I m married, but I don t love my wife, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you're sick, since you don't like your wife, why do you want to get married, since you're married, you have to be attentive.

    You're embarrassed to say you're miserable, you're not at all fair to your current wife, you're a man with no conscience.

    Your ex-girlfriend is certainly not a good thing, because he knows that you are married, and he is still disconnected with you, and he is obviously trying to break up your family.

    Now that you have a family, you should take your share of responsibility, you are no longer a child, think about it...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The wood is already in the boat, and he still has to entangle his past feelings, such a man is too irresponsible. You should be responsible for your actions, and since you are married, you should let the existing marriage go on and be responsible for the current family.

    Many men give themselves various reasons, in fact, they just don't want to be responsible, if they don't want to be responsible, why did they choose to get married in the first place? Not being in touch shouldn't be a reason, not getting in touch is because you don't have enough confidence and love for your ex-girlfriend, you don't insist, you choose to give up. Since you have given up, you should pay for your own renunciation, and you should not let your current wife pay.

    In addition to being worthy of oneself, one should also be worthy of one's family, parents, and society. If you choose to divorce, your family will be in chaos, and you will be condemned by your conscience, your family, and society for the rest of your life, and your life will not be associated with happiness. At the same time, you can't bring happiness to your ex-girlfriend, who will also spend her life in shame.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You are a very useless man Maybe it seems too much for me to say this Your indecision hurts two women Feelings are not child's play Marriage should not be sloppy, you are already married Just treat your current wife well Do you want to divorce Then go to that ex-girlfriend In case someone already has a partner What do you say you should do I see you live a good life The deep love between the two does not mean that they will come together Your current wife is very good to you What is not content with you Try to accept her Maybe one day you will find that your current wife is no worse than your previous girlfriend, and you will be glad that you have chosen now.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is very happy to have a wife who depends on you for everything, and many people can't ask for it all their lives, so you don't want to be in the midst of happiness and not know the blessing. You say that your ex-girlfriend also loves you very much, but her love has not yet gone through the test of married life, and the performance when you are in love cannot be equated with the performance after you really become a husband and wife. Your wife respects you and obeys you so much that you will have fewer troubles for a long time to come.

    You should definitely cherish her and love her! As for the ex-girlfriend, let's use it as a good memory, don't develop it anymore, after all, many things in life, in the past, let it pass forever.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you can't forget your ex-girlfriend, it's better to tell your wife what is going on in your heart, because you can't be with her physically and psychologically have betrayed, and that's not fair to her.

    If your wife can understand and give you time to forget, then you'd better try to forget. If you really can't forget, then divorce, but it's better to discuss it with your wife. After all, she's not wrong, and you should respect her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You've been in touch with your ex-girlfriend, how can you forget about her? It's easy to forget a person. As long as there is no more contact. No longer know the other person's news. You didn't plan to live with your wife at all. So what are you marrying?

    Even if the marriage is given, it is responsible for the marriage. You can guarantee that you and your ex-girlfriend will not get divorced and will live for the rest of your life.

    You'd better stop contacting your ex-girlfriend. Otherwise, you won't be able to talk about the rest of your life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Now that you're married, accept the reality, after all, it's your own choice.

    Don't hurt the people around you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Divorce! Why do you want to marry her if you don't love her? You're harming an innocent woman! And since you're in love with your ex-girlfriend, why aren't you together? Make the right choice! Liberate three people...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I can understand you, I also love my ex-girlfriend dearly and have no feelings for my own wife. Marriage is completely when I get old enough to get married, but I will never break ties with my ex-girlfriend again.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't love my wife anymore, and I should continue to live for the sake of my children. Because I don't think it's important whether you love or not, it's important that you have a suitable personality to live together. Then you say you don't love your wife now, you used to choose to be with her, you must have liked her, when you married her, she was young and beautiful, you have a passionate love for her, you will chase her very hard, and then marry her home very hard.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is not easy to run a marriage, we should be cautious when choosing a marriage, we should be responsible for ourselves, for our partners, and for the children you may have. Instead of a few years later, when it comes to the day when you get tired of it, you say softly: I don't love anymore. If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think that if a man and a woman have different personalities, they really can't get along with each other, and they can't live together, and I think I understand and support divorce in such a situation. Personality incompatibility can't get by, instead of quarreling and fighting every day, and often family wars, it's better to get a divorce.

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