Can you still be friends after a breakup?

Even if you keep in touch with your ex, you know very well that you will not develop further and will not generate a spark of love, but is it also a potential harm to your current position? If the incumbent is a more tolerant person, he may not care so much, as long as the incumbent has confidence in the current relationship and has confidence in himself, it is basically no problem. But if the incumbent is prone to overthinking, especially if the incumbent is a girl, then keeping in touch with the ex will be a potential damage to the current relationship.

A girl may not care about these at first, but as time goes by, especially when she loves more and more, her insecurities will become more and more, and her ex is the biggest potential harm. When a woman and a man's past are more serious, the demons in the heart will arise, and they will become hysterical and unreasonable, and the man will not know how to deal with this situation, he will only get more and more headaches, and then he will dislike her more and more, and then hate her, and finally the relationship will slowly break down.

Questions like "Is there a pure friendship between men and women" and "Can lovers be friends after breaking up" are not 1+1=2 so that there is a fixed and standard answer put there for your reference, this is a completely private choice of the question, you say that there can be no pure friendship between men and women, but someone has done it, you say that men and women can't continue to be friends after breaking up, but there are people who can still be friends. Why do you need to ask if there is anything, can it, you think it is good, then it is fine, the important thing is not to go against your own heart.

Whether they can be friends after breaking up should be a matter for two people, even if they can tolerate each other and forgive each other, they also extend a friendly hand and vow not to step on the boundaries of friends again, which does not guarantee that the other party will think the same way and be willing to be friends with themselves. Maybe the other party is very reluctant to mention this past, and seeing that you will make you think of unhappy things, you will be unable to extricate yourself and fall into pain. If so, there is no need for two people to be friends anymore.

I really don't recommend being friends after a breakup, because how much it hurts to be friends with the person who pays my heart, I once had the luxury of hoping that he will come back to me, so I've been looking forward to it, but in exchange for a new girlfriend by his side, he was hurt by a new girlfriend and so on, as if he was laughing at me, so that I had nothing to hide in front of the facts, I once thought I had let go of myself, but when I saw a message from him, my heart would involuntarily beat a few times, After that, I specially pretended to reply to a um, and then regretted it alone.

It's whatever you want. It's not that you can't be friends, it's that you don't have to. No one has the patience to speculate on whether they are still in love or just friends.

But even if I don't be friends, if she has something to ask me for, I will help her as before. Only when you give up can you get it, and you can only take it if you put it down. Don't be too greedy.

Ask yourself, are you really missing such a friend? Be a little more chic.

After seeing him a few months ago, I found that my reaction was not so strong, hanging out with him, eating, watching movies, and doing all the things that I could think of being with him as regretful, I completely let go of him, and I told him that this was probably the last time we would play without any worries like this, that we were strangers out of this door, and then I felt a sense of ease that I had never felt before.

It turns out that I have always felt that I can, what can't be, I went through the process of being a friend and finally knew that I couldn't, when you think you can, it must be that you still love him, and when you have an opportunity to make you completely desperate and don't love, then it's a stranger, no matter how hard I try to convince myself to be friends, I can't be friends.

You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other, so you can only be the most familiar stranger.

After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply, it's a friend, you need care, if so, .........

Then why choose to break up.

A relationship. A journey, walking together, too much joy, touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

If you can, you must not have really loved.

Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull.

It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

There is no love and no hate in his heart, and he is indifferent to the throbbing in his heart, so that he can become a friend and a lover is so close, and a friend is so far away, and he can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be a friend.

But the car obviously drove away, even if it returned to the original point again, it was a different time.

Different characters, different landscapes.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ,...

Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

Don't love him her.

Let go, don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep if you still love her, don't ask her to turn back

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

It can only be the most familiar strangers.

Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

You can still be friends after breaking up, that's because you haven't really loved, otherwise why can you still care about each other, laugh and greet each other.

When we met love, we were very serious and attentive to love, but later, for many reasons, we began to quarrel, began to complain and blame each other, until we broke up. But after the breakup, that unforgettable love made us unable to forget, so we regretted it and hoped that everything could be started again.

But how much can be lost again?

So when we have it, please cherish it and don't break up easily.

After breaking up, being friends can at least say hello when they meet in the future, so that everyone will not pretend not to see everyone when they meet, which will be more embarrassing. You can also be like other people, who hate each other to death after breaking up, and do everything-for-tat. However, if you are friends, you can also talk a few words at the right time, so that you don't say anything, and you can imagine that kind of situation.

Whether or not they can be friends after separation depends on the state of the breakup. If it is a peaceful breakup, both parties can accept it, and there will still be intersections in the future. And if the breakup is very stiff, they will not get along with each other for a long time.

Some people think that those who can be friends after a breakup have not really loved, and those who have loved deeply cannot be friends. For people who have loved deeply, it is impossible to do it as if nothing happened.

The person who makes you feel good at a glance will also make you feel good again. People are pure emotional arguments, as long as they are emotional, it is difficult to say that they will forget and forget. Feelings don't mean that if you break up, you can treat it as if nothing exists.

I believe that if I really love someone, I will miss it even if I am separated, and I don't believe that there is a way to continue to get along with each other as friends. The kind of people who can still be friends, but they just want to continue to protect each other in this way.

Those who have really loved and can still be friends after breaking up are just continuing to get along with each other through this identity for the time being, and to put it bluntly, they are still unwilling and want to make up for their regrets through the identity of friends. As friends, you can't do a lot of things, you have to keep your distance and proportion, and you can't enjoy each other's contributions with peace of mind. Friends can't continue to love, and those who can love can't be friends.

For two people who have loved, there is no need to continue to entangle after separation. Since they are separated, it means that they are not suitable for each other, and they are not the one who is really right, so they should not influence each other's decision-making in the name of friends. After separation, you should try to let go of your cantonment, don't give the other party the illusion, and don't hurt it.

For those passers-by, all you have to do is accept it calmly and don't waste your life because of the wrong person.

When you entangle with the wrong person, you consume each other. In the adult world, it is necessary to stay sober and rational, do not waste time for people who do not deserve it, and everyone is responsible for their own choices. After breaking up, let go bravely, cherish it together, don't covet other things, and live your own life is the best way.

Hello, after the breakup, there is a rubber pie or can be friends next to the dust cover, because it is not suitable, after all, you can't live, but friends are different, as long as you are like-minded, you can be friends.

After breaking up, you can't be friends anymore, and continuing to entangle is just borrowing potatoes and branches that you don't want to let go, and the two people break up, and they hurt each other deeply, and it's hard for Burning Hands to return to the relationship with friends.

It's hard to be friends only after a breakup between lovers. Two people have loved and hurt deeply, and they are very sad to break up, and it is difficult to return to the relationship between friends.

You can't be friends after a breakup, unless it's a fake breakup, and you still want to maintain an ambiguous relationship, and you're entangled with each other.

Many times, when two people break up, it seems that their love for each other has died, but the residual warmth of the body is still there. Both sides couldn't bear to cremate this body as soon as possible, and everyone had an illusion that this moment of warmth could make them stay for a long, long time. If two people want to continue to be friends after breaking up, this requires extremely high emotional intelligence, which is not something that ordinary people can handle.

Moreover, it is also easy to make your current person have a mustard, in order to be responsible for your next relationship, you don't want such a friend.

Can you really be friends after a breakup?

Hello, dear, glad to answer for you, can't be friends. Because this so-called friend is just another way of saying that the thread is broken. Many times, when two people break up, it seems that their love for each other has died, but the residual warmth of the body is still there.

Both sides couldn't bear to cremate this body as soon as possible, and everyone had an illusion that this moment of warmth could make them stay for a long, long time. If two people want to continue to be friends after breaking up, this requires extremely high emotional intelligence, which is not something that ordinary people can handle. Moreover, it is also easy to make your current person have a mustard, in order to be responsible for your next relationship, you don't want such a friend.

But what to do if you are not willing to do it.

Oh. If you are not willing to give up, you will get back together.

I can't get back together.

That can only completely forget the other party. Because keeping it has always been a pain in your heart.

It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!

See.

Seventh, look at the heart, look at the attitude! If you haven't really loved, you can be friends again! It doesn't matter if you're a friend or a stranger.

I don't want to completely lose the hope of the other party, and I can still be friends. But it is difficult for two people who have really loved to be friends again, because both parties have been hurt in love and hurt each other. Uh....In fact, it is also very difficult to be a stranger, because you used to love each other deeply.

The best option is to be the most familiar stranger....Ordinary friends, you can eat together, play together, meet and say hello...