I don't know what I don't understand." ”

So when a problem bothers you and affects your normal life, it can be counted as a psychological problem, and at your current age, a lot of advice can't be conveyed to you well through words, so using the resources around you to solve your current problem may be the best choice, so don't rush to reject the psychiatrist, and then for your problem, I think the most suitable to help you solve the problem should be your parents and teachers, I don't know if you've tried this way, or rejected it Whatever the reason, if you don't solve this problem well, it means that there is a certain problem between you and your parents or teachers, and this may be the root cause, because I think that whether you are interested in learning or getting used to learning, it can't help you at all, and it's the people around you who can really help you.

I think you should calm down and think about what you can do if you don't go to school, and if you can't do anything, you should go to your school with peace of mind. In fact, going to school is a simple path for you to succeed, as long as you are a good girl, you will definitely succeed, there is not much risk.

Adjust it, everyone has a different length of time on the mental rest, refuse to do other things, but only by restraining yourself, can you slowly adjust, you can pretend to study first, slowly enter the learning state, is really learning.

The main thing is that you don't have enough self-control.

And your goals aren't strong enough.

If you have this strong goal of studying well, you will work very hard.

Guan said no, the most important thing is that you act immediately.

Your mind is too scattered, you should find a motivation to learn.

Set a goal. Work towards this goal.

Adjust your mindset. After all, you are a junior high school student now, and it is terrible to have no knowledge now. Find out the root cause of the reluctance to learn.

In fact, this is still up to you, if you don't have the heart to learn, others can only persuade you, the key is that you have the awareness and mentality to learn. Otherwise, it will be difficult for others to help you.

It's better to learn one sentence and learn better, but don't be too stressed. Although the future is impenetrable, the place that cannot be seen is not terrible.

Junior high school? If it's just the first year of junior high school, I think it's not too late for you to find your own interests and study, otherwise even if you learn, it will be in vain.

Calm down and think about your interests.

Will learning be useful for me in the future?

What can I do if I leave school?

Think about this, and you should know where to go.

Calm down, try to find fun in learning, and maybe you'll get better!!

I'm also a middle school student, as long as I keep my mind, it's okay, do your best!

Just study hard, and you're good to go.

It's still a matter of mentality, which requires you to correct your attitude.

There's no mystery to being attentive – just follow the ground.

The adaptation period, who made the summer vacation so long

I'm the same, each other.

I am also a middle school student.

Why don't you study? Do you want to be social garbage in the future? Do you know that you are now shouldering the heavy responsibility of making your motherland prosperous and strong?

Whatever you want to do, just do it, and when you're done, you can ask me again.

Go see a psychiatrist.

Experience: 1. Set some time limits for yourself. It is easy to get bored by studying for a long time, so you can divide the homework into several parts, and set a time limit for each part, such as completing the exercise within an hour, completing the test before 8 o'clock, etc., which will not only help improve efficiency, but also do not cause fatigue. If possible, gradually reduce the time it takes, and soon you will find that what used to be an hour away can now be done in forty minutes.

2. Don't do other things or think about other things while studying. Everyone understands the truth that one mind cannot be used for two purposes, but there are still many students who are listening while studying**. You may say that listening is a good way to relax your nerves, so you can concentrate on studying for an hour and then relax and listen for a quarter of an hour**, which is much better than doing homework with headphones.

3. Don't review the same subject all night. I used to watch math or physics at night, and it proved that it was not only exhausting, but also ineffective. Later, I arranged to review two or three homework every night, and the situation was much better.

Except for the very important content, you don't have to take detailed notes in class. If you are busy taking notes in class, you will not be able to listen to the lecture efficiently, and you can't guarantee that you will read your notes after class. The main work done in class should be to digest and absorb the teacher's lectures, and make some brief notes appropriately.

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It may be considered nonsense to say it, but before the incident, having thoughts of self-restraint, self-restraint, and constantly reminding yourself to be calm and try to suppress impulsive emotions is enough for middle school students.

For teenage children, their sense of the world is much richer than that of adults, and their feelings for people and things are also very strong. So I would like to say that try to make fewer mistakes, but when your emotions are really difficult to restrain yourself, making some mistakes can accelerate their growth, which is also a sign of high emotional intelligence.

And at this age of middle school students, they have the right to make mistakes bravely, because they are young, because they are rich and simple, because they are naïve, so I want to say that it is good to be able to do our best to control ourselves, but when we can't avoid it, it is more helpful for us to be brave enough to make mistakes.

Make friends of the opposite sex and push each other forward.

I'm also 9 years old. If you don't want to learn so much, think about your parents. Don't you learn to be worthy of them?

Of course, it's exercise, and jumping rope can calm the mind while heating up the brain.

Junior high school is a rebellious period, so you must restrain yourself and combine work and rest.

I also just finished the college entrance examination, everyone has this experience depends on the personal willpower, I will often watch ** in the first semester of my sophomore year of high school, the grades have not declined much but the mind is not on the study after all, and then the grades will always give you a dismount, sometimes I have a neat study plan but I don't have the heart to do it, this is your self-control is not good.

There are many ways to exercise self-control: in the second semester of the second semester of high school, for my study, in order for me to have the heart to study, I deleted all the ** in the computer and mobile phone, and restrained myself from doing things that should not be done during this period.

High school classes are intense, but you don't have too much pressure but it will be disadvantageous, when you want to study, you don't have the mind, it's because you don't have enough will to overcome, now looking back at the three years of high school, you don't study now, and it will be more difficult for you to take the university entrance exam.

High school studies should be a combination of work and rest, and it is a crucial small step for your future struggle.

That's because your mind is not on learning at all, so be attentive ...

If you really want to learn, your mind will definitely be on learning.

Disgusted with school, find a goal and strive again!

1. Empathy: I can't always learn energetically.

When you talk about studying, you have a headache and you feel very melancholy, doesn't it?

2. Concretization: How is it that you are tired of studying the Fa and how do you manifest it?

Third, the cause of the problem, and specific analysis:

a. Lack of motivation for learning: children's learning goals, learning interests and self-confidence, etc., are not under the control of the teachers in the school on their own. This depends more on the shaping and influence of parents and the family environment.

It is necessary for the school district and parents to fully cooperate and communicate, analyze the reasons, and formulate specific measures with parents as the main body and the cooperation of the school district, so as to effectively stimulate children's learning motivation.

Solution: Create a good home learning environment and interaction mode. Specifically, you can:

1) Affirm the strengths of children's learning, let children see their own learning ability and achievements, and stimulate children's inner sense of worth;

2) Constantly encourage children to see their own progress and increase their motivation to learn and move forward;

3) Respect children's interests and hobbies, protect children's innate curiosity, and appropriately guide them into the learning content to stimulate their interest in learning.

4) Awaken children's innermost dreams, and use the natural power of dreams to guide children's spontaneous and voluntary goals and learning goals.

5) The above content seems simple, but it is difficult to do, and it is a big challenge for parents. Parents can actively participate in the winning free family education seminars, and under the guidance of experts, they can continuously improve their own education level, so as to effectively enhance their children's learning motivation.

b. Difficulties in learning. I owe too much and I'm embarrassed to tell my parents. After a long time, it may trigger bad emotions as soon as you come into contact with learning.

Solution: 1. Carefully understand the child's specific learning difficulties, give help and guidance, if the parents are unable to do so, they should consider letting professional teachers guide them; 2. Eliminate antagonistic emotions: the long-term cause may be adolescent rebellion, and the short-term cause may be caused by mood.

Parents should accompany their children to play more games and entertainment, establish a happy interaction mode with their children, and avoid automatically entering a state of "confrontation" when they are together; 3. Don't be too aggressive, respect the child, communicate equally, and let the child maintain a good emotional state.

c Have other troubles, absent-minded. After children enter puberty, they will encounter physical troubles, or early love, poor relationship with classmates, etc., but they are unwilling to take the initiative to communicate with their parents, and they are very troubled, resulting in no intention to study.

Solution: Parents carefully observe their children's life and learning, pay more attention to and care about their children's words and deeds, fully communicate, and resolve their worries. If necessary, you can use professional psychological counseling to quickly find and solve the problem.

In short, the main thing is to give timely support, so that children have a sense of accomplishment and pleasure in learning, so as to activate children's learning motivation.