How do you evaluate the relationship between teachers and parents in China?

I think parents are even more tired! Because I am also a parent, my son is a junior this year, and my daughter is in the fourth grade. I raised both of these children and grew up with my own eyes!

I know everything about them at home and at school best because I have experienced and seen them first-hand and have never been away from my children because I want my children to be different and better off than I am. Since I gave birth to my child, I have been very careful to educate my child, and I will follow the direction I point. My son has been very competitive since he entered kindergarten until 2016, and he has never been in the top three.

I didn't take a make-up class, and I was successfully admitted to a prestigious university in the first year. My daughter is also very good, I have not been out of the top three, I have a deep experience: no matter what teachers I meet, if parents are not concerned about their children, there is no clear direction to guide, counting on teachers and schools, they only have to earn money to support their families, and only give gifts to teachers during the New Year's holidays to invite dinner, and learn everything about children from the teacher's mouth, and in the end they deceive themselves and ruin their children!

I feel that ten years ago it was good, parents were generally grateful to teachers, but now they are more nervous, much like a doctor-patient conflict. I think it is not the problem of teachers and parents, it is the irrationality of the education mechanism that makes teachers and parents bear the contradictions that should not exist, and teachers and parents should love their children together and pay attention to their growth. However, the promotion rate and scores have alienated teachers and parents, forming a mutual distrust, and some parents believe that the school has the responsibility to let their children get high scores, and it is unscathed; Teachers bear the heavy burden on schools and parents, and are either blamed for not doing their best or taking inappropriate measures.

Even in a class, unified management, often due to the loss of pertinence and the result is not good, some parents do not want their children to get ahead, but the pressure of the teacher based on the promotion rate, the pressure on the students is too great, but also causes parents to be dissatisfied with the teacher, and the teacher feels that the parents do not cooperate with the work, the family situation is different, the student cognition is different, blindly take the promotion rate and scores as a unified standard, squeeze the teacher and parents, and form mutual distrust between them.

Respect for teachers is a good virtue, and an honest profession is glorious and hard, we were often beaten and scolded by teachers when we were children, and our parents didn't say anything. Today's children are too squeamish, and teachers don't dare to severely punish children, so we need to understand that teachers and teachers stand on the same front to cultivate and discipline children.

In fact, while the school cultivates children, it can only have the strong cooperation of parents to achieve substantial results. A teacher often has to deal with dozens of students, and it is impossible to take care of every child. Especially the kindergarten teachers, they are very hard, because the children are small, they are not controlled, it is inevitable that there will be some bumps, colds and fevers, teachers have no time to take care of it.

Once a parent attacks a teacher in a class group, it is very likely that parents will drive them away, which is very stressful for a preschool teacher who is not yet 20 years old, and they are afraid that the slightest mistake will cause dissatisfaction from parents. I am not a teacher, but I understand teachers, they are especially afraid of facing the attacks of parents, so it is recommended that parents can solve it separately when communicating with teachers, everything can be communicated, everyone's goal is the same, it is all for the children, there is no need to be an enemy of each other.

As a parent, I think I should understand the teacher and stand on the same page as the teacher. Teachers and parents have the same goal, both to nurture their children. Trust the teacher.

Don't complain about the teacher directly in front of the child because you have time for the teacher to criticize or use inappropriate corporal punishment. Students don't respect teachers, they don't like teachers in their hearts, and of course the students suffer the most.

If something is unfair or the teacher does something inappropriate, we parents can communicate with the teacher privately. If our requirements are reasonable, we can understand the teacher, and the relationship between parents and teachers can be handled well, so that the child can respect the teacher more, trust the teacher, and be more conducive to the child's learning.

Parents are their children's first teachers! It's the words and deeds of parents that matter! If you don't accompany your children, you don't care about your children, you don't care about everything about your children, and you understand your children through the mouths of others, you are an unqualified parent.

If you think you can just earn money to support your family, then you should stop being whimsical and expecting your children to do something.

I can't figure out why the relationship between teachers and parents is now pitted against each other. Teachers are just ordinary people, they also have their own children and families, most of the teachers are very dedicated, we are very impatient with a child, not to mention that teachers are responsible for dozens of children? Let's understand their difficulties.

One is his own flesh and blood, selfless dedication, and the other is just a part-time worker, who finishes his work after earning money.

The relationship between parents and teachers was supposed to be a complementary partnership, but I don't know when it turned into antagonism。What kind of relationship should be maintained between parents and teachers? I think two people should belong to a partnership, after all, they have a common goal.

In fact, if you want your child to grow up healthier and have a good grade, you really need the joint efforts of parents and teachers.

For example, the teacher is responsible for the child's education in school, while the parent is responsible for supervising the child after class. Since it is a cooperative relationship, then there must be a certain amount of trust. But I don't know when it began, and the relationship between teachers and parents gradually became antagonistic.

Many parents, after learning that their children have been punished, run to school indiscriminately, which is a complaint. As a result, many teachers are walking on thin ice in educating children, and they dare not be light or heavy, and if they are light, their children will not be taught a lesson, and if they are heavy, they may be complained, and they will not be able to hold their jobs.

Therefore, it is really difficult for teachers in this regard, so that many teachers do not dare to educate children easily after being taught, so they let the children develop at will. There are also some teachers who are of low quality, and they throw all kinds of problems directly at parents. For example, parents should correct their children's homework, check their homework, supervise their children's homework, and so on.

Parents dare not speak out in the face of one arduous task after another, after all, their children are still in the hands of others, if teachers are dissatisfied and treat their children differently, it will really outweigh the losses.

It may be because of this one thing after another that the relationship between teachers and parents has become very delicate, and the cooperative relationship is carefully maintained almost every day, and this cooperation will break down if you are not careful. The reason for this is precisely because some parents are more sensitive, or some teachers are of low quality. Therefore, for the sake of children's grades, parents and teachers should still work together.

I think that teachers and parents should be in a relationship of mutual assistance and mutual achievement, because teachers are professionals and have a very good way in education, but it is impossible for him to know the child's performance at home, so if parents and teachers can cooperate with each other, then the child will get a better education, and will also get better help, so that he can develop his potential and become better.

The relationship between teachers and parents should be peaceful, solve students' problems together, and should take students to the next level.

The relationship between teachers and parents is still relatively harmonious, and there are many teachers who are very good, so the relationship with parents is also very good, which is also a good phenomenon.

Introduction: Nowadays, people are paying more and more attention to education, so the status of teachers in people's hearts is also constantly improving. In the minds of parents, teachers are also in a high position, because teachers will help children grow, let their children learn more knowledge, and be more polite.

So parents are very respectful of teachers.

The current society is a society that needs academic qualifications and knowledge, so the overall level of educators will be improved, and the status of educators in the hearts of parents will also become higher. Because the position of teacher is a very professional position, excellent teachers are very worthy of respect. In school, not only do students respect teachers, but parents also respect teachers.

But the teacher needs to be respected by the students and parents, and must be charismatic, capable, and a teacher with good moral and professional ability. Teachers should live up to expectations and strive to shine in this position.

Because in addition to family education, children will also receive social education and school education. In addition to spending more time at home, the other is at school, so the teacher also spends a lot of time. At this time, the teacher is like the child's second parent, so parents are also very relieved to leave their children to the teacher to educate.

At this time, parents and teachers will become more and more harmonious, and they will also pay attention to communication, and work together to help children learn and improve their grades. So now teachers and parents are more harmonious teachers, respect for parents, parents respect teachers, respect is also mutual.

With the development of society, the educational level of people in the whole society is getting higher and higher, and the moral level is getting higher and higher, so everyone's quality has changed. Now everyone's quality is also very high, they know how to get along with people, know how to respect people, and know how to communicate with people. These are all good phenomena, so the home and school will become more and more harmonious.

Teachers are in a very high position in the minds of parents, because parents feel that their children's academic performance is inseparable from teachers.

It is a special chain family with a high status, and many parents feel that as long as they have a particularly good relationship with the teacher, they will make their children's grades particularly high, which is the thought that every parent of Liang Yun will have.

In middle status, the teacher is the one who imparts knowledge to the child, and it is also very important in the hearts of parents.

Although she is also a teacher, she still has a sense of awe for her daughter's teacher, just like when she was in school. A lot of times I put myself in my shoes and imagine how my parents would feel when they faced me.

For the parents of students, it can be seen that most of them are very concerned about their children's performance in school and their children's position in the hearts of teachers.

However, only a very small number of parents occasionally communicate with teachers about their children's problems. Of course, there are also some parents who are good at flattering and protecting their calves. Some parents also want to communicate with the teacher, but they are too embarrassed to disturb the teacher, as if there is a sense of distance.

In fact, for me, parents are very welcome to work with me on the issue of children's education. After all, each child has their own uniqueness, parents are more clear about their children's personality and preferences, and with communication, teachers can teach in a targeted manner, prescribe the right medicine, and improve efficiency. Of course, teachers should also give feedback to parents on their children's performance in school, so that parents can educate their children's families in a timely manner.

Finally, home-school co-education is achieved.

When the teacher faces a class or even several classes, he can only take care of the overall situation, and sometimes he will be a little negligent about some details. But by communicating with each other, this negligence can be minimized.

Some people say that a teacher is someone who is not related to you by blood but who cares about you like a parent. In all fairness, this is indeed the case. Whether it's me to the children, or my teachers to me before.

In the past, when I met my former teacher on the street, I always wanted to hide from it, because my grades were not good at that time, and now I don't mix it up, I feel very guilty and embarrassed to face the teacher. In fact, this is not the case in the teacher's heart, no matter how successful you are, or nothing, even if it is a simple greeting, he is extremely pleased. This is also something that I realized after I became a teacher.

Parents and teachers are equal, and the goal is the same, both for the purpose of educating children well. I am now both a parent and a teacher, and I can appreciate this even more. Therefore, if you have any ideas or suggestions for your child's education, you can communicate with the teacher more.

I don't know when the position of many teachers in the minds of parents has become lower, and the image of many parents in the minds of teachers has also changed.

Investigate the reason, probably like this:

1.For many years, the whole society has been looking at money. Teachers regard teaching as a breadwinner, and parents see their children's education as being

Go to a good middle school, get a good university, get a good job. Teachers and parents are two of the most special roles in this society: they should both be for the sake of children.

Parents are for their own children, and teachers are for other people's children. Once all eyes are on money, education cannot change its taste.

2.Some teachers do not shy away from asking some parents for all kinds of gifts, and such teachers will naturally make parents look down on them. Naturally, the status of the teacher is lowered.

3.Some teachers hold tutorial classes on weekends, winter and summer vacations. Parents have to pay for their children and teachers. Fortunately, the state is rectifying extracurricular tutoring, and I believe it will brake this car.

4.Some teachers don't work teaching and educating people, and Hongyu makes parents look down on them.

5.Some teachers don't study students, can't keep up with students' growth, and can't make students admire.

6.Some teachers speak and act in a way that they don't look like a teacher, and they can't be admired by students and parents.

7.Some parents do not understand the ancient adage of "three years old to see the big and seven years old to see the old", and put the responsibility of education on the teacher. Let the teacher be helpless.

8.Some parents think that teachers are omnipotent and can teach all children well. Believe: There are no students who can't teach well, only teachers who can't teach. How can it be? It may be possible if teachers are allowed to teach children from the very beginning of their lives.

9.Some parents blame the teacher and the school when their child has an accident at school, so that the teacher does not have the courage to manage the student.

10.Some parents no longer regard teachers as human beings, despise teachers in their hearts, and even insult and beat teachers.

I think of the "Heaven and Earth Monarch Teacher" (or "Heaven and Earth Kingdom Teacher"). Now, it is true that there is such a tablet in the south of Minyan.

Teachers are respected just as much as parents, kings (nations), heavens, and earth. This is the heritage of our nation. You should inherit it.

Teachers, parents, and politicians should all learn and learn from God: self-improvement;

Learning from the ground: Virtue.

In this way, all kinds of relationships, I think it would be good.

Of course, the relationship between teachers and parents is good.