I am a middle school student, and because of my weak character, I will not defend myself, and I am o

It has to do with your natural personality and you need to work on it!

First of all, due to your young age (compared to your classmates), small stature, weak body or strict parental discipline, etc., you have a lot of pressure in your heart, and you have formed a cowardly, afraid, and unconfident personality for a long time. This kind of personality is the most harmful to the student years and childhood, and under such a shadow for a long time, it will have a greater impact on your later life, and even make you lack happiness and joy for the rest of your life.

So, from now on you have to change yourself, make yourself strong, make yourself brave, and be a real man.

So how can you change yourself, you have to strengthen exercise, two aspects of exercise, one is physical exercise, the other is mental exercise.

Physical exercise is very simple, participate in more physical activities, participate in bodybuilding, learn some boxing, etc., make yourself strong, you will not be cowardly, and you will naturally be brave.

On the other hand, strengthen spiritual training, read more progressive books, learn to socialize with classmates, participate in eloquence learning and various competitions, and improve their language skills. Learn to make contact with girls, etc. These activities will improve your ability to express yourself and increase your self-confidence from the inside.

As long as you work hard, you will be able to do it, I believe in you!

It's okay to suffer some losses.

It doesn't hurt to concede three points.

A dose of nourishing the mind and calming the stomach.

Two kinds of harmony and two aged soups.

Courage is not a day or two, there is a word, but a long time of character development, you should slowly change yourself, now is the best time to change yourself, make more positive decisions, often say some positive words, avoid, less probably, maybe, and other uncertain words, so that for a long time, you can make yourself more confident, which can make the people around you trust you more, more friendly to you!

Go to learn martial arts or taekwondo in the summer, or go to a host class to exercise yourself, and find a place with more people to exercise yourself.

Make more cheerful friends, go out and walk more, and don't always be bored at home.

How can the personality be the same as me.,Bullying you are all girls.。

The main thing is not to be afraid, be cheerful, if they bully you again, you can find out to them that they will not treat you badly.

I'm more introverted, and I used to be too. Later, it's okay to make more friends, and it's better to communicate at the same table. If you can interject, interject more, no one will bother you, work hard!

For example, if you see them talking together, you can ask, "What are you talking about, take me one?" Be thick-skinned, take this step bravely, if you talk about a topic that you can't interject, you can listen to them quietly, you have to learn to express, how do they know if you don't speak?

If they deliberately ignore you, then don't go with them.

First of all, start speaking slowly from other classes, be bold, there is nothing that you can't get over, right, and then study hard, enhance your self-confidence, and slowly you will get better, it takes time, relax.

Find what you like to do, keep yourself busy and have no time to pay attention to others.

You, you're too self-righteous, they're not as good as you, so you're lonely, you're too unloving, you're coaxing them to play, it's right, I used to be the same as you.

Maybe you are a person who doesn't want to be ignored by others, but wants others to pay attention to you everywhere and hold you everywhere. As soon as the people around you are busy with other things and ignore you, you will show that you are emotionally wrong. In addition, people with a withdrawn personality are easy to decline in work and emotional matters if they don't get rid of it as soon as possible.

I think what you should do is recognize where you stand and treat yourself as a mature adult. Don't let others look at your emotions, and care more about what others think.

As for what you said about wanting to die, it's even more unnecessary, how good it is to live in this world of flowers, stupid people want to die, right?

Give yourself the courage to live and believe that you will get better. The process of metamorphosis is painful, you have already gone through the process, and the next thing is the result of your metamorphosis.

I'm just like you, some people say I'm a fool!

You're putting too much pressure on yourself, no one is always number one, try to relax, you see that those who are capable but not in the top few are still popular, and they are still happy.

From what you said, I will tell you as a person who has studied psychology that you said these words, and you also used many modifications such as embellishment and accentuation of tone, and a real person like this will not pay attention to these, so this is not the truth.

You're good, it's better to work hard! Don't live in other people's eyes!

Just do your best, be an interesting person, don't always accommodate others, and chat with others.