For feelings, can it only be improvised?

Don't give up, even though I've given up

Judging by what you say, I think you're thinking about falling in love with someone you crush and getting married (personal feelings) as soon as they show up.

People don't think that they can get married after falling in love once in their lives, and they find their love.

Don't be far-fetched to be with someone, it's a disservice to you and to him, I have a few female friends + elders around me who have been married for several years and got married in one relationship.

100% of them told me that they regretted that they had only been in love once and got married.

Sometimes give the people around you a chance, and maybe you'll find that it's actually not bad! It's not about you taking the initiative, it's about giving others a chance to express their love.

Fate is hard to find, as long as you go by feeling, marriage can be improvised, but feelings can't be improvised.

Rather lack than abuse! Otherwise, the pain in the future will be far greater than what you are now! This is my personal experience! Go your own way and let others say go!

Maybe it's really back like that, maybe the BG who really loves you loses him because of your rejection, and you can't come back if you lose, cherish the people in front of you, and try to accept the man who wants to pursue you Men have a good face, even if you don't like it, don't refuse it directly, that will not even be a friend! It's not easy for people to come to the world, don't love for a lifetime, and don't love because of loneliness Some people don't know what love is all their lives? A marriage without love is tiring

If you're interested, you can make a friend! Maybe I'm back to you "Him", hehe, just kidding!

Don't fall in love because you're lonely, or you'll be lonely forever.

Find someone who loves you Don't care about appearance, because the man who lives with you is a man who loves you, is good to you, loves you, is not a beautiful empty shell, the authorities are fans, you don't like to listen to what I say, I tell the truth, think about it, I'm also depressed, my boyfriend hates me very well, but he has a malignant tumor and now it's removed, and the instep is cut in half, I really don't know how to do it, I love him very much! I haven't told my family yet, I told my family that I don't agree, but sooner or later, I will know, it's really helpless, I'm taking one step at a time, and I'm talking about it when the time comes, and now I just want to cherish the time we spend together, you must grasp the happiness, he is not worth your effort

Look at the good in others and give it a try.

I already knew it when I was in love, there were many differences in the personalities of the two people, and at the beginning, I felt that I had a good impression and came together, but later I found that there were many contradictions between the two.

I knew a long time ago that two people really can't get together, mainly because if two people live together, they will break up one day, and it won't be so good forever.

When I found out that he didn't come to coax me after I had a fight with him, I found that the two of them really couldn't get by.

I think that married life can be improvised, but the quality of life will gradually decline, and even life will become meaningless.

Everyone has their own different views on the issue of married life, many people think that married life is two people improvised, and some people think that marriage is the most important thing in life, and it must not be improvised. In fact, in real life, most people's marriages seem to be improvised, because we can't find a truly perfect marriage. Wanton Wisdom.

Marriage binds two strangers together, making them the closest people in the legal sense who are not related by blood. When two people really live together, they will find that all kinds of contradictions emerge one after another, and the original good relationship seems to be only firewood, rice, oil and salt. But even so, the two of them will still make do with each other and continue to work hard every day to make a living.

There are also some girls who have their own careers before they get married, but after they get married, they are forced to become housewives and can only give up all their previous efforts.

Society is cruel, and so is married life. Since there are many things that we can't change, of course, we can only change ourselves. How many marriages are smooth sailing?

I believe that among the 100 marriages, only 1% can make do with it, do the remaining 99% have to choose divorce? It is precisely because many people are unwilling to make do with it that the divorce rate in the country is getting higher and higher.

Makeshift marriages are usually accompanied by a decline in the quality of life, because the two people are constantly in conflict, so there are often quarrels, every day because of all kinds of trivial things and anxiety, after having children, this improvisation will become worse.

In fact, the most important thing in marriage is one's own mentality, and for a person who is not satisfied, married life seems to be nothing but improvisation and pain. Therefore, we should still face up to our marriage, solve conflicts in a timely manner, try to make a good marriage, and strive to find fun in ordinary life.

Falling in love can't make do isBecause falling in love itself is a very beautiful thing, it is important to pay attention to one that would rather be lacking than excessive。IfBecause of loneliness, and make do with someone you don't like, thatEventuallyYesBecause of the spiritual emptiness, whileSelect Leave

In a relationship, two people will experience a lot, from firewood, rice, oil and salt to life and death, husband and wife have to go through these ups and downs hand in hand, if there is no tenacious relationship is difficult to do, so some people will be very painful, because they really can't have feelings with each other.

So many people are forcing themselves to love each other, obviously hating each other's character, but they still have to accept it, knowing that the other party's appearance is not in their own aesthetics, but they still have to praise each other for their good looks every day, kissing has become a means of motivation, and even sex life is an errand.

It's really hard to live like this. Today's pace of life is so fast, you are tired of running around all day outside, and you have to face a person you don't love when you go home, the family can't give you the slightest warmth, and it can't become your haven of relaxation, but you still have to work hard to be responsible for this family, such a painful entanglement for a lifetime, it feels terrible to think about.

Because we can't make do with our lives, the purpose of love is to get married. If you make do it all your life, you may not be able to make do with it, so you must find the right person when you fall in love, and don't make do with it.

When we fall in love, we are rushing to get married, we must not be able to make do with marriage, it is a lifelong event for a lifetime, and we must be together to fall in love and get married.

Falling in love is not getting married, two people will be tied together when they get married. When it comes to falling in love, two people are free, and if they don't fit in, they won't be together, so they won't make do.

When you fall in love, you talk about a mutual love, that is, you talk about a mutual liking, if two people are making do when they are in love, then there is no real feeling, why talk about it?

Because if you make do with a relationship, it won't end well. Even if you get married, it will be very bitter and unhappy, so you must have each other in love.

Of course, you can't make do with falling in love. In other words, falling in love would have been a happy thing. If you don't really care about it in your heart, the other party. Then this kind of love is very boring. It doesn't make sense at all.

Hello, the main thing is that love needs to be happy with each other, and at the same time force each other or make yourself unwilling, then there will be a big contradiction, and at the same time, it will also break down the relationship with each other.

Who would joke with their own body? Who would push their whole life into the fire pit? There are also some fools who don't take it seriously.

Because if you are in love, you must have a good feeling on both sides, and then this love talk can be happy, if you say that it is okay, then there is no need to fall in love at all, because love is a beautiful and sacred thing.

You can't make do with love, after all, love requires energy and sincerity, and it takes a lifetime of dating, so you have to take it seriously and don't make do.

Hello, feelings can't be forced, and they can't be improvised.

Only when you really like each other can you be happy together.

Since it is a relationship, you must take it seriously, talk wholeheartedly, and make plans for a lifetime, not perfunctory, not teasing, and not improvising.

can't make do, otherwise you will be unable to control it in the future and will commit a crime.

You can't make do with falling in love, you have no feelings for this person, you don't have a good feeling, even if you make do with it, it won't last long.

Because improvising love is unhappy and will cause contradictions in future family life, people don't like improvising love.

You really can't make do with falling in love, you don't have a common language and no feelings, and you won't be happy when you get married.

That person's emotions are uncontrollable, and when you fall in love, you are responsible for both parties, and if you are in love, you are not only irresponsible for your partner, but also for yourself.

Because falling in love is for the purpose of getting married, it is impossible to make do with falling in love, because marriage cannot be improvised.

It's true that you can't go abroad when you fall in love, if you go abroad, you will hurt people, and your feelings will hurt other people's feelings, resulting in a lifetime of pain and suffering.

When you fall in love, you must not be able to make do, and the improvisation of feelings cannot give people happiness. Everyone is like this, if a relationship is not suitable, there is no need to waste each other's time. Now it's just out of the stage of falling in love, and if you get married in the future, this kind of life will definitely be quite sad.

When you fall in love, you are also choosing someone who suits you. If you choose to make do when you are in love, such a relationship will be wrong from the beginning, and you will get married in the future, and the probability of divorce is very high.

1. When you fall in love, you need to find someone with the same three viewsWhen you fall in love, you have to find someone who has the same three views. Two people live together, and it is both parties who really live their lives. If the three views do not agree, noisy life is a long-term thing.

If the three views are compatible, such a relationship is perfect. On any issue, each other's decisions will be accepted.

Second, when it comes to falling in love, each other's personalities are very importantWhen it comes to falling in love, each other's personalities are crucial. If each other's personalities are very irritable and live together, it will cause a lot of conflicts in the future. Therefore, for a relationship, when choosing an object, it is also necessary to pay attention to the personality of the other party.

With good personalities, life will make each other sweet.

3. Good feelings, don't pay attention to improvisationGood feelings, don't pay attention to improvisation. In fact, once many people accept a makeshift marriage, they will feel that they are old, and if there is no suitable one, they will make do with it. For such a way of life, it will only ruin one's own life.

In fact, for a problem like a relationship, if you don't meet someone you recognize, you can choose a noble single.

Life needs to be fought for by one's own continuous efforts, and the same is true for love. Therefore, for a relationship, everyone needs to tell themselves that it is not suitable for their feelings and do not accept it. If you meet someone with different values from your own, if such a marriage is improvised, it is completely tortured in the heart.

A good marriage needs to be maintained by yourself. Therefore, a happy marriage is because you choose the right person when you fall in love.

Personally, I think that because falling in love will determine marriage, and my marriage will be the biggest thing in my life, so I must not make do when I fall in love, otherwise my happiness will be put into it.

I think because it takes time, time is money, and love is the premise of marriage, if you fall in love, not only do you spend time, energy, and money, but the person you may marry in the end is also a makeshift person, that is a lifetime thing, so you can't make do with love.

Falling in love requires two people to have feelings for each other, and if there is no feeling to make do with each other, there is no happiness for both people.

Love is the relationship between two people, and it is related to the future marriage event, so you need to be cautious, otherwise it will hurt the feelings of two people and delay each other.

Falling in love is like wearing shoes that don't fit, you will often feel uncomfortable physically and mentally, and you will hurt yourself, so why waste this energy and time.

The last thing you can do with your marriage is the most improvised.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and your partner is the person who has been with you the longest in your life, so marriage is the most improvisable in this life.

Many people may hastily find a passable person because of their age and make do with it for a lifetime. Marriage is not a transaction, it is not a good sharing of firewood, rice, oil, salt and wages and households, it is enough to distinguish who washes the dishes and who does the laundry, so many trivial details in life, if there is no love in your heart, how can you spend your life together together.

How many couples have been together for many years, and they are only willing to squeeze out their smiling faces when they are outside, and when they return home, they are only left with family affairs and disputes, and they are not even willing to pay for a long conversation. There are no sweet words and you and me in a makeshift marriage, leaving only disgust and impatience with each other, as well as mutual incomprehension.

Marriage is not just two people living together, they can't get along, only understanding, tolerance and love can make each other support each other, and go to the end without regrets.