My mom is always unreasonable and often misunderstands me.

How to say it's also your mother, if you really can't bear it anymore, you can find a time to talk to your mother, women generally go through menopause, I think she has this possibility now, bear with it more, if it's really necessary, you can pick a proper time to have a good chat with her, you must be calm, I believe, she will understand! If you think it's okay, you can give it a try!

My mom too! I'm already better than my peers! She always likes to compare me to a lot of incredible nerds who can't be compared!

I don't even have the heart to die! Hot and cold to me! I'm too lazy to explain!

Too lazy to argue with her! I'm too outrageous to be a good boy!

When I die, there's nothing.

I had to wait until I grew up and was free on my own.

Get out of her clutches!

If you can endure it, try to endure it, and those who are clear will clear themselves. When she scolds you, you try to avoid her and stay away from her. Every time my mother misunderstood me and scolded me, I would turn a deaf ear, and sometimes I would quarrel with her.

So is my mom! I can't stand her anymore, but I can't tell her, right? As soon as she scolded me, all I had was a buzzing sound in my head, and the next day I had a headache!

As soon as she said that my mind was blank and I could only obey her, she didn't want to listen to me! I said that she would only scold me and be very demanding of me, I know that everything is wrong because of me, I can only vent my emotions on myself, and she is also doubting today, I am really going crazy!

I'm going through it again today, hey.

Summary. If you have a very unreasonable mother, who is quite unreasonable with you in everything, then you have less room to choose, and it is recommended that you live separately from your mother. And preferably a little farther away.

I have a very unreasonable mother, what should I do in the future?

Hello. If you have a very unreasonable mother, who is quite unreasonable in all things, then you have less room to choose, and it is recommended that you live separately from your mother. And it's better to dig farther away.

<>Of course, living separately does not mean that you don't care about your mother's liquid cracking, and when you have time, you need to take time to go back to take care of the elderly, send some gifts to your mother, and the daily communication of burying branches must not be interrupted, because after all, it is your mother, your elders, and your closest people.

Mom is unreasonable, she usually talks about things, looks at those things, and waits until the matter is over, and patiently points out her mistakes.

Then you should talk to your mother and tell her to be reasonable in doing things, and only by convincing people with reason will people be convinced.

Communicate with her, point out her problems, and tell her that this is not good, and that you are so easy to influence me to do this.

When your mother is unreasonable, you can discuss it with your mother and tell her that you don't like this kind of mother, which will make you disgusted.

Don't be hard against your mother, be soft appropriately, and then explain the reason indifferently with your mother.

Then don't try to reason with your mother, find a chance to make her realize her mistake.

Mom is unreasonable, you can find a suitable time and place to talk to her alone.

Mom is unreasonable a lot of times for your own good, so understand the thoughts of the elderly more.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Is it her last name? What kind of logic is this? Communicate well with your mother.

Your mom won't let your child and your last name? Is it her last name?

I think the original intention of parents is good, in the final analysis, it is for the good of their children, but sometimes the way parents do things can not be accepted by their children, such as your mother is very unreasonable, I think this is a very speechless thing.

First of all, I think you can reflect this problem to your father, you can say to your father, mother is very unreasonable in some things, I really don't like mother's approach, at this time Dad will definitely talk to your mother about this problem, because they are peers, so at this point Dad still has the right to say, under the persuasion of Dad, Mom may realize that sometimes she is a little unreasonable in doing things, and then she will improve herself.

Secondly, I think you can write a letter to let your mother know about this situation, because it is not very easy to say this problem in person, so you can write what you want to say and express on paper, and then give it to your mother, because this is not a face-to-face talk, it will not lead to an increase in contradictions, because we all look at it with a calmer mind when we see the words on the paper, so I think this is a better way. Your mom may have started to reflect on her own behavior when she saw the letter.

When your mother is unreasonable, you must not work against your mother, which will only cause greater contradictions, so we still have to find an appropriate opportunity to make my mother realize her mistake, and we want to find a way to let my mother get rid of this bad problem.

How can a mother be unreasonable? Yes, today's children are very independent, and they have their own unique side in speaking and doing things. Different age groups have different views on things, and maybe this is the conflict between you and your mother.

In fact, there are some things that the two of you are not wrong, the purpose is the same, and the thoughts in your hearts are also for the good of each other. But it's just that the two of you don't communicate in the right way. So as a child, you must first learn to be patient, don't rely on your own temper, think about how you can communicate happily with your mother, you have to believe that your mother loves you and will never harm you, as long as your communication methods are correct, you will chat happily.

Sometimes for one thing, because the two of you have different starting points. It makes you feel that your mother is always unreasonable.

In fact, at this time, if you think about it differently and consider this issue from the perspective of your mother, you will find that in fact, your mother is not wrong, and then you will find that she is not an unreasonable mother.

Mom is always unreasonable, it does make people very depressed, but we have to find a suitable time to communicate well with our mother, communicate well, communicate well and communicate well, and the problem between mother and son will naturally be solved very well.

Communicate more with your mother, and your mother will change day by day, improve day by day, and slowly become reasonable and pay attention to reasoning. Your mother and son will get along more harmoniously, and the relationship will get better and better. Therefore, it is normal for some disagreements between people, and I am afraid that two people will not communicate well and communicate well.

Communicate and communicate and be patient with your mother, and day after day your mother will become the reasonable mother you want to see.

For me, I am also as disgusted with my mother as you are, and I talk to me every day. So what to do? Let me share with you my experience and practice today.

Hmmm, remember when I was in high school, I was in a rebellious period as a student. I was a typical bad student. I didn't listen well to the class at school, I didn't listen to the teacher's class, I didn't listen to my parents at home, and I still remember that my parents would always say a word to me at that time.

If you don't study hard now, you will just grow crops at home in the future, just an ordinary woman, get married and have children, you will not do anything. Every time I hear these big truths from my parents, I always look at them blankly, and I always silently say in my heart that you care about me.

Whenever my parents told me these great truths, I always listened to them with one ear and one ear, and I didn't care what they said, I still only did mine. Also, when they talk about me, I always slip away. Always find an excuse to hang out, or go to a friend's house.

This was what I did in high school at the time. Now that I think about it, I really regret it!

Now I want to say to you. Good medicine is good for disease, and good advice is good for action. Our parents' teachings were very helpful to us.

When you are disgusted with your parents' teachings, you have to think about it, why do your parents say this to you? You have to think about it, are you really doing something wrong? Calm down and think about what you will do in the future if you don't listen to your parents now.

You have to know why your parents say these things to you, because they are your parents. No one is going to nag you here for no reason! Who will have the leisure to tell you the truth here?

That's what our parents do.

In fact, sometimes I don't think I should feel too much about being a child, my mother is always reasonable, of course, this has a lot to do with people's character, maybe your mother just likes to talk about the character, in fact, this kind of character is not a good thing. Officially, because your mother always communicates with you, reasoning will make you understand a lot of people in life.

There is such an example around me, the child was born in a kind of person whose parents don't like to talk and don't like to use words to manage you, and the family is not very harmonious, giving the child a particularly depressing atmosphere, which makes the child very sad, and naturally unwilling to communicate, as a result, the child is unwilling to speak, and slowly gets autism. So you have to think about the other side of the problem and think that it is a good thing to have a mother who loves to be reasonable.

Maybe you don't understand the difficulties of your mother, but when you really understand your mother's hardships, you won't be particularly disgusted with your mother's reasoning with you every time. You should learn to empathize, not just from a child's point of view, to consider that my mother will make me very annoyed by reasoning with me, I don't like this, if you think so, then you should go to see your mother's usual life, to understand your mother, and slowly you will know that the truth that your mother and you tell is her own personal experience, and I don't want you to go her back and make her mistakes again.

When I was very young, I was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism, my mother had to get up at five o'clock in the morning every month, it was winter at that time, I remember deeply, it was cold and dark and we went outside to wait for the car, at that time I was still young and didn't understand anything, my mother reasoned with me in the car and said that I must study hard in the future, work hard to become a useful person. I'm annoyed, I don't want to sit with my mother, and I still have a temper, now I think about myself at that time I was really naïve, we should learn to empathize, learn to love our family.

Every time my mother reasoned with me, I would take the essence and remove the dross. I'll listen to what I can accept, and if I can't accept it, I'll just go haha, listen to it in my left ear, and pop up in my right ear.

Learn to be calm. Naiyuan I am often scolded by my mother.,I used to always quarrel with her.,Now I endure it every time.,Although Chang Qi's heart is still very angry.,But the appearance pretends to be calm.。。

I am the same, you can show evidence to make him believe you ...

Whether he said it or not, I was the same, he just said less.

Adults are also human beings, and they inevitably have the problem of nagging and irritability. Sometimes it's not just criticizing, scolding, and teaching you, it's a catharsis of her own emotions. She was very angry, similar to a car that was too fast, even if it braked, it had to slide for a while before it could stop, so she couldn't stop, and she had to scold and scold until she could calm down.

There is no way, many parents completely lose their minds when they are emotionally out of control, and they don't think about how hurtful their words are, and even have no positive meaning except for hurting others. What's the solution? At this time, rebuttal and even a bad expression may become a trouble that adds fuel to the fire, what can be done is to maintain a sad expression, bow your head, and pretend to be very serious and humble, in fact, all her words are the wind in her ears.

That way you won't feel bad.

I understand your feelings. But, baby, don't say there's no reason to live in this home! Actually, you are very sad to say this! Mom will be very sad when she sees it! But mom can't say sorry

If you're more or less a high school student. Mom's age may be around menopause.

When the rebellious phase meets menopause. Good boy, please understand Mom's hysteria.

You have to believe that your mother said something unpleasant, and her own heart was dripping blood, and you were her favorite child, her heart. No one wants to hurt you.

You don't know a lot of your mother's suffering. Mom has a lot of things to digest on her own. All her stress, may only be vented to you. Mom is selfish, so to speak, sometimes.

Perfect yourself, love yourself, be a mother's child.

Mom will always love you.