College is more chaotic than high school, I feel unmotivated, and I don t have a plan for the future

Updated on educate 2024-02-25
61 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is not good, you have to enter the university circle as soon as possible, don't waste your time, you are admitted to the university, in addition to you, you are more happy than your relatives. Now you should sort out your head as soon as possible and understand why you are in this situation, whether it is because you are not good at studying, or because you are addicted to playing games, or because falling in love has affected your study mood, or you yourself don't know what is going on, if so, it is recommended that you find your homeroom teacher, and the director of education can also talk to them about your situation, and ask them to help you find out the reasons why you cannot integrate into the university circle now, and then solve the problem according to the reasons. You study hard, not only for yourself, but also for your loved ones, so that you can live a good life in the future.

    I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, if you are miserable, struggling to live every day, sad about your depravity, then you are at least awake, this is the first step. Next, plan well Is there an urgent need to do, such as English or something, if not, then what will you want to do in the future, take some certificates for what you want to do (although you can't take the certificate as a starting point, but this society is so, you must have) but don't be blind, you must need or what you like in the future, don't waste time. Of course, this is the immediate goal for now.

    Later, you'll have to plan for yourself. If you're really bored, take a look at your favorite books, find some spiritual sustenance, and remember to update them from time to time.

    Kindness, life or life is meaningless, in the process to seek meaning and self-improvement. You'll be fine, won't you?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    University is ignorant, but you have to have a plan, otherwise you will be very confused, not suitable for social life, you can participate in more club activities, deal with people more, and integrate into society.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Think about it, if you don't learn something well now, it will be very painful when you enter the society, and the theory and practice are not as good as others, you should think about your future, people still need some motivation and goals.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    High school is struggling for college.,Someone calls you to study all day long.。。。 But college is different, no one cares, classes can be skipped, homework can be handed in... But when you think about getting out of school, you won't be able to do anything, and it's too late...

    I don't do much of it, but it seems like I have to make a goal and work for it, and I think everyone is like that

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's the joy of you and Ben not having found college! Actually, college is a lot busier than high school, but you don't want to be busy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is a book that says well, "20 years old, is used to be confused" is normal, everyone is the same, but "young, hurt", now you may be in the morning of your life at one o'clock, everything is in time, do whatever you want to do.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You are responsible for your future life. Learn your major well to become at least the best in one field and keep striving for excellence!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is something that every college student is sure to experience, to relax, or to travel, to see more, and maybe you will find something new.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's all like this, but don't be confused, think about your parents, learn from your friends, and you will have to rely on yourself in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Set yourself a goal and work towards it every day.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's rare to have time in life to feel the chaos of life, take advantage of it, and you will miss your college years in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Think about what you want to achieve most right now, write it down, and do your best to achieve it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's the same, it's an abnormal life, you can start with exercise to improve it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Alas, if you find your purpose on a day like this, you're halfway there.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just set a realistic goal.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you really test you in college, everything is planned to go smoothly, and you can't find the direction to take electives.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Me too. But I want to learn something else.,Something that has nothing to do with the major.。。 It's just that the courage is not good.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    yes, I don't want to go to class lately, so I'm hiding in the dormitory to play on the computer.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After graduation, you will know what the meaning of college is, this will take time to answer, and you may not believe what others say, but you will know it when the time comes.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Think about how you will enter society in a few years.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You girl, you don't dare to be messy when you come out to work, pig's head.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Find a place to intern and get hit

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The most important thing is that you feel happy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Let's make an object, or you can learn something interesting. Find a direction to learn, whatever it is. Even if you like to play games, there is a lot to look into.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Haha, you college monks, I just dropped out of high school because I knew that it was useless to go to college. What did you say about me in the first place? Say I don't understand the persistence, deserve it. When you choose, you have to pay for your choice.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you can't learn anything in college, then exercise your body! Giving yourself a strong body is also a reward. Run 5,000 kilometers a day. Once in the morning and once in the evening! Cure-all!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's sad that a person doesn't know what they like to do. Actually, you have a lot of things in your heart that you want to do, but you don't know how to do that. Follow your heart and choose to do what you love so that you won't regret it.

    At the same time, you have a goal to move forward, so why not?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When I went to eat in a hotel and a small restaurant, I wondered if those two young chefs would be classmates back then. One went to an Internet café during a break, and the other was still practicing knife skills during a break, etc. Today's efforts may not pay off tomorrow, but opportunities are only open to those who give.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Study hard and reserve strength for the future! Otherwise, you'll have to feel like that for the rest of your life!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hehe, since I have chosen college, I am destined to experience this, people who have gone to college and those who have not gone to college are different, and the teachers said so at the beginning, I just became a freshman this year, and I also have that kind of muddy and nightmare feeling. But I guess it's only temporary, after all, if you choose, you should stick to it, right? What's more, in the bottom of my heart, everyone has his own dreams, believe you too, come on!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It seems that you really don't have a direction yet, and I was like that when I was a sophomore. Later, I found that the most painful time is this time, once you start to act, no matter how tired you are, you will feel fulfilled, so you have to know what you want, what kind of life you like, think about it, don't be lazy, don't be affected.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hurry up and study, or you'll be dumbfounded by the end of your senior year!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I would say that I happened to be a sophomore as well.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Let's take a few more useful certificates, and it will be useful to find a job.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Don't worry, by the time you're in your senior year, you'll figure it out.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Direction is an extension of interest and character.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Set yourself a small goal first, such as taking an English level 6 exam, such as getting a national scholarship.

    Aim for something that you can establish at any time, as long as you can put your mind down and study, which is actually readily available in college.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    High school students are forced to study, teachers are strict, and they do homework every day! So the teacher leaves the homework according to the plan, and the student can complete the task, and the result will come out naturally. And when I get to college, I don't have a teacher to leave homework, so I have to manage myself and take the initiative to study and complete my studies!

    This requires you to take the initiative to study, organize your notes, take the initiative to go to the library to read books, exercise in a planned way, participate in social activities, and so on. So make your own plan, make a realistic plan, and strictly adhere to the time to fulfill! Thunder can't move and go according to the plan!

    Over time, your habits will be formed!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    The goal of high school is very clear, which is to go to university.

    When you go to college, you don't know what to do, because you haven't thought about what you're going to do in the future?

    Or is your life goal not clear enough?

    Set small goals and try some careers.

    Do a good job of career planning.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    When you go to college, you feel that you have no goal, and if you are in a nightmare all day, it will be a nightmare for you, and if you don't work hard now, then you will have to pay it back slowly in the future, because in college I think it is the best opportunity to study, and it is the best opportunity to make contacts.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Set yourself a goal, there are many certificates that can be taken in college, such as English level 4 or 6, computer level 2, which can completely enrich your life.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If you don't have a goal, set a goal, compared to a single goal in high school, you can choose more goals in college, for example, you can mix a student council president like the seniors, or you can learn from a certain student to win two international awards! Even started a ...... in school

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You can be poor, you can have no clothes, you can't eat enough, but you can't be confused, you can't not make friends, multiple friends and multiple roads, and many skills are not pressing. Life is your own, you have to run it well! Optimistic, come on!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    In a new environment, you will definitely be unfamiliar, lost, and confused are inevitable, set a goal for yourself, such as the English level 4 or 6 test, participate in some activities, competitions, etc., do something meaningful, and enrich your university life.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Re-establish your goals, keep yourself busy, make your life more fulfilling, you can participate in some sports activities, you can strengthen your physique, improve your immunity and maintain your health; You can also participate in club activities to expand your social skills and expand your circle of friends.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Drop out of school and take the test again. Or go and get a job.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    High school life is not the same as college life High school life is more tense A bunch of people are chasing you behind you If you don't work hard, you will fall behind And college is more like a free-range breed There are not so many people chasing after you and you start to relax College is a great test of self-control Learn every professional course well It will definitely be useful to enter the society in the future Force yourself to work hard Go to the library.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    You should set a goal and have something to do to live your life to the fullest. Make every day of college a fulfilling and meaningful!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If a person has no goal, he will wander at the crossroads of life all day long, you want to change the status quo, the standard of Weiyi is to find a good position, you have to know what you can do, what your goal is, so that you can change,

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Think about what you want to earn money after graduating from college, and you will have a goal.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Don't relax yourself when you go to college, because you may not be able to find a good job after graduation, and even if you don't study hard, you may not be able to complete your studies.

    Nowadays, the social pressure is very high, and if you want to get out of this situation, you must make a college plan or goal for yourself. There is no need to set it too high at the beginning, you can improve it step by step.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    After going to university, without the guidance of teachers, I had to rely on myself to plan everything and be independent. Therefore, many people have no goals after going to college, and they feel that life is just to get by. So first of all, you should let yourself learn to be independent, and then plan what you want to study, what goals you want to achieve, and what kind of fulfillment you want to get in your university life.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Then you have to be clear about your goals, think about whether you plan to work or go to graduate school in four years, and then just go towards this goal, just take classes well and get good grades.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Think about your parents, think back to what your dream was to go to college? You fought so hard to get into college, did you just give up? If you feel that your current life makes you very satisfied, then you might as well go to work, earn your own money and go to school, maybe in that period you will know where your motivation is?

    Don't give up.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Let's catch up, although I graduated, I hung up three subjects at that time, and I still graduated, and I have been admitted to graduate school for two years, and now it's not very good. It's not terrible to fail the course, but it's terrible to be discouraged.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Don't be too entangled, you are a very responsible child, the average college student is very casual, I have hung a few courses in college, and now I have been admitted to graduate school, you already have a sense of responsibility to move forward, much stronger than those who get by, indifferent college students, adjust your mentality, clarify your goals, don't force yourself too tightly, take your time, don't always let a moment of frustration affect yourself, that is nothing on your future road.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    You can realize that your state is not right, it means that your sense of self-motivation is still very strong, you can understand when you first arrive at the university, the environment has changed a lot from high school to college, and you still have not adapted psychologically, it is recommended that you have time to read Lu Yao's "Ordinary World", "Life", look at Lao Luo's speech, take these as fuel for life to move forward, motivation can only be created by yourself, no matter what, don't put too much pressure on yourself, Bai Yansong's recent new book "Are You Happy" and lectures, you can go and listen, maybe it will help you

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    There is no good way, you can learn if you can, and if you don't want to learn, you can't learn.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    Mixed colleges, not all like this.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    It's good to have this idea that you still want to improve.

    The university does not consider beforehand. Go to a high school first. When you get to high school, you can think about college.

    In the third year of junior high school, you can combine your own scores in each big exam and the high school admission scores over the years to estimate whether you can be admitted to high school. If you can or about the same, then go to school. Whether you want to go to school or become a trainee in the future, the level of cultural knowledge can help you well in the future.

    Not motivated to learn? What motivation do you want. Without learning motivation, you can complete the homework assigned by the teacher every day, do a good job in the test papers, do a good job in the test, and do a good job in review. I believe that if you do these well, you will not be bad.

    If you love fantasy, you must always remind yourself, be sober, and do what you should do at the moment. No matter what you do later, concentration is an ability. Even if you want to be a trainee in the future, so many trainees are selected every year, and the competition can be imagined.

    No trainee debuts by fantasy.

    Personally, there are still a few months to take the middle school exam, first take the third year of junior high school, no matter what you do in the future, learning more knowledge will only be good for you. After you finish the high school entrance examination, you can have a lot of time to get to know the trainees when you wait for the score line.

    It's very common to fall in love when you're a student, but someone who has to bother you with falling in love when you're about to take the high school entrance exam won't be a good person. Do more.

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